05 Sep 2011, 11:31 pm
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
05 Sep 2011, 11:42 pm
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
It could be worse... at least if people ask why you don't have a job or what not, you can just say that you're "slow". I'm not saying you actually are, i'm just saying that you can use it as an excuse regardless of whether it's the "truth" or not. Me, on the other hand, I completed a bachelor's degree, and yet I can't find a job either. I'm sitting in my parents house with no job and no girlfriend either. I'm ugly and poor (with a college debt to boot), and can't get anywhere in life either. And the worst part is I can't say I have a developmental problem. Because people say "oh but you finished college, you can't have a problem if you were able to pull that off". So, instead of being "slow" or "dumb", i've become something several orders of magnitude worse: useless...
05 Sep 2011, 11:44 pm
06 Sep 2011, 1:09 am
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
EDIT: MR20, I said some nasty things I probably shouldn't have said. I was probably more mad at someone else in real life than at you, man.
I deleted most of what I said, except this part:
Quote:
You're better than all this.
And that's the truth because it isn't your fault. Sorry if I hurt your feelings.
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06 Sep 2011, 1:38 am
Synecdoche wrote:
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
You know what I think?
I think you are an over-loved, spoiled brat who thinks everyone should be like you. In order to justify your lack of self-worth, you try to have the world adapt to your standards. You're not a sweet, nice guy; you're a dictator.
You expect the world to come to you and you won't shift around or try to adventure out of your own life, even though you desire it. Because you want nothing more than to control the world with your own limited understanding and thus, when reality meets up with you, you can't handle it. Why? Because the truth is one of those things you can't control and you know it. So, when a true nice guy like MountZion offers you some advice, you try to pass it off and excuse your own actions, without even considering what he meant or how it could be accomplished.
You are the definition of a loser and I don't mean that as an insult. It's just the lifestyle you've adopted....because you're the kind of guy who doesn't consider other people's thoughts or feelings.....And that's why, like those jerks, you don't deserve the girl either.
But you're better than all this. You just don't know it yet, do you?
That was so uncalled for.
He whines a lot about himself, true, but he never stated or said that others should be like him, none he ever tried to enforce anything.
Seriously, some people here really don't consider what might be the mental state of the people they're replying.
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06 Sep 2011, 4:02 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Synecdoche wrote:
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
You know what I think?
I think you are an over-loved, spoiled brat who thinks everyone should be like you. In order to justify your lack of self-worth, you try to have the world adapt to your standards. You're not a sweet, nice guy; you're a dictator.
You expect the world to come to you and you won't shift around or try to adventure out of your own life, even though you desire it. Because you want nothing more than to control the world with your own limited understanding and thus, when reality meets up with you, you can't handle it. Why? Because the truth is one of those things you can't control and you know it. So, when a true nice guy like MountZion offers you some advice, you try to pass it off and excuse your own actions, without even considering what he meant or how it could be accomplished.
You are the definition of a loser and I don't mean that as an insult. It's just the lifestyle you've adopted....because you're the kind of guy who doesn't consider other people's thoughts or feelings.....And that's why, like those jerks, you don't deserve the girl either.
But you're better than all this. You just don't know it yet, do you?
That was so uncalled for.
He whines a lot about himself, true, but he never stated or said that others should be like then, none he ever tried to enforce anything.
Seriously, some people here really don't consider what might be the mental state of the people they're replying.
Yeah, I guess I get pretty mean sometimes. I probably shouldn't have called him those names. I guess I was kind of pissed off that he was degrading himself. But you know, getting angry at someone won't help them either.
You did a good thing calling me out. You're a true, genuine nice guy.
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06 Sep 2011, 5:36 am
Synecdoche wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Synecdoche wrote:
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
You know what I think?
I think you are an over-loved, spoiled brat who thinks everyone should be like you. In order to justify your lack of self-worth, you try to have the world adapt to your standards. You're not a sweet, nice guy; you're a dictator.
