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25 Aug 2012, 2:09 pm

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The Science of Dating Website Profiles for Men

I have come across many guys that don't many messages and I ask myself what could they be doing wrong? Here are some tips.

Step 1 - Presentation
Present yourself in the best possible way you can, read fashion articles in GQ Magazine and other fashion magazines, study body language, join a gym and start working on yourself. The best way to do this is to post a photo on your wall of someone you aspire to be like and start aiming to be like them. If it is going to fill your life with beautiful women and help you live the lifestyle you have always wanted, why not make a positive change?

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25 Aug 2012, 2:11 pm

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Call me a cynic but I'm as guilty of it myself - I need a certain amount of attraction to a person to be interested in them for anything other than polite chat to while away the time.

But then if you show interest in a person you don't fancy they can think you do fancy them so it's not fair on them.

I've noticed men are far less likely to want to just chat - it all has to be premised on 'am I going to get a) sex or b) a girlfriend out of the effort I put in here?'

I'm not like that - if a person is saying interesting stuff I'll chat to them whatever they look like.
Physical stuff requires fanciability as well though.

Yes but you're looking at it the wrong way, attraction isn't always visual, it can be based on body language, approach, context, humour and other factors as well. If that guy in the video can get a hot girl, I am sure 99% of the dudes on this forum can and plus what's wrong with them being positive instead of negative? they are more likely to have success with a positive attitude. Why do you assume that every guy has an ulterior motive?

I don't think I'm being negative. I think a person has more likelihood of success if they see themselves realistically. It's been shown that men are exceedingly visual when it comes to attraction. Women are too but do seem to take personality more into account than men so that is something in men's favour. Men can also actively not want an intelligent women as well.

And on a dating site it's pretty clear what most mens' motive is; I was talking in that context.

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25 Aug 2012, 2:13 pm

I am now interested to see nessa's photo for some reason.

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25 Aug 2012, 2:14 pm

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I am now interested to see nessa's photo for some reason.

Lol

I'll post my best one

(I've got a fragile ego so be kind!)

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25 Aug 2012, 2:17 pm

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I am now interested to see nessa's photo for some reason.

Lol

I'll post my best one

(I've got a fragile ego so be kind!)

PM me

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25 Aug 2012, 2:18 pm

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am now interested to see nessa's photo for some reason.

Lol

I'll post my best one

(I've got a fragile ego so be kind!)

Post it here in public.

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25 Aug 2012, 2:20 pm

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nessa238 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I am now interested to see nessa's photo for some reason.

Lol

I'll post my best one

(I've got a fragile ego so be kind!)

Post it here in public.

Post the modest one here in public, the bikini one in the pm.

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25 Aug 2012, 2:22 pm

I'm trying to get the file to proper size to make it my avatar - bear with me

And as for a bikini one LOL! I wouldn't inflict that on anyone Lol

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25 Aug 2012, 2:26 pm

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I'm trying to get the file to proper size to make it my avatar - bear with me

And as for a bikini one LOL! I wouldn't inflict that on anyone Lol

how old are you btw?

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25 Aug 2012, 2:28 pm

I cant get the pixels small enough

46 lol

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25 Aug 2012, 2:44 pm

Demi Moore is 15 years older than Ashton Kutcher, just saying.

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25 Aug 2012, 2:45 pm

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Demi Moore is 15 years older than Ashton Kutcher, just saying.

That relationship ended ages ago but anyway I already see a person 14 years younger than me.

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25 Aug 2012, 10:16 pm

Looks like Boo has missed an opportunity this time.

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26 Aug 2012, 3:51 am

That dwarf in the wheelchair proves one thing:

If it ain't happening with the looks, you can ride status and personality all the way to a hot babe!

Kudos on him for doing so well.

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