The_Face_of_Boo
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28 Dec 2012, 12:22 pm
28 Dec 2012, 12:59 pm
Kjas wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Celebrity*
Careful Kjas, you will get arrested by the spelling police if you persist.
Careful Kjas, you will get arrested by the spelling police if you persist.
Well then they're long overdue, because everyone knows I can't spell, regardless of which language it's in.
Kjas, I didn't mean any offense earlier, I was just being my playful self and making an attempt at banter, sorry if I offended you but I think you misunderstood me and guys, give Lilya a break, she's been through a lot in the past few weeks. I'm sure most of you here wouldn't be able to resist if you had a chance to go out with your favourite celebrity.
28 Dec 2012, 1:03 pm
Wolfheart wrote:
Kjas wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Celebrity*
Careful Kjas, you will get arrested by the spelling police if you persist.
Careful Kjas, you will get arrested by the spelling police if you persist.
Well then they're long overdue, because everyone knows I can't spell, regardless of which language it's in.
Kjas, I didn't mean any offense earlier, I was just being my playful self and making an attempt at banter, sorry if I offended you but I think you misunderstood me and guys, give Lilya a break, she's been through a lot in the past few weeks. I'm sure most of you here wouldn't be able to resist if you had a chance to go out with your favourite celebrity.
not everyone sees celebrities in the same way. those people who already see them as mere mortals have no incentive to have sex with them instead of an average cool person.
28 Dec 2012, 2:02 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
Lilya wrote:
I'd much rather see people just as people, but I dislike a lot of aspects that could follow from his position. I do value my privacy and I dislike the fact that he does seem to be proudly a ladies man.
If it would have been my way to begin with, I would have just had a traditional date with a person who seems like a very charming guy. Right now the whole situation feels somehow twisted, but tempting at the same time. It's never been my desire to "use" someone and I don't want to be toyed with either. I do respect him as a person and quite honestly, I like him as a person, even though I keep reasoning to myself that I shouldn't fall for him. I can't see him treating me as an equal partner, especially when I've already allowed him to have it his way.
If it would have been my way to begin with, I would have just had a traditional date with a person who seems like a very charming guy. Right now the whole situation feels somehow twisted, but tempting at the same time. It's never been my desire to "use" someone and I don't want to be toyed with either. I do respect him as a person and quite honestly, I like him as a person, even though I keep reasoning to myself that I shouldn't fall for him. I can't see him treating me as an equal partner, especially when I've already allowed him to have it his way.
the problem is that i think you are not seeing him as a regular person:
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If I've ever had a celebrity crush in my life, it's a certain A-lister in my country who I also happened to meet a couple of weeks ago at a charity ball.
there are many many many many many many many charming guys out there who are also very good in bed. what makes this one different is that he is famous, so you felt like you already "knew" him before you ever met him. that's a byproduct of the media machine. that glamour is bound to wear off - perhaps once he farts in bed one too many times, or when he pushes past you to give an autograph, or finds someone new (see "ladies' man", above).
you could have had any number of wonderful non-celebrity men to have a fling with, but you picked one that fulfilled a longstanding fantasy. perhaps you like testing