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The_Face_of_Boo
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26 Dec 2012, 2:17 am

hale_bopp wrote:

There are plenty of active women on dating sites, but most of them have ridiculous standards that they don't have in real life. Let's be honest.

I came to the realization of an ugly truth, the women I dated/communicated with from online dating are:

- Messed up in the head (Attitude problem, emotional baggage, on rebound, narcissist, want Mr.perfect, plain crazies..etc)

or

- Want to get married RIGHT NOW

And there's the third category I don't date: the plain physically unattractive (too hideous, very obese ...etc)

All the local women I found on okcupid fall in one of those categories.

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26 Dec 2012, 2:43 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Thanks. My hair is now blonde at the top and black on the ends, as I'm partway through growing it out. I'd never dye it black again. You can't get rid of it.

You are gorgeous in every photo I've seen of you over the years, and articulate, helpful, and funny in your posts, web site and videos. I especially love the cat one! Best wishes to you in your search for love.

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26 Dec 2012, 6:18 am

yellowtamarin wrote:

Ridiculous standards are fine if you are not desperate, happy to be fussy, and happy to be single.

I don't think I have ridiculous "standards" as such, but I have some very strict requirements and am very fussy. That's because I'm happier being single than being in a relationship with someone who doesn't meet those requirements. It can suck to be so intolerant

(The requirements are the same in real life, it just takes longer to filter for them, which may appear as being more accepting.)

yah id rather be single than be with a girl im not attracted to or one that isnt anywhere near me intelligence wise.

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26 Dec 2012, 6:20 am

TheBicyclingGuitarist wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Thanks. My hair is now blonde at the top and black on the ends, as I'm partway through growing it out. I'd never dye it black again. You can't get rid of it.

she doesnt look half bad in her youtube vid either ha.

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The_Face_of_Boo
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26 Dec 2012, 6:46 am

"half bad" lol

Macho wtfid, Roar.

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26 Dec 2012, 3:22 pm

Have all the men here quit OKC or something? I've had about 12 new vists today from new people. Wasn't even this popular as a Barman.

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26 Dec 2012, 4:23 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

"half bad" lol

Macho wtfid, Roar.

lol ok she's f*****g hot

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26 Dec 2012, 4:29 pm

I haven't quit, I just found someone to talk to and possibly date. :3

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Hermes9
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29 Dec 2012, 6:02 am

OKC is probably one of the better "dating" sites, yes.. but wow.. between OKC and Craigslist, all I have to do is stop by to be reminded what a cesspool the dating scene is. Ugh.

Indeed a fine reminder that awesome people are rare as diamonds and should be cherished...

I hope you all find yours!

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29 Dec 2012, 3:01 pm

Hermes9 wrote:

Thanks Hermes9, hope you do too! I have been on OKC for about a week now. It's better than other sites I've tried but still has not been good for my self esteem or my faith in humanity.

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29 Dec 2012, 3:48 pm

After a few months away from it (or was it a full year? I am not sure), I made a new profile two weeks ago. It was done mainly to judge a few photos of me in MyBestFace, but I decided to fill the profile anyway. It was a very tongue-in-cheek profile, but maybe a little too crazy, since my sense of humour is a mix of silly, dark and nonsensical. I also made it clear that I dislike going out to drink and party; I like things like movies, theaters, travelling and dining out (yeah, as if I would attract any women in my age group with my weird idea of fun ). Since it was in Brazilian Portuguese, it would be pointless to post it here, although I could have easily translated it to English back then.

I eventually messaged a girl whose profile indicated that she would tolerate my craziness, but I did not wait for a reply (and I am 100% certain no reply would come, anyway). After a week, I deactivated my account (I did not delete it because I think the username The SkyNomad is too awesome to be discarded), because I realized it was pointless: I have no idea of what it is, but I have something (maybe it is a combination of traits) that makes it impossible (or at least too unlikely to even consider) for any woman to see me as a potential partner.

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29 Dec 2012, 4:26 pm

Magnus_Rex, are you only looking for girls that are close to you?

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29 Dec 2012, 4:53 pm

Yes. I do not even have a car (although you can get pretty much anywhere in São Paulo by public transportation).

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29 Dec 2012, 8:02 pm

My username was made to be humorous: CavedNMadeNAcct. Lol

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29 Dec 2012, 8:46 pm

OMGitsKenny wrote:

My username was made to be humorous: CavedNMadeNAcct. Lol

some guy slightlydyslexic is in your similar users section ha.

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31 Dec 2012, 4:06 am

It seems to me that women are playing games with themselves. it's pretty obvious to me. some of the profiles seem to vague and just repetitive. where do these girls come from? it's so funny but dumb and miraculously f****** up. are these girls we encounter in our daily lives? a bunch of ret*d beaners with no life?

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