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21 Aug 2011, 1:43 am

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Either way, I have no idea what an autistic clown looks like. Hmm. Any references? I honestly do not think many women would mind, only the really superficial / insecure ones. If you get to really like someone, why would you care what other people think. That is just silly.


I could probably find better (worse), but I think I look particularly Aspie in this one:

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Here's my NT evaluation of your posture and facial expression:

Your face looks depressed and your slumped posture indicates a lack of self-esteem. Other than that, I can't detect "autism" in your picture but I can imagine that waddling or some kind of funny gait might be a little out of the norm and would probably turn off many "normal girls". Also, yes, unusual regulation of facial expressions turns off many normal girls, but there are girls who don't care.



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21 Aug 2011, 1:48 am

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Here's what I consider too Aspie for me: Not being able to demonstrate any kind of sexual interest in me at all.


But how much sexual interest is too much? Show too much sexual interest, and you are a creep, women will run away for.


Most NT women look for "subtlety" in expressing sexual interest, especially nonverbal gestures and innuendos. Anything direct and straightforward is too much to many.



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21 Aug 2011, 9:40 am

You never get these things right. Why cannot these things be easier?



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21 Aug 2011, 2:48 pm

I'd say I'm probably too aspie. I'm okay with that for now, though.


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