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Craig28
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17 Oct 2010, 5:00 pm

Laz wrote:
You don't half make a tit of yourself craig


I don't think this forum could withstand the 50 pages of my life history explaining just why I am a tit. Do you?



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17 Oct 2010, 5:01 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
Laz wrote:
You don't half make a tit of yourself craig

18 bottles of piss and a matching t-shirt in the post to you now


This.

Anyways, trolls gonna troll I guess, eh?


Now I am going to have to call you out for assuming wrongly that I am a troll.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:04 pm

Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
Laz wrote:
You don't half make a tit of yourself craig

18 bottles of piss and a matching t-shirt in the post to you now


This.

Anyways, trolls gonna troll I guess, eh?


Now I am going to have to call you out for assuming wrongly that I am a troll.


Call me out for telling the truth you mean?

I'd ask you to explain what rational reason you could possibly have for what you said to happymusic, but trolls shouldn't be fed and I have more important things to do than argue with one.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:08 pm

*closes eyes tight and wishes for kitties and bubbles*



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17 Oct 2010, 5:09 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
Laz wrote:
You don't half make a tit of yourself craig

18 bottles of piss and a matching t-shirt in the post to you now


This.

Anyways, trolls gonna troll I guess, eh?


Now I am going to have to call you out for assuming wrongly that I am a troll.


Call me out for telling the truth you mean?

I'd ask you to explain what rational reason you could possibly have for what you said to happymusic, but trolls shouldn't be fed and I have more important things to do than argue with one.


Happymusic told me to read up on social history of relationships in the old days. My Aspie mind percieves that how it percieves that, throw in my sleepy state and the fact that I have not long been out of bed due to increased stress because of some as*hole NTs that are messing me around in my real life and who owe me a fair bit of money for sevices rendered, then you'd have the reason why I responded the way I did to the comment that Happymusic made.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:10 pm

If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:12 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.


This is a forum, to make an apology valid it has to be done face to face. Its pointless coming out with that. My apologising to Happymusic on here is on par with Hitler apologising to the Jews! OMG, I am actually dying of laughter here for what you just said to me! :lol:



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17 Oct 2010, 5:15 pm

Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.


This is a forum, to make an apology valid it has to be done face to face. Its pointless coming out with that.

people apologize frequently on the forum, or even retract or edit their statements. a written forum apology is valid, because the incident occurred in written form - on the forum itself.


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17 Oct 2010, 5:16 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
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If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.


This is a forum, to make an apology valid it has to be done face to face. Its pointless coming out with that.

people apologize frequently on the forum, or even retract or edit their statements. a written forum apology is valid, because the incident occurred in written form - on the forum itself.


Exactly.

I think that last comment just proved you to be even more of a troll TBH, Craig.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:18 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.


This is a forum, to make an apology valid it has to be done face to face. Its pointless coming out with that.

people apologize frequently on the forum, or even retract or edit their statements. a written forum apology is valid, because the incident occurred in written form - on the forum itself.


Exactly.

I think that last comment just proved you to be even more of a troll TBH, Craig.


So my apologsing to Happymusic would be trolling too then? I think so. Anyway, I ain't playing your troll games Asp-Z, your trying to trap me with your alpha Aspie thing because we are both the same and you want to come out on top.



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17 Oct 2010, 5:20 pm

Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
If that's the case, you should apologise to happymusic.


This is a forum, to make an apology valid it has to be done face to face. Its pointless coming out with that.

people apologize frequently on the forum, or even retract or edit their statements. a written forum apology is valid, because the incident occurred in written form - on the forum itself.


Exactly.

I think that last comment just proved you to be even more of a troll TBH, Craig.


So my apologsing to Happymusic would be trolling too then? I think so. Anyway, I ain't playing your troll games Asp-Z, your trying to trap me with your alpha Aspie thing because we are both the same and you want to come out on top.

no, apologizing to happymusic is the right thing to do, and it would make you look like less of a troll.


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17 Oct 2010, 5:21 pm

Craig28 wrote:
So my apologsing to Happymusic would be trolling too then? I think so.


The hell did you get that idea from?

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Anyway, I ain't playing your troll games Asp-Z, your trying to trap me with your alpha Aspie thing because we are both the same and you want to come out on top.


:?

Now you're just not making any damn sense! :lol:



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17 Oct 2010, 6:25 pm

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Yeah, an undiagnosed Aspie giving me advice! I die with laughter. :lol:


One can only hope.



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17 Oct 2010, 6:30 pm

LKL wrote:
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Yeah, an undiagnosed Aspie giving me advice! I die with laughter. :lol:


One can only hope.


Be careful what you wish for.



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17 Oct 2010, 7:14 pm

Jesus Christ.



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17 Oct 2010, 7:56 pm

I haven't read any of other response yet, so I'll answer honestly.

Playfulness is a quality I look for in a relationship. I like to have fun and tease back and forth without getting too serious. I also would like that person to be capable of having an intelligent conversation. We should share the same basic philosophies on life. I am not big with arguments and drama. Each should be willing to do things for the other even though they may not completely agree with it or find it as enjoyable as the other-give and take. I am not big into suffocation. Each should be able to do things independently of each other and have there own space. Sex is important of course. It should be a fun and important part of the relationship.

I think both should be able to learn from each other and should help each other to succeed in their lives- the whole is greater the sum of the parts. I like a woman that can be feminine and maybe a little old-fashioned in some ways at least part of the time. But, I don't want a pushover; I can get a puppy for that. That is my immediate stream of thought. There is probably more if I thought more deeply about it. I am not sure if that is coherent or not.