Seriously guys...

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If you think that what the girls talk about is "worse," then why the hell are you interested in them anyway? You'd be better off just forgetting about them entirely. Either that, or put up an ad/profile whatever that indicates exactly what you don't like and aren't looking for, and give some insight into what you ARE looking for. Sooner or later someone will respond.

I don't hate females, but I hate a lot of things that a great deal of them like to do, so whenever I went looking for a girlfriend, I made sure they knew about that. For instance, I can't stand makeup. I think it's ridiculous. I wanna see how she looks, not how she can make herself look. That, and a lot of times when girls put it on, I feel they make themselves look like clowns more than anything. Nobody has friggin' purple eyelids, and it looks stupid. I can ALWAYS tell when someone's wearing makeup, and I have to say I always think they look better without it. They look more real that way.

And I don't understand why they go thru painful things like wearing high heels to "look sexy," especially when I and most guys I know couldn't give two s**ts about what's on her feet. If anything, high heels make you look less sexy because when I see you wearing them, I think, "wow, that person's pretty dumb, purposely hurting her own feet to look "better." Supposedly the idea behind heels is that they make the butt stick out more or at a different angle or some crap, whatever. If your butt looks good, it looks good at any angle, period. And I'm pretty sure that no matter what it looks like, SOMEONE out there will like it.

The best advice I can give anyone who's trying to find a potential mate is to BE YOURSELF, and by that I mean be upfront and honest about your intentions. If you think something might be a problem down the road, you should probably address it as soon as possible, before you get attached and end up hurting their feelings or getting your own feelings hurt. If you take advice from everybody else and start acting differently than who you are, you're being deceitful. I think dating would be so much simpler if we stopped asking one another what the "rules" are. It's not a game, or at least it shouldn't be, but so many people see it that way and act accordingly. Just be yourself and be honest. If you don't, you're gonna have to keep putting up a front, which will stress you out, and when it all comes crashing down, look out.

pisses me off

Well, I do my best and really do try but sometimes it just seem like women are getting it too easy, like they act silly and still have men come up to them and ask them out. Im like always stuck in ''friend zone'' it frustatin when I can talk to woman but I can never get women romanticly interest in me. Im always the ''cool guy to talk to''. the ''nice guy''.

I agree 100% with all of this. Nothing else to add, really. Nice one.

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Did you enjoy bogan day yesterday sorry Melbourne Cup , not sure which is worse the cup or "Australia Day" the former makes me laugh at least the latter makes me scared, whatever you do not ride biscyle on that day or any other when you think about it

Friggin bogans .

If that's the case, then it just goes to show that each gender has different priorities. It doesn't mean the world is necessarily biased to make everything easier for women. You can't blame women for the fact that the men are attracted to ditsy women. You can't really even blame men for it either; it's in their nature to either enjoy that or simply not care because they just wanna get their dicks wet(which is honestly what happens a lot of the time, I think, and men will put up with A LOT of BS to be able to get their dicks wet).

So... when you go looking for a mate, do you seek out the silly ditsy ones? If so, stop doing that. Seek out intelligent, capable women instead, and I bet they won't judge you in the exact same way. Also, do you try to establish friendships with women and then later try to pour your unrequited love for them all over the floor in one big mess? If so, don't do that either. For one thing, she might be a bit upset that you pretended to want friendship when you really wanted a mate. For another, real life doesn't work like a romantic comedy. It's extremely rare(if it even ever happens at all) that a man and woman who started out as friends end up falling for each other. If a woman meets you and has no romantic feelings for you, she's not GOING TO. You're not going to make her "see the light," so don't even try. I'm not saying don't have female friends... I'm just saying don't expect any of them to ever be anything more than a friend.

I can't say without seeing what's going on firsthand, and even then, I might not really have a clue, but it could be that you're just not sending out the right signals. You might not be conveying to women in the right way that you have an interest in being more than friends. Unfortunately, a lot of times, trying to simply be respectful and not force yourself on them gets read as not being interested in them physically or emotionally.

Thus force yourself on them and don't really respect their limits?

well, no I don't look for silly type ladies. Most of the women I hit on or talk to are 19-20 years old that work at the gym I go to.
Yeah, I hear you about if a woman has no romantic feeling for me then she is never going to.
I don't know I just want to get lucky, go up to some 20 year old woman and talk to her and right there she fall in love with me.
Has not happen yet.

You might start trying women who aren't a decade younger than you.

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yellowwallpaper, is there a point to the above?

it sucks because being passive gets a guy friend-zoned but being aggressive makes you come across as desperate, needy, stalkerish

You can be in the middle too, it's something called "balanced".

Being balanced, as well as not trying so hard.

HAHAHAHAHA.