At what age do most Aspies kiss for the very first time?

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How old were you?
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I want to! 29%  29%  [ 85 ]
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I don't want to. 4%  4%  [ 13 ]
Under -14 15%  15%  [ 44 ]
14-16 17%  17%  [ 49 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 40 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 28 ]
20-25 8%  8%  [ 22 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 8 ]
30-35 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
35-40 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 292

LikeGreenAndBlue
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10 Jun 2011, 11:54 am

I know a guy who is over 50 years old and never had a girlfriend but he is pretty disabled. Such people do exist, they are simply not the most visible ones in society.

Not everyone has the same luck in life. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.

PS. Another one from the Internet claims he 55 years old and never had a girlfriend. I don't know if his story is true or not though.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index ... 556AAA8mO7



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10 Jun 2011, 12:25 pm

LikeGreenAndBlue wrote:
I know a guy who is over 50 years old and never had a girlfriend but he is pretty disabled. Such people do exist, they are simply not the most visible ones in society.

Not everyone has the same luck in life. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.

PS. Another one from the Internet claims he 55 years old and never had a girlfriend. I don't know if his story is true or not though.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index ... 556AAA8mO7


Then again my aunt is like 41, paralysed and hasnt left her bed in many many years.



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11 Jun 2011, 10:54 am

I first got kissed when I was nine, my second kiss happened when I was 15, and then the third when I was 18 (yeah, I've only been kissed three times). All three were french kisses though, and I hated every experience. Those girls liked me, but I didn't like them, so suffice it to say that these kisses were very uncomfortable. The first time a girl french-kissed me (when I was nine) I didn't realize she was kissing me, and I was breathing through my mouth before she started, so that when she was kissing me I couldn't breathe.



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12 Jun 2011, 3:35 am

I had my first kiss at 16, and in the past 2 years I have kissed more girls than I can count on my fingers and toes. My first kiss was extremely awkward, and she asked why I kept my mouth shut. I tols her I was super nervous, and she said she could tell I was very tense. She asked me to try it again though, and I apparently got it right because we were glued together for about the next 30 minutes.


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13 Jun 2011, 5:15 am

It kind of depends.
My freshman year of High school (15 or 16). I wound up in a drama class. We mostly dit short skits once a week. One script called for me to kiss a girl. I herd she had a boyfriend at anoter school and that werided me out. I know people who are in to Pollyamery. I see nothing wrong with it moraly but I still don't like the idea of kissing someone's girlfriend.
When I was 26 I was at a club very drunk and dancing with a girl who I just met. For some reason we started to make out
Latter that same year I met another girl at the same club who I went on a few dates with. We kised after our first date.



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14 Jun 2011, 4:10 pm

I had my first kiss in the second grade it was amazin she was a nice girl we dated for a while



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07 Jul 2011, 7:19 pm

Never been kissed. :(

But hopefully my first kiss will be special. :)



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07 Jul 2011, 7:51 pm

j5689 wrote:
MXH wrote:
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MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.
It means a person who didn't get a particular thing until they were older than the majority of people who had already gotten it.

In this example, someone who gets the first kiss a lot later than most people.


To me, it just sounds like some kind of euphemism. I'm noticing from the poll on this thread that most people who have been kissed experienced their first one before age 18. People will apply the "late bloomer" appellation to me as some method of half-hearted reassurance ("oh you'll get to experience it someday"), while it's really more than likely that I will never be able to...



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07 Jul 2011, 7:55 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
j5689 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.
It means a person who didn't get a particular thing until they were older than the majority of people who had already gotten it.

In this example, someone who gets the first kiss a lot later than most people.


To me, it just sounds like some kind of euphemism. I'm noticing from the poll on this thread that most people who have been kissed experienced their first one before age 18. People will apply the "late bloomer" appellation to me as some method of half-hearted reassurance ("oh you'll get to experience it someday"), while it's really more than likely that I will never be able to...

good to know someone thinks similar to me.



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07 Jul 2011, 8:28 pm

I think I was 7 and he was 6 in back of the house. It was on a dare probably. Other kisses more memorable were 11 years and on.



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07 Jul 2011, 9:02 pm

15, and far more stressful than the first time I had sex because I was stone-cold sober.

We're still "friends" on FB, but mostly out of politeness...



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07 Jul 2011, 11:36 pm

I was 22 and unwilling. Just couldn't dodge it quite fast enough. :lol:



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08 Jul 2011, 3:37 am

I was 18. It was during the first few weeks of university and it was with the guy who lived in the room opposite.



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11 Jul 2011, 5:16 am

Technically under 14 playing truth or dare. That doesn't really count. 16 and I got my first girlfriend at 17.


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11 Jul 2011, 6:48 am

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11 Jul 2011, 7:01 am

I'm 16 and never kissed, but I don't care. What's the appeal to it anyway? :?