What are the advantages of dating Aspie girls?

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I would date both aspie girls and NT girls as long as I was both attracted to them and liked them as a person. But there are far more aspie men than aspie women and if an aspie woman wants to date an aspie man she has a clear advantage compared to an aspie man wanting to date an aspie woman.

Hi,

I am not an aspie . . .I think I'm close to NT , , ,but anyway.... there is someone new in my life that is ( my GFs son)

From 'my point of view'
. . .the bad vibes you get form the other person when pushed into (or you do on your own) a social situation are because AS is not 'obvious' to any one.
. . the first impression I formed when I met this person : "the bluntness almost borders on being rude"
. .I later learned of the person being an aspie . . .
. . .I took the time to learn , , ,and attempt to understand
. . . .I can better communicate with that person . . .we are slowly becomming 'friends'

If you, as an aspie, or me as not, approached a person with no eyes, we'd probably undertand they do not have a concept of 'seeing'. We both would understand a person with one leg having a problem with walking . . .

Without some 'quickly visible' indicator, it is almost impossible to 'know ahead of time' that I'm about to deal/communicate with an aspie, or a codependent, (me) or a bipolar, or . . .an alcholoic (was me too) for all that matters if the meeting is during a period of sobriety. Can't tell the good guy from a bad guy without a score card.

Speaking of 'absent an indicator' . . .I was on the downhill . . .ending it . . .yes, self termination . . .
. .nobody, not wife (now ex), children, bosses, 'friends' recognized or reached out . . .
. . .as a codep, I was very adept at hiding my emotions

Thank you for the opportuinty to learn , understand . . .

I would have to say that I would most likely benefit me because of the understanding of Aspergers they may have. they will understand all your shortcomings and you will theirs. I can be more confident and they can to because of this understanding. Symbiotic. Maybe I'm just too selfless.

I could ask them if they wanted to kiss my birdies and they would not take offense or be grossed out, but what would I no I'm no expert on the matter I've only meet 2 aspie women in my life time.

I kiss my birdies all the time.

Most Nt's think birds are disgusting things that poo every where , people even kill crows

Well, of course all AS girls (and AS people) are different. I've seen AS girls who wear weird clothes, don't want to go out very much, and don't have a sense of humor. And I've seen others who are quite cute and have cool (albeit odd) interests.

As for just me...if a guy likes me, it's usually for my personality (I'm very blunt and honest, but a very good friend) and sense of humor. I probably think more like a guy, but I'm still feminine, and that's attractive to some guys.