Preference for overweight women

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22 Mar 2011, 2:44 am

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If someone makes Jersey Shore look like a PHD class there's a lot less shame for someone who would enjoy "intimate encounters" with Snooki....


Wouldn't you be afraid you'd come away from the encounter smeared with orange? :?


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22 Mar 2011, 2:46 am

Used motor oil is far worse than anything a girl could have on her....TOM blood included.


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22 Mar 2011, 2:47 am

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22 Mar 2011, 2:51 am

Bethie wrote:
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Well it's hard not to when someone displays stupidity that would make Jersey shore look like a phd class.


I'm pretty shocked my depiction of my personal sentiments on this person from page 2 hasn't been deleted. :lol:


The kid asked for it. I would wrestle him he's so tiny, my beached whale of a body would snap his wee one in two.



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22 Mar 2011, 3:21 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I find it interesting that y'all know the BMI is a poor measure if someone is overweight, but then quote statistics based on the BMI.


I believe the BMI is a rough guide, but doesnt take into account people who are outliers. For example I was Underweight for most of my 20s but that is because I am of asiatic descent and the BMI seems to be made for European people who are bigger boned than me.

Also, 140 is very overweight for me, getting towards obese, but I have a friend who is 5"3 and when she was the same weight she seemed to be merely overweight.


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22 Mar 2011, 3:56 am

Bethie wrote:
Your post brightened my day-
I'm overweight (always have been)
and it's lovely when I get a glimpse of hope that I might not wind up all alone.

:D



You definitely won't end up alone, you're quite beautiful.

Maybe it's because of how my brain is wired that I like overweight women, specifically the pear shape where most of the weight is carried on the hips, thighs and butt. African American men typically like this look too. I always tell women I'm friends with not to bother losing weight because they look great the way they are, at least I think they do. But, because of my anxiety, especially with women I find attractive, most of the time I don't interact much with them, so it's hard to land myself a date. I'm sure that if I had the guts I could bring their self esteem up by complimenting them, and thus easily land myself a date, or a friend, just very hard to do. Some of my friends think it's funny, that when a bunch if attractive women walk by, I'm checking out the overweight ones while they are checking out the thinner girls. I suppose it's not an Aspie thing at all, just my personal preference.



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22 Mar 2011, 4:02 am

How about some sympathy for the sub-group I sometimes belong to - The Skinny Fat Guy. Thin arms and legs, but a cookie filled barrel of a body. Women like chubby guys like hobbit Sam, and slim guys like Hobbit Frodo., but skinny-fats are the worst. I gotta get off the cookies.



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22 Mar 2011, 5:02 am

hill-o-beans wrote:
How about some sympathy for the sub-group I sometimes belong to - The Skinny Fat Guy. Thin arms and legs, but a cookie filled barrel of a body. Women like chubby guys like hobbit Sam, and slim guys like Hobbit Frodo., but skinny-fats are the worst. I gotta get off the cookies.


Seems like whatever part that's most likely to retain fat is fetishized for each gender-
for men, it's "washboard abs",
for women, it's a small, firm, perky rear.

:?


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22 Mar 2011, 8:01 am

Bethie wrote:
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You probably read it right, that way seems to agree with Bethie's statistics. I always thought obese and overweight were mutually exclusive terminologies. After all nobody says "I'm overweight AND obese!" I'm damned to be under 190 my whole life unless I work out like 3 hours a day, then I might could push beyond 190 in raw muscle. Just the way my family works.


They're exclusive distinctions, but not mutually-
someone who is obese IS overweight,
but one doesn't have to be obese to be considered overweight-
similar to the way a vegan is a vegetarian, but that doesn't specifically denote their further differences from the "norm".
It's also entirely possible I'm being overly-etymological with "overweight". :?

The stats I was referencing are from the CDC, and they're only recent as of 2007-2008, I think,
though I doubt the percentages have done anything but grown.

I wasn't appealing to the BMI before,
merely pointing out that,
for *someone* (cough, cough!)
who forms aesthetic/health opinions based on a simplistic height + weight ratio,
and then by that very ratio declares that women who are arguably-average (in my opinion) are "big",
his perceptions of women's size seem to be completely-divorced from any actual statistical NORM.


*cough* *cough* , you're cute ....you know ...cough cough , water? anyone? cough cough



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22 Mar 2011, 11:38 am

I don't have a problem with overweight women at all... if anything, they tend to be less vain (not always, but often), and most importantly, they're more likely to like me back. I'm not exactly rail-thin myself. I've been cursed with packing both muscle and fat...



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22 Mar 2011, 1:14 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
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Us men do not like overweight women, period!

We do not like size zero models either!


Goddamn it, I wish I hadn't deleted that LAZ sig.

But it goes along the lines of, you have a severe character defect when you claim to speak for 3+ Billion men on the planet.


Fo Sure! 8)


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22 Mar 2011, 1:18 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I find it interesting that y'all know the BMI is a poor measure if someone is overweight, but then quote statistics based on the BMI.


I believe the BMI is a rough guide, but doesnt take into account people who are outliers. For example I was Underweight for most of my 20s but that is because I am of asiatic descent and the BMI seems to be made for European people who are bigger boned than me.

Also, 140 is very overweight for me, getting towards obese, but I have a friend who is 5"3 and when she was the same weight she seemed to be merely overweight.


It's not even a rough guide. The BMI was developed to show a demographic in a very specific country. That was it, really.


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22 Mar 2011, 8:13 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Bethie wrote:
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Well it's hard not to when someone displays stupidity that would make Jersey shore look like a phd class.


I'm pretty shocked my depiction of my personal sentiments on this person from page 2 hasn't been deleted. :lol:


The kid asked for it. I would wrestle him he's so tiny, my beached whale of a body would snap his wee one in two.


How is 6'2" and 165 pounds tiny (i was 168 the other day actually)?

This is why i think low of fat women when they make comments like that!

I have to fight for every pound I have, its not like i don't have issues with my weight either. I have horrible body image issues. What I hate is when girls who are really skinny claim that theyre too fat and when girls say they are curvy when in reality they are fat.

Are women really this sensative about their weight?



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22 Mar 2011, 8:14 pm

Are you really that sensitive about you AND their weight?


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22 Mar 2011, 8:17 pm

what do you mean? am i sensative about them or me?



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22 Mar 2011, 8:18 pm

trojan51 wrote:

This is why i think low of fat women when they make comments like that!


I'm not fat though. I just think you're an idiot.
Women don't like skinny men. None of them. All 3+ billion of us on the planet.

Do you honestly not think some overweight women try as hard to lose weight as you try to gain it? Yet here you are bashing them because you think the world is a carbon copy of you and your mother. :lol: :lol:



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