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The_Face_of_Boo
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19 Jun 2012, 4:00 pm

Kinme wrote:

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Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

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Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

Maybe she smelled the bad boy in my soul marked by thousands of evil previous incarnations.

I was Luthifer.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

Maybe she smelled the bad boy in my soul marked by thousands of evil previous incarnations.

I was Luthifer.

Ya know, that might be it. I think you nailed it.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:02 pm

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Frankly, I was thinking about my neck, it needs to be "fixed".

I need a massage, any volunteers?

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19 Jun 2012, 4:03 pm

Kinme wrote:

Ah, okay. I haven't even read the whole thread, speaking of the thread. I'm pretty sure she did learn from it, too, otherwise she wouldn't be posting on this website about it.

$20 says she's back with a bad boy as soon as she gets bored with a nice guy.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:05 pm

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Are you a dog, Boo? Thanks, Zinia.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:05 pm

TM wrote:

Kinme wrote:

Ah, okay. I haven't even read the whole thread, speaking of the thread. I'm pretty sure she did learn from it, too, otherwise she wouldn't be posting on this website about it.

$20 says she's back with a bad boy as soon as she gets bored with a nice guy.

I sure as hell hope not. This thread would be pretty pointless if she did.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:07 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Frankly, I was thinking about my neck, it needs to be "fixed".

I need a massage, any volunteers?

I'll smack you with a wrench. Sound good?

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19 Jun 2012, 4:07 pm

Kinme wrote:

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Are you a dog, Boo? Thanks, Zinia.

Me? hell *barks* I mean....*barks* ... no *barks* *barks*...

Uh-oh... *barks*

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19 Jun 2012, 4:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Kinme wrote:

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Are you a dog, Boo? Thanks, Zinia.

Me? hell *barks* I mean....*barks* ... no *barks* *barks*...

Uh-oh... *barks*

...MEOW.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:08 pm

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Frankly, I was thinking about my neck, it needs to be "fixed".

I need a massage, any volunteers?

I'll smack you with a wrench. Sound good?

Is that how you treat dogs? *huff huff*

:shameonyou:

there are no bad dogs, only bad masters.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:09 pm

Kinme wrote:

TM wrote:

Kinme wrote:

Ah, okay. I haven't even read the whole thread, speaking of the thread. I'm pretty sure she did learn from it, too, otherwise she wouldn't be posting on this website about it.

$20 says she's back with a bad boy as soon as she gets bored with a nice guy.

I sure as hell hope not. This thread would be pretty pointless if she did.

Usually the "type" people go for is rooted in needs they may not be aware they have. In women who tend to go for "bad boys" their unpredictable nature, tendency to behave arrogantly and so on tend to be like kryptonite to these women.

It wouldn't be the first woman who said she was done with bad boys only to end up with another string of them.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:10 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

Kinme wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Zinia wrote:

HipsterChick wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am a dark, brooding, exciting yet nice guy who needs to be 'fixed' and probably tamed in some ways, so come and tame me, baby.

no way

She said she DIDN'T want any more "bad boys"! You should have seen that rejection coming.

.

Why you are assuming I am a bad boy? read again =).

Because "bad boys" need to be... fixed? In what way "fixed"? I don't get what that means. Do bad boys need a tune-up or something? You said you need to be fixed, and so she assumed that you're "bad."

! Maybe Boo meant "fixed," like how people fix dogs or cats so they won't have litters. Boo, that's really not a good thing to ask for in a girl you barely know

That's a good point about the OP learning something from this thread, Kinme.

Frankly, I was thinking about my neck, it needs to be "fixed".

I need a massage, any volunteers?

I'll smack you with a wrench. Sound good?

Is that how you treat dogs? *huff huff*

:shameonyou:

there are no bad dogs, only bad masters.

:p... I don't own any dogs, but I do own cats. I love those cats. I hug them, because they are squishy.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:11 pm

TM wrote:

Kinme wrote:

TM wrote:

Kinme wrote:

Ah, okay. I haven't even read the whole thread, speaking of the thread. I'm pretty sure she did learn from it, too, otherwise she wouldn't be posting on this website about it.

$20 says she's back with a bad boy as soon as she gets bored with a nice guy.

I sure as hell hope not. This thread would be pretty pointless if she did.

Makes sense. Just sad, really sad. -.- And kinda pathetic. Is that mean?

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19 Jun 2012, 4:14 pm

TM wrote:

I think the allure of bad boys is that they tend to be very manipulative. Personally, I think bad boys go for considerate, generally honest girls who generally see the good in others. But once a girl realizes the signs of a manipulator, then she won't fall into that trap again.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:15 pm

The OP doesn't need this thread anymore btw.

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19 Jun 2012, 4:16 pm

HisDivineMajesty wrote:

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I used to go for bad boys. It was fun to be wanted, and I just wanted to have fun.

There we have it. It's always nice to see the other camp whole-heartedly agreeing with me.

The key word is used to. I was saying all along that many women who go for bad boys end up smartening up later in life.

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I had to consciously choose whether to go for bad boys, or someone who wanted only me, though. I wasn't used to being in a long-term relationship. If I didn't give it up, I would keep moving from one partner to the other. I'd probably cheat as well.

It's good you admit that. Proper information means you've won half the battle before even starting. If people were honest like that, we wouldn't have a problem with nice guys.

Well, I wouldn't admit it at the time. I'd just keep on looking for the right guy, and never be satisfied with who I find, even if he's right in my face. I would never tell the guy that I'd cheat on him, or move on quickly, same with the other women.

HisDivineMajesty wrote:

deltafunction wrote:

And no, I don't feel like I am settling, I am just not deluding myself. If I make a list of things I would want in a boyfriend, he would fill them all.

Your thoughts. I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. How old are you?

I'm around 20, but have had enough experience.

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