You expect the world to come to you and you won't shift around or try to adventure out of your own life, even though you desire it. Because you want nothing more than to control the world with your own limited understanding and thus, when reality meets up with you, you can't handle it. Why? Because the truth is one of those things you can't control and you know it. So, when a true nice guy like MountZion offers you some advice, you try to pass it off and excuse your own actions, without even considering what he meant or how it could be accomplished.
You are the definition of a loser and I don't mean that as an insult. It's just the lifestyle you've adopted....because you're the kind of guy who doesn't consider other people's thoughts or feelings.....And that's why, like those jerks, you don't deserve the girl either.
But you're better than all this. You just don't know it yet, do you?
That was so uncalled for.
He whines a lot about himself, true, but he never stated or said that others should be like then, none he ever tried to enforce anything.
Seriously, some people here really don't consider what might be the mental state of the people they're replying.
You're a true, genuine nice guy.
* Embarrassed* .... Synecdoche!! you can't do this!! ! You ruined all chances, you can't expose ..... urgghhh.....whatever!!
Ladies, don't believe him, I am not "nice" nor genuine nice, I am not sweet at all, I am the jerkiest dude here ! !!
06 Sep 2011, 6:46 am
Synecdoche wrote:
You're a true, genuine nice guy.
That's freakin' cold...
Boo is neither "nice" nor "sweet" - he is an arrogant jerk, got it?
(I got your back, bro
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06 Sep 2011, 7:30 am
I think that's the thing between 'sweet' and 'nice'. A girl telling a guy he's sweet is like saying he's cool +, it still doesn't really have a pejorative or floormat connotation. To this day though when and if I do get 'you're nice' - I have to bust her b's on it a little, afterall its her social faux pa not mine.
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06 Sep 2011, 8:32 am
Grisha wrote:
Synecdoche wrote:
You're a true, genuine nice guy.
That's freakin' cold...
Boo is neither "nice" nor "sweet" - he is an arrogant jerk, got it?
(I got your back, bro
)Year, hear me roaring.....
*Rawr*
I bite too, like a bad dog.
06 Sep 2011, 9:31 am
MR20 wrote:
MountZion wrote:
MR20 wrote:
Yeah I've always been genuinely nice ( as in I'm nice because that's the kinda person I am, not because I want favors in return) yet I get shitted on by girls and watch them date douchebag bullies and other as*holes.
There's nothing wrong with being genuinely nice at all. But as you get older, you will begin to realise that there are a plethora of attributes you can allocate to your character (it's likely that you already have some on top of being "nice")
I'm 25. I'm already "older". How can I acquire other attributes? I'm too stupid, weak minded, and slow to be in college, I'm boring and lack "swag" or charisma (never had it) and I have clue how to communicate and/or socialize with people. I'm ugly and poor, and there's nothing I can really do to change that. I basically lack any features that a girl/women would probably want in a man.
And tell anyone who thinks your stupid to F*** off or just ignore them
It's hard to ignore many people calling you stupid and slow. If you hear that long enough it's probably true.
. Take up a martial art, that will put a stop to the insults Unlike evil people in the world, I could never harm someone unless my life or my sister/grandma's life is in danger
Of course you can still acquire attributes. Of course you're not stupid or weak to go to college. Nobody is. The only people that are, usually are that way because they TELL themselves that they are stupid and weak and slow. Stop telling yourself.
Whatever, everytime I post stuff to help you, you slip into defensive mode and start believing in your supposed weaknesses. I wish people realised they can change their own reality, much like I'm doing at the moment. It's bloody hard, but I'm getting there. Just do it man. And yes, ignore those people, or like I said, tell them to f*** right off.
And there's nothing wrong with learning a martial art, so you can protect yourself, and you will also acquire discipline, it will help you become physically and mentally quicker, and you will be more calm as a result and less angry at the world. You can change being poor.......hell, you can even change being ugly!! !
Just do something different. At least so nobody has to tell you this stuff over and over again. Tell yourself. Look in the mirror and repeat:
I'm not stupid, I'm not slow. I'm not ugly. I will be rich. I will have a fulfilling life.
Just do it man.
06 Sep 2011, 10:35 am
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