06 Jun 2012, 6:07 am
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
It's very difficult at times not to be cynical. I have seen woman after woman date stupid, using, sometimes abusive guys over and over, passing up or simply refusing to date good guys.
That said; you have to step back and remember that this one might be different. Don't judge a book by it's cover and do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
That said; you have to step back and remember that this one might be different. Don't judge a book by it's cover and do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
of course, you're a "good guy" aren't you
How do you know he's not?
What he said was immature, but you're linking him to a derogatory internet stereotype that isn't common in real life.
(This started out as a nice thread BTW. A good idea from metaldanielle.)
I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy.
Yeah, totally unlike the guys those stupid women are dating amirite. If they were smart they'd date good guys, nice guys, guys like you.
Do you enjoy straw man arguments? I'm not saying that all women like bad guys (most don't), but those who do tend to like immature men with none of the above. In almost every case where a girl says that "all men are the same" and all that, it's because she doesn't give good guys a chance. She instead wants what she sees in soap operas, reality shows and so on.
06 Jun 2012, 9:54 am
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07 Jun 2012, 1:09 pm
thewhitrbbit wrote:
I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy.
Here's a big part of your problem. You think your financial success makes you better than other guys. For all that people go on and on about how women want a man with money, this attitude is a big turnoff for most of them.
07 Jun 2012, 9:20 pm
07 Jun 2012, 9:26 pm
Lonermutant wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships.
This.
...And by that you mean?
He agrees with you
as do I
07 Jun 2012, 9:32 pm
^^^
so it would be a bad idea to date each other 
07 Jun 2012, 9:43 pm
mds_02 wrote:
thewhitrbbit wrote:
I have a full time job, own my home, own a car, don't beat or abuse women, and have managed to develop adaptions to most of my AS Issues. So yeah I'd say I"m a good guy.
Here's a big part of your problem. You think your financial success makes you better than other guys. For all that people go on and on about how women want a man with money, this attitude is a big turnoff for most of them.
One of the reasons I could never go to a meet up it would feel to much like a circle jerk (no offense) , theirs a few people around here that match this description not this guy to be fair.
10 Jun 2012, 10:22 pm
DanRaccoon wrote:
metaldanielle wrote:
I hear so many guys here talk about being lonely. It makes me sad. I just wanna give them a hug. So hugs so all the sad lonely guys! (Girls too if they want.)
Do you seriously care? does it seriously upset you?
Thats a nice level of healthy cynicism you have their
I can't imagine why any one would bother being nice if it wasn't for sexual or money grab purpose's.
I'm not sure if I feel "sad" for these men though them trying to make themselves lovable to a women (well I wont go their at the risk of being edited) why they would even bother you'll just end up spending countless hours and dollars on things that don't intrest you and for what grief?
Stick to pets and special interests what more could an aspie want?
10 Jun 2012, 10:36 pm
aussiebloke wrote:
DanRaccoon wrote:
metaldanielle wrote:
I hear so many guys here talk about being lonely. It makes me sad. I just wanna give them a hug. So hugs so all the sad lonely guys! (Girls too if they want.)
Do you seriously care? does it seriously upset you?
Thats a nice level of healthy cynicism you have their
I can't imagine why any one would bother being nice if it wasn't for sexual or money grab purpose's.I'm not sure if I feel "sad" for these men though them trying to make themselves lovable to a women (well I wont go their at the risk of being edited) why they would even bother you'll just end up spending countless hours and dollars on things that don't intrest you and for what grief?
Stick to pets and special interests what more could an aspie want?
Sex and conversation? Which, unless I'm mistaken and things have changed.. doing either of which with your pets can land you in the nut house..
11 Jun 2012, 7:29 am
rabbittss wrote:
aussiebloke wrote:
DanRaccoon wrote:
metaldanielle wrote:
I hear so many guys here talk about being lonely. It makes me sad. I just wanna give them a hug. So hugs so all the sad lonely guys! (Girls too if they want.)
Do you seriously care? does it seriously upset you?
Thats a nice level of healthy cynicism you have their
I can't imagine why any one would bother being nice if it wasn't for sexual or money grab purpose's.I'm not sure if I feel "sad" for these men though them trying to make themselves lovable to a women (well I wont go their at the risk of being edited) why they would even bother you'll just end up spending countless hours and dollars on things that don't intrest you and for what grief?
Stick to pets and special interests what more could an aspie want?
In the USA, sex with pets gets you jail time. Talking to pets is relatively normal.
Sex and conversation? Which, unless I'm mistaken and things have changed.. doing either of which with your pets can land you in the nut house..
11 Jun 2012, 10:22 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
No...leave me alone...
I don't want to die.
I don't want to die.
I laughed too loud for the workplace!
Well stand aside, then, Mister! I'll take my hug AND yours!
11 Jun 2012, 10:39 pm
rabbittss wrote:
Sex and conversation? Which, unless I'm mistaken and things have changed.. doing either of which with your pets can land you in the nut house..
I've done one of those things plenty of times. And the other is conversation.
No, but I've talked to my dog plenty of times. He seemed to understand some of the Dutch language before he started going deaf. He responded to different words and tones in different ways, and he could tell names. Even if he probably didn't understand exactly what I was saying, I think he was capable of knowing what we meant. When my mother was discussing his annual vaccinations, he could become very nervous even if we were still comfortably sitting at home.
For sex, there's always porn - and prostitutes if you're really desperate to get laid.
11 Jun 2012, 10:57 pm
HisDivineMajesty wrote:
rabbittss wrote:
Sex and conversation? Which, unless I'm mistaken and things have changed.. doing either of which with your pets can land you in the nut house..
I've done one of those things plenty of times. And the other is conversation.
No, but I've talked to my dog plenty of times. He seemed to understand some of the Dutch language before he started going deaf. He responded to different words and tones in different ways, and he could tell names. Even if he probably didn't understand exactly what I was saying, I think he was capable of knowing what we meant. When my mother was discussing his annual vaccinations, he could become very nervous even if we were still comfortably sitting at home.
For sex, there's always porn - and prostitutes if you're really desperate to get laid.
Prostitution is Illegal in 99.9% of the US. So it's not an option.
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