What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want?

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03 Sep 2012, 9:53 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:
I do not want a man who takes everything way to seriously. I need a guy who has a good sense of humor. Preferably a sense of humor similar to mine.

I also don't want a guy who organizes my entire living space. Nor do I want a slob.

I also need a guy who likes food. I don't want a fast food addict. I want a guy who eats REAL food. Sushi, different kinds of chocolate other than Hershey brands, foreign food. Anyone catch my drift?.

Then there's video games. I want my guy and I to play games together.

A guy who likes to cook with me wouldn't be so bad either.


Reading posts like that makes me hate that I probably live on the wrong continent :)



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03 Sep 2012, 12:42 pm

It's easy to fall in love with people's brains on the internet :wink:



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03 Sep 2012, 1:46 pm

LKL wrote:
It's easy to fall in love with people's brains on the internet :wink:


Very true. ;) While there may be a few people in this thread with lists of dislikes that match me 100%... there's also a few whose "wants" match me pret-ty close... there's hope for all of us! ;)



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03 Sep 2012, 4:03 pm

LKL wrote:
It's easy to fall in love with people's brains on the internet :wink:


maybe thats why a good sense of humour is often sighted as desirable in dating profiles

Guys like Peewee Herman and Jim Carey must be awesome boyfriends



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04 Sep 2012, 2:26 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


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04 Sep 2012, 4:18 am

OliveOilMom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


You have to bend to change it, you know....



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04 Sep 2012, 4:22 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


You have to bend to change it, you know....


I'm pretty well versed in working on cars in general. I used to be a gear head, back in the day lol.


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04 Sep 2012, 8:12 am

OliveOilMom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


Looks like I'm off the list, then. :D



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04 Sep 2012, 8:17 am

ArrantPariah wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


Looks like I'm off the list, then. :D


LOL, it's an inside joke. That's all.


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04 Sep 2012, 5:02 pm

Mouth breathers?



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04 Sep 2012, 5:47 pm

OliveOilMom wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Surfman wrote:
This is a bad thread for aspie males with self esteem issues

But if your secure in your shortcomings, and dont give a f**k, its funny seeing the contradictory wants some females come up with :wink:

Cant find a better man, sigh


I don't see myself in any of their listings tho, except maybe in a couple of Garnet's points.


Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.



I did once with some help but hey..... OliveOil won't care about that much since I have some things that compensate this.



You damn straight! Hell, I'd get out and change the tire!

But, I thought we weren't supposed to talk about that. ;-)


Looks like I'm off the list, then. :D


LOL, it's an inside joke. That's all.


inside out....



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04 Sep 2012, 6:07 pm

LKL wrote:
If I were 15 years younger and you asked me out, I'd probably assume that you were talking to a 'hot' girl behind me rather than to me. It could be some sort of body language issue, but I doubt it's lack of confidence unless it's to the degree that girls assume that you just aren't into them.


Thanks. But if you ever see me asking a girl out, you should call the cops: it is probably a case of identity theft and the real me is certainly being held hostage in a dark cabin in the woods. :lol:


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04 Sep 2012, 6:14 pm

OliveOilMom wrote:
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Religious.
Not leftist.
Highly-sexed.
Non-feminist.
Meat-eater.
Highly-social.
Fatphobic.


That's almost me, I'm flattered.


You do know it's what kind of man you don't want, right?


Yup. Why?


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04 Sep 2012, 6:16 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I found that women often go for men who claimed earlier they wouldn't go for. They OFTEN contradict their lists.

For instance, I recall that ValentineWiggin's current bf is Rightist.

Am I right ValentineWiggin?


No- he's more conservative than I am, but still leftist enough to occasionally be called a radical.

Can't speak for what others "go for", but I'd imagine if a man or a woman is to be found dating someone who doesn't meet their ideal, it's because they have trouble finding someone who DOES, not because they're being "contradictory". I'll take a 75% match over nothing.


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05 Sep 2012, 8:42 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:
I'll take a 75% match over nothing.


Same here. I think it's unrealistic to expect a 100% match with anyone and it narrows your choices way too much. If the percentage is high, then that's good enough for me :)


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23 Jan 2013, 2:47 pm

What I don't want:
Someone who is abusive.
Someone who is rude and unkind.
Someone who treats animals badly.
Liars, cheaters and major flirts.
Someone who is non monogamous.
Someone with a high sex drive.
Someone who is kinky.