Who made it to 40 and remained a Virgin?

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Sirius
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03 May 2012, 2:52 pm

auntblabby wrote:

"you attract more flies [the kind which unzip] with honey than with vinegar."

So true, just that the years wore on me, I still manage to pick myself up now and then:)

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03 May 2012, 7:19 pm

auntblabby wrote:

"you attract more flies [the kind which unzip] with honey than with vinegar."

Whenever I whip it out in public I personally find that it doesn't affect my unzip ratio regardless of whether I cover it in honey or vinegar.

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04 May 2012, 11:13 pm

crmoore wrote:

32 this year with no signs of "losing it" anytime in the near future. By that I mean no girlfriend and have never so much as asked a girl to go out a cup of coffee, to say nothing of having sex with her. Sheesh, I even have problems TYPING the word "sex," so what hope do I have of even having any?

I can relate. I seem to have an irrational fear of anything to do with sex.

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05 May 2012, 12:57 am

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Haha, that doesn't mean anything, the second time I lost mine I had no clue it was going down untill she was standing in my room and was taking off her cloths. :lol:

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05 May 2012, 12:11 pm

solo wrote:

I'm 27 and nothin for me either :cry:

Something I will never admit to anyone I know because the ones I know will look down on me for it. I cannot talk to women, and I very rarely get any chance to meet them because A-work a lot, B-too tired at the end of work to go anywhere, C-don't have anyone I can call a "friend" to go places with, only accuaintences. I don't like going places alone most of the time. I don't fit in anywhere so I mainly keep to myself, but when an oppurtunity comes along to possibly connect with someone, I do my best to try. I am not into casual sex, only with someone if I am in a commited relationship. I am dead against cheating also. Never had a relationship so here I am. Had an oppurtunity for sex once but didn't go for it because she was not into being faithful at all, so I passed. I fear that my no-knowledge of society and relationships has screwed me big time and that it may be too late to ever find happiness. I have always wanted the things that most want, wife / soulmate (lol) love, family, the works, but with being who I am I am kinda giving up hope at this point in my life. My mom used to say that she wants grandkids from me all the time for years. Now she hasn't said it in a few years. People know. I want way more than sex, I want the whole damn package. My bro just tells me to buy a hooker. That goes against everything I thought of.

Wow! I had to ask myself "Did I somehow unconsciously write this??" The giveaway (aside from the age) that I hadn't was the "Had an opportunity" part. The closest I had ever gotten was my first full-on mouth kiss by a girl when I was 16... I'm now 47. I refuse to go pay for it just to "lose" it and risk picking something else up in the process.

I haven't lost all hope yet as it's one of the few things that gets me out of bed every day. That and bills. Yeah, I'm silly that way.

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05 May 2012, 4:32 pm

raises hand :oops:

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07 May 2012, 3:06 am

I'll make it. Just another decade.

(I'm glad I am.)

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11 Jun 2012, 11:10 pm

CetiAlpha5 wrote:

solo wrote:

I'm 27 and nothin for me either :cry:

I haven't lost all hope yet as it's one of the few things that gets me out of bed every day. That and bills. Yeah, I'm silly that way.

CetiAlpha5, I am glad you said that. I at least know I am not alone (and in the same ballpark age wise) and yes, I will try and not lose hope.

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12 Jun 2012, 10:26 pm

I'm 38 and am still a virgin. I had a few chances to change that but turned them down because I wasn't in a relationship with the other person. I don't really need a pity f**k. What I want and can't get is a relationship. At this point I would rather have someone to cuddle with than have sex.

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13 Jun 2012, 6:33 pm

I lost it at 23, it was a one-time thing. I was dating a jerk, he was constantly pressuring me to do it, so I finally gave in. And then I broke up with him the next day.

Now, two years later, I'm having my first real sexual relationship with a guy I've been dating for nearly a year. Sex really isn't that great. I'm really starting to wish this relationship wasn't sexual. It's a whole new set of rules and crap to worry about. I can't believe the stuff my boyfriend comes up with. Here's a few examples: I need to initiate, he can't enjoy if I'm not enjoying it, he wants it more spontaneous, he wants oral, etc. The complications are endless. Being a virgin is much simpler.

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14 Jun 2012, 10:48 pm

blunnet wrote:

If it wasn't for paid sex services I would have become a 40 year old and 60 year old virgin.

I second this.

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15 Jun 2012, 2:03 am

Three quarters of the way there. Nearly thirty, in a few months. Ten years to go. Still a virgin.

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15 Jun 2012, 7:57 am

7 1/2 months left until 40, but stricktly speaking I see myself as a person who can't have a relationship because of Autism rather than a virgin.

Sirius
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06 Jul 2012, 7:08 pm

Lonermutant wrote:

7 1/2 months left until 40, but stricktly speaking I see myself as a person who can't have a relationship because of Autism rather than a virgin.

That is pretty much true. It is not so much confidence as it is competence. Even if a woman flirted with me, my problem is not knowing what to say instinctively.

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06 Jul 2012, 11:01 pm

I am almost 10 years away from being the 40 year old virgin.

Meh, what do I care? Andy was cool in that film. It was the sex fiends who were messed up.

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20 Jul 2012, 10:12 pm

At least you had. Just all I am saying.

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