Worst Rejection Line

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Does struggling for a couple of seconds as the chloroform sets in count as rejection?

Actually, Asperger's traits such as not being able to read hidden meanings, and not being able to spot dishonesty, CAN make it difficult to be an effective judge of character.

Im sorry, but i just cant go on a date with you.

I had earlyer learnt that she was lez due to an incident that occured with my other friend. But she didnt know that i knew and couldnt tell me the truth. We have been friends for 5 years and ive liked her for 4 and a half,so the rejection hurt. But it hurt even more that she couldnt trust me enuf to tell the truth.

why did you go after her if you alteady knew she was a lesbian?

tbh, I wasn't the only one surprised, lots of people who knew her didn't think that was the type of thing that she would do. And spotting dishonesty or being mean is not the same as spotting fear, IF she was legitimately afraid that I would do something to hurt her.

I think this should count, a guy I basically rejected(I didn't know him really) fabricated a chat with me to post online where he wrote a line calling me "incurably white" which cracked me up despite how eerie the situation had become.

I mean THAT was funny but if someone actually rejected me by calling me incurably white, that would probably suck.

i knew a girl who is now in prison for murder who was the prettiest girl (according to everyone else i knew(and i also saw she was nice looking, but she wore too much makeup) ),
and she asked me who i had " been with" before", and i told her and she thought i was a notional "virgin" because every name i said she had a low opinion of.


she told me that she "wanted to take home home and show me what sex is all about",
but i told her that if i have any curiosities in the future i will direct my question to her.

she is in jail however and it is all too much for me to consider

Possibly. People don't want to judge character accurately in my opinion though. If a person is attractive and popular these are usually the only criteria people see as important. They get all they deserve if that's the case and are usually pretty shallow themselves for wanting people like that in the first place. it's fairly obvious that if you don't have looks and/or popularity to bring to the table you aren't going to be in demand amongst people who have - that is so obvious my cat could learn it and it holds whatever condition a person has. So hard as it might be to accept you are often left with the other outsiders/'weird' people. If a person is desperate to be NT they are going to look down on people like this but if they aren't they will seem like natural people to make connections with (they do to me anyway as I don't kid myself I'm something I'm not and hence have success in finding people). It all boils down to a person's self-concept and how far it differs from the opinion of others. Many people on here seem to be woefully lacking in self-awareness and as a result will be waiting for their perfect woman to turn up for the rest of their lives!

Alternatively, literal sociopaths are extremely good at appearing trustworthy while being complete nutjobs. Victims of sexual abuse also can be incredibly manipulative, and would also explain how you could be that terrified at the idea of a guy liking you.

It's up to other people how they live their lives; I just know my system of determining character is a good one and prevents a lot of problematic people from having any influence over my life as I can spot them a mile off.

What's that system exactly? Sounds like watching out for popular or pretty people

I had stoppeg when i found out. She was just refering to a dare that had happend a few years ago becuz she didnt know i knew about her being lez. I still like her but ive given up the idea that we could date or be more than best friends.

My system involves a database of 'people types' in my head to which I match up any new person.
Most will be 'generic herd follower' and hence be of no interest to me (and invariably vice versa).
Occasionally a person I can't categorise will come along and these types are of interest to me as the fact they aren't generic usually means they are of above average intelligence and are individuals with a mind of their own. I will make more effort to try and get to know a person like this if they are friendly.

Ha, I do that too.

Do you also feel this comes from "being above" the social structure and understanding it to a level most people can't because they are right in the middle of it?

Like most conversations with these "generic types" are really boring because I know what they are going to say and do and can run "intellectual circles around them" and turn it into some kind of game whether they can catch on I'm mocking the type of simple minded person they are or not. I've always felt I was an extremely intelligent alien sent to earth to observe and test "the humans". Like in some star trek episode where they go visit some ancient civilization and judge the people in their backwards illogical caveman behaviour and try to help them overcome some disaster by having to explain it with hand puppets. Or with the help of that one really smart "scientist" who's able to breach the gap between the two.

I liked this one girl for awhile and finally decided to tell her how i feel in a letter, with flattering compliments from the hear, and asked her to by my boyfriend. I folded the letter and put the letter in front of her door by the porch.

Here was her response via voice message:

"OMG you did not just write all that and not even put that in an envelope! My landlord could have saw that. There is something seriously wrong with you. THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!! !! !! ! There is something wrong with you! (and then she hung up)."

Yes maybe i should have put it in an envelope and folded it but I still found that to be a nasty response after writing pouring my heart out into it and this is someone who considered to be my friend prior too!

Sounds like you came on too strong, that will freak people out.