At what age do most Aspies have sex for the very first time?

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heh. day before my 17th bday. was with the dude for 3 1/2 years.

Since we broke up I didn't get any action for over a year, noone even hit on me! I just had a summer fling tho; have slept with two guys now.

There's this great online advice column called "Dear Sugar" at therumpus.net that I follow religiously. One of the questions that she answered was from a 23-year old virgin. It adressed the "wanting sex but not knowing where or how to get it" question: Dear Sugar: The Unrolling

I just started following this advice. My first "sex without attachments" experience has been really positive for me. It was definitely hard at first, because I knew I would probably never see or talk to this guy again after he left. Certainly no sort of relationship would come out of it, and my ultimate desire is to have a fun, interesting, hot boyfriend who I can get down and dirty with. But as Sugar says, everyone wants that and it won't happen instantly or your first time.

I'm just trying to gain experience right now in different sort of intimate situations so that if the right guy comes along, I won't be so emotionally fragile, inexperienced, clingy, and quick to become attached. I want to be a strong and independent woman who can bring guys moaning to their knees and walk away from them if it isn't working out. I don't want to latch on to the first guy that shows me some attention. I think it is healthy to casually screw people (if you can emotionally handle it) in order to become less obsessive and overly-analytical about sex and love.

Idiot sinners, claiming casual sex is normal and healthy. It's an excuse for people to feel superior to other people that doesn't get as much "action" as them. NTM they have no morals or self control.

Sex is a beautiful thing that should only be experienced in marriage.

hey MR20, dont shove your ideals down my throat and i wont shove mine down yours. comprende compadre?

These religious nutjob trolls make for terrific entertainment.

I can't imagine why anyone would say that about you. You seem so nice.

Did I mention that I lost my gay virginity with my gay boyfriend when we had gay sex at the age of 17? I remember it like it was yesterday, all gay and underage. Our genitals were outside our clothes and inside each other and everything. We weren't even married!

Oh dear.

Anyways, returning to this thread, odd question: if I were to say, lose it in my 20's, would telling them you're a virgin beforehand make them run a mile or laugh at you? Or would it not matter since a lot of virginities are apparently lost whilst being sloshed on alcohol so they wouldn't care?

8 years old with a family friend she was 16. "the baby sitter" I was torcher not achive again till I was 15.
As to it biblicaly its only wrong if the woman is maried then you are steeling another mans property.