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22 Jan 2012, 9:48 pm

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I explained my point perfectly, saying it's hogwash doesn't change that, point out the bits that are hogwash.

People often don't do it for reproductive purposes consciously, but are bodies function that way in order to facilitate it. If you are attracted to somebody oft he same agenda, pre-pubescents or post-menstrual women, then you are faulty. Trying to pretend it's just as good as being attracted to fertile members of the opposite sex is self delusion. I'm sorry that nature is so boigoted against homosexuals, gerontophiles, and paedophiles (maybe not sorry for the last one) but thats the way it is. Have a cry and move on with it.

Saying homosexuals are faulty is extremely offensive

yes. sent a message to the member.


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22 Jan 2012, 11:47 pm

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So I was talking to my friend the other day and she said in a long term relationship, you need someone to be like a best friend, who understands you and you can share your life with. You need to be able to be friends with your partner. So I was thinking, a lot of people want someone who they have similar interests, values, things in common, and are kinda like them. Well of course you don't want them to be a mirror image of you. So I was thinking, why not just date someone of the same sex. Why are we so focused on heterosexuality? Sure we can still find someone of the opposite sex too but wouldn't people have a higher chance at finding there soul mates if they dated the same sex too?


That's like asking a gay guy why he doesn't date girls and why he's so focused on homosexuality. -_-

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22 Jan 2012, 11:53 pm

I can't really get close to other females. They confuse me, and often frustrate me with their girly stuff. :?


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23 Jan 2012, 1:53 am

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I can't really get close to other females. They confuse me, and often frustrate me with their girly stuff. :?


Yeah, same here. But then... boobs! Such a dilemma :scratch:



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23 Jan 2012, 1:54 am

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I can't really get close to other females. They confuse me, and often frustrate me with their girly stuff. :?


Yeah, same here. But then... boobs! Such a dilemma :scratch:


Yeah. boobs. Bacon. Boobs.



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23 Jan 2012, 1:57 am

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I can't really get close to other females. They confuse me, and often frustrate me with their girly stuff. :?


Yeah, same here. But then... boobs! Such a dilemma :scratch:


Yeah. boobs. Bacon. Boobs.


Wait, what? How did bacon get in there?

On second thought, you know, bacon really does make EVERYTHING better :lol:



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23 Jan 2012, 2:11 am

So I guess you guys can't accept the fact that you can have a deep, emotional relationship with the same sex that can satisfy your need for a soulmate. I understand



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23 Jan 2012, 2:14 am

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So I guess you guys can't accept the fact that you can have a deep, emotional relationship with the same sex that can satisfy your need for a soulmate. I understand


It's called a bromance, and it's no substitute for a partner you're sexually attracted to.


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23 Jan 2012, 2:20 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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So I guess you guys can't accept the fact that you can have a deep, emotional relationship with the same sex that can satisfy your need for a soulmate. I understand


It's called a bromance, and it's no substitute for a partner you're sexually attracted to.


Yeah. It took me til my mid 20s to realize and admit that even though I totally don't get girly girls, and generally try to avoid them, I'm most attracted to very feminine women.



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23 Jan 2012, 2:33 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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So I guess you guys can't accept the fact that you can have a deep, emotional relationship with the same sex that can satisfy your need for a soulmate. I understand


It's called a bromance, and it's no substitute for a partner you're sexually attracted to.


Soulmate + sex can't be beat. I miss being married...I have bacon though.



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23 Jan 2012, 2:41 am

I don't miss being married, but I do kind of miss having someone I can have sex with. :lol:


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23 Jan 2012, 3:06 am

ehh what about all you aspie guys who can't get laid anyways...just trying to suggest an alternative



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23 Jan 2012, 3:12 am

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ehh what about all you aspie guys who can't get laid anyways...just trying to suggest an alternative


And what of the aspie females that can't get laid?

Honestly, 'just go gay' is not a viable solution.


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23 Jan 2012, 4:08 am

Sexuality is not a choice. Going gay was never an option for me.

Also, sexuality is very important for me in a relationship. Most often times,I have dumped a girl in the past is due to not putting out. Yep, I'm shallow.

That said, I'm married and we're doing quite well in that department, so I'm one of the,lucky ones.


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23 Jan 2012, 4:11 am

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So I was talking to my friend the other day and she said in a long term relationship, you need someone to be like a best friend, who understands you and you can share your life with. You need to be able to be friends with your partner. So I was thinking, a lot of people want someone who they have similar interests, values, things in common, and are kinda like them. Well of course you don't want them to be a mirror image of you. So I was thinking, why not just date someone of the same sex. Why are we so focused on heterosexuality? Sure we can still find someone of the opposite sex too but wouldn't people have a higher chance at finding there soul mates if they dated the same sex too?


Because I like breasts and vagina, and don't like the idea of giving fellatio & receiving anal penetration. What people do in their personal lives is completely up to them, but as far as I'm concerned it's women I'm attracted to, it isn't rocket science.

I can't tell if you are being serious with this question or inadvertently insulting other peoples intelligence. Or both.


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23 Jan 2012, 3:43 pm

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So I was talking to my friend the other day and she said in a long term relationship, you need someone to be like a best friend, who understands you and you can share your life with. You need to be able to be friends with your partner. So I was thinking, a lot of people want someone who they have similar interests, values, things in common, and are kinda like them. Well of course you don't want them to be a mirror image of you. So I was thinking, why not just date someone of the same sex. Why are we so focused on heterosexuality? Sure we can still find someone of the opposite sex too but wouldn't people have a higher chance at finding there soul mates if they dated the same sex too?


Because I like breasts and vagina, and don't like the idea of giving fellatio & receiving anal penetration. What people do in their personal lives is completely up to them, but as far as I'm concerned it's women I'm attracted to, it isn't rocket science.

I can't tell if you are being serious with this question or inadvertently insulting other peoples intelligence. Or both.


I was being serious. I guess I didn't articulate myself in a correct manner. My psych and I were talking about the concept of a soulmate. And she said it didn't have to be a romantic partner. I guess were talking about the concept of someone to share your life with, someone who gets you and understands you. Now days, its wrapped up in this "one" person concept. I doesn't have to be someone who you need to be sexually attracted to. I was talking an emotional bond. Cause if sex isnt there, I think the relationship has a better chance of survival then if the emotional aspect is not there.