Shadowgirl and I are in love!! !

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Guys, we aren't restraining desires to have sex. WE DO NOT HAVE ANY DESIRES FOR SEX. What on Earth is wrong with not having sex? Huh? What's wrong with not having sex?

Nothing, and I wish you the best of luck.

first, grats... i'm happy for you two

second... i think a lot of the animosity generated on this thread is because you are responding overly defensively... as an aspie yourself, you should know an aspie's sense of humor might be a little off... but then, later in the thread, i see you taking glee in contributing to this downward cycle of the thread and not just merely over-reacting... you lost any argumentive leverage you ever had, right there (popcorn? wtf?). you should have LOLed when that person suggested it, to help pacify things and keep everything open. i'm not saying you're covering for inadequate sexual feelings... just a poor sense of social judgment; another aspie trait...

third... that horny girl bit... that's just plain wrong. how can you sit on your high seat and condemn people for misunderstanding asexuality (making generalizations)... when you do the exact same thing about sexuality? this is another point where you lost any sort of logical argumentive leverage you ever had.

forth... a technical question: i'm not sure which of you two is the guy; but i have a question just about asexuality in general for a guy (just cause it's easier to imagine in a girl; at least on a physical level)... without getting too graphic, do you (the guy) get erections and (if so) is it weird cause what could you be feeling other than something sexual? you can pm me or whatever... i'm just genuinely curious... i'm not interested in contributing to this fued.


to wrap it up, don't let people ruffle your feathers! like machine mentioned, the fact that you display your asexuality, kinda implies you're comfortable and proud of it (which you should be... but you need both, it's not good to have one or the other). i think if you had just made the thread about your new found love... then the responses would have been more along the lines of what you were expecting.

good luck to the both of you

Intriging.

indeed.

well happy post valentines for Gman and Shadowgirl. and many happy returns and all that bloody jazz.

oh and to the poster who has been making fun of those who are asexual, homosexual, and or bisexual. Please stop, you have crossed a line very much so that the fact that I'm a nice guy would normally lead me to punch someone for making a line about the community.

I have many good friends who are either gay or bi, and I find ANYONE who makes a crack like that is obviously asking for trouble.

I think there is nothing wrong with being Asexual. In my opinion, being in a relationship and not having feelings towards where you want to **** the other person is a really good thing. It means that the nature of your relationship is about getting to know each other, in a NON SEXUAL way and exploring the values that each person holds dear.

hmm. nuff said. rant over.

---Doc Gamester---

Unlikely. I've never been one to seek anyone since I'm a loner type. Trust me I have had 33 in total chances with someone but I rejected each time saying I was better off alone and not a gf type. Eventhough I got different results from gnulinuxman I'm still like that.
Plus thats wrong and immoral to cheat like it says in the Bible.

yeah.


so.

wait.

confused.


Shadows.

are you and Gman still together or not?

I'm confused Asexual means? Also Congrats.

It means that you have no sexual desires or urges at the current time, however that does mean it could change.

No he became a real jerk and he treated me like trash so on presidents day I dumped his behind. Trust me I'm happier without that weight latched on to me. Plus he was mean to my family.

hahahahaha

Look we made up, we're best friends, and we've both decided we don't want romantic relationships with anyone. But we're closer than ever now.

And if that makes no sense to you...well, just know that neither of us are accepting hit-ons.

Good for you.

That's good, at least you remained good friends after you fell out with each other.

Good for you. I can't believe all the prior abuse that went on in this thread. Honestly, I can fully understand a relationship without sex, something like a friendship, but with permanence to it.

pinpointing the exact date when you fell in love :/.....after knowing eachother for a few weeks......

ill keep my comments to myself. *scratches head*

Hehe, it's all over.