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13 Nov 2010, 6:30 pm

nathang wrote:
Creatures that fail to adapt to their environment and surroundings go extinct.


This hit the nail on the head so hard it deserves to be quoted.



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13 Nov 2010, 6:34 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
nathang wrote:
Creatures that fail to adapt to their environment and surroundings go extinct.


This hit the nail on the head so hard it deserves to be quoted.


maybe he's happier for going toward extinction.



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13 Nov 2010, 6:38 pm

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kenM most probably committed suicide , got jailed or found a woman.

I am certainly sure it's one of the 3.


Sounds like quite a guy.


He had the same attitude as this guy, except he was 41, hated women, made threads about how all women should burn in hell, wouldn't change and wouldn't help himself.

really, i'm coming to realize that his attitude is not at all rare on WP. i went and dug up some of KenM's posts, and his misogyny reminded me a great deal of some of the more recent posters on the board. :pale:


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13 Nov 2010, 6:39 pm

alexptrans wrote:
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kenM most probably committed suicide , got jailed or found a woman.

I am certainly sure it's one of the 3.


Sounds like quite a guy.



There's a rumor that he's forming the Sodini cult and planning for an evil anti-female doom day, he would call it "the inquisition day".

KenM , the prophet!!

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13 Nov 2010, 7:14 pm

The way you write and express yourself it sounds me you're smart enough to get out of this mess.
Assuming you're in despair, have you ever thought about going to another country (ex. south america) to teach English?
There's a huge lack of native speakers here and virtually all of them have as much work as they want and a very confortable life.


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13 Nov 2010, 7:19 pm

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Creatures that fail to adapt to their environment and surroundings go extinct. Adaptation is a very good thing, I highly recommend you try it, or at least think about it. Works for me :D


Do any of you read? I told you people I already tried this.


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I've tried changing, I've tried to do that for better part of the past 8 years. I've tried to fake interest in the stupid pop culture sh** people are into, I've tried at one point into time to dress with the latest fashion. It's never worked. No matter hard I tried I never fit in. So after awhile I said f it, I'm going to be myself and if people aren't going accept me forget them. I keep trying to tell you people that it's them not me, they're the ones that need changing.


Looking back on it was pretty stupid. I don't like mainstream music, I don't watch MTV, Jersey Shore VH1, etc. And I think buying new clothes just impress people is pretty stupid, especially when I could spend the money on fun stuff that I enjoy. I don't like drinking, making fun of and talking down to people, talking behind folks back, and just being plain rude to people when all they've done was just be nice.

If that's what you call "adapting" or "comforming" then it's obvious who needs changing and it's not me.



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13 Nov 2010, 7:21 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
alexptrans wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kenM most probably committed suicide , got jailed or found a woman.

I am certainly sure it's one of the 3.


Sounds like quite a guy.


He had the same attitude as this guy, except he was 41, hated women, made threads about how all women should burn in hell, wouldn't change and wouldn't help himself.



I think think all men should burn in hell expect me



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13 Nov 2010, 8:06 pm

well you made your bed, you gotta sleep in it. I'm not talking about you, AspieGuy.



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13 Nov 2010, 10:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
alexptrans wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kenM most probably committed suicide , got jailed or found a woman.

I am certainly sure it's one of the 3.


Sounds like quite a guy.



There's a rumor that he's forming the Sodini cult and planning for an evil anti-female doom day, he would call it "the inquisition day".

KenM , the prophet!!

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Lol sorry I couldn't help but laugh out loud at this.



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13 Nov 2010, 10:23 pm

I've been watching this thread just out of morbid curiosity.

MR20: in reference to your original question, your desire for a relationship is %100 completely hopeless until:
1) You learn some basic hygiene.
2) You quit expecting the world to change to accommodate you without meeting them at least halfway.
That is just the start of what you will have to do to get a girl.


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13 Nov 2010, 11:08 pm

John_Browning wrote:
I've been watching this thread just out of morbid curiosity.

MR20: in reference to your original question, your desire for a relationship is %100 completely hopeless until:
1) You learn some basic hygiene.
2) You quit expecting the world to change to accommodate you without meeting them at least halfway.
That is just the start of what you will have to do to get a girl.


No decent looking girl would ever want me. I'm extremely ugly, I'm stupid and slow, I'm poor, I'm jobless and I have no education for a future career in anything. I'm boring, annoying, uninteresting and can't carry a conversation with a dog. Along with my hygiene problems, I'm not exactly someone that you can brag to your friends/family about being with.

It's hopeless really.



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13 Nov 2010, 11:15 pm

MR20 wrote:
1)No decent looking girl would ever want me.

2)I'm extremely ugly, I'm stupid and slow, I'm poor, I'm jobless and I have no education for a future career in anything. I'm boring, annoying, uninteresting and can't carry a conversation with a dog. Along with my hygiene problems, I'm not exactly someone that you can brag to your friends/family about being with.

It's hopeless really.


Then to get someone you need to either lower your standards or improve yourself. Theres no shortcut except win the lotto and get shallow girls all over you.



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13 Nov 2010, 11:38 pm

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13 Nov 2010, 11:47 pm

Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!



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14 Nov 2010, 12:05 am

hale_bopp wrote:
MR20 wrote:
1)No decent looking girl would ever want me.

2)I'm extremely ugly, I'm stupid and slow, I'm poor, I'm jobless and I have no education for a future career in anything. I'm boring, annoying, uninteresting and can't carry a conversation with a dog. Along with my hygiene problems, I'm not exactly someone that you can brag to your friends/family about being with.

It's hopeless really.


Then to get someone you need to either lower your standards or improve yourself. Theres no shortcut except win the lotto and get shallow girls all over you.


How low? To crackheads, mental patients, and the mentally challeged/ret*d? I'd probably struggle with them lol



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14 Nov 2010, 1:00 am

lkathryn wrote:
Aw MR20 that's really sad!! !! !

I hope things work out for you, I really do. We all have our problems, it just seems like you've got a little more to deal with than most. You can pull through this, it's gonna be okay. Don't give up on life! I know that's the most cheeseball thing in the world but just hang in there. :) I'll pray for you!!

Also from your posts it seems like your conversational skills aren't as bad as you make them sound. Join a club or a group, get some practice on people!! ! That's what I do. :) There's a niche for everyone, you just have to do some searching.

Best of luck!! !!


You're way too nice for this forum.