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22 Jul 2012, 9:17 pm

Sometimes I do, othertimes I dont but most of the time I think I look so/so.[img][img]http://img254.imageshack.us/img254/515/picture18r.th.jpg[/img][/img]

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22 Jul 2012, 11:50 pm

I've been called handsome a few times but not in a few years. I do not think I'm unattractive if I wasn't losing my hair & I'm wearing nice cloths & looser shirts that cover scars on my arm. I think the average person would find me fairly unattractive if they see me naked thou

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23 Jul 2012, 1:16 am

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or at least not unappealing.

And thats a big or. I fill this category up like water in a bucket. Always hear nice things yet no takers.So either they lie, which is likely, or they are genuine but just not attractive, which is also likely.

Or maybe they genuinely like the look of you but have other reasons for not wanting to pursue something

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23 Jul 2012, 2:26 am

Girls see me attractive when I am shirtless/on beach.

They usually do not when I am in my regular geek-looks.

Glass-girls aside, the recent dates asked me why I don't wear contacts or do an operation to get rid of my glasses.

Some buddies had advised me of getting rid of the geek-looking (aka the glasses) as the first thing to do to increase attraction, I thought they were being silly but apparently they were very right.

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23 Jul 2012, 2:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What kind of frames do you wear? If lasik isn't an option and you don't like contacts, stylish frames can be a good option.
I don't know what is popular where you are. Here a lot of people wear the big black rectangle frames and I think they look really good.

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23 Jul 2012, 2:56 am

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Frameless glasses.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 8013_n.jpg

The glasses have Superman/Kent effect on me.

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23 Jul 2012, 3:01 am

I don't wear my glasses in public either. If I go to the movies or something I just bring them in my pocket in their case, and only wear them during the show.

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23 Jul 2012, 3:08 am

Yes. I honestly do. I wear glasses all the time though, and not very flattering ones. I think I subconsciously (or perhaps consciously) make myself less attractive than I could be because I don't want to date someone shallow who will leave me if I skip a day of showering or don't shave on a weekend,.

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23 Jul 2012, 3:29 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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Frameless glasses.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 8013_n.jpg

The glasses have Superman/Kent effect on me.

yeah, imo (not that it really matters), you look better without them
have you ever tried heavier looking frames?

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23 Jul 2012, 4:04 am

50/50... Though I don't feel that glasses spoil my look.

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23 Jul 2012, 4:10 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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Frameless glasses.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 8013_n.jpg

The glasses have Superman/Kent effect on me.

yeah, imo (not that it really matters), you look better without them
have you ever tried heavier looking frames?

Don't heavier are typically geekier-looking? I think they do.

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23 Jul 2012, 4:25 am

I'm rather physically attractive, but my little quirks are of an unique taste that only few women seem to favor.

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23 Jul 2012, 4:28 am

Ok ladies and gay dudes. I've resisted asking this up 'til now, but it's brutal honesty time. How do I look?

I've not quite mastered the whole "having facial expressions" thing.

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23 Jul 2012, 4:48 am

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Ok ladies and gay dudes. I've resisted asking this up 'til now, but it's brutal honesty time. How do I look?

I've not quite mastered the whole "having facial expressions" thing.

that is a nice looking man right there

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23 Jul 2012, 5:02 am

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I've resisted asking this up 'til now, but it's brutal honesty time. How do I look?

I've not quite mastered the whole "having facial expressions" thing.

Chuck Norris has a brother?

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23 Jul 2012, 5:22 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Frameless glasses.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 8013_n.jpg

The glasses have Superman/Kent effect on me.

yeah, imo (not that it really matters), you look better without them
have you ever tried heavier looking frames?

and yes, it matters, what I've learned about attraction is this:
1 woman's opinion about your physique = very likely to represent the majority of women. Same for guys.

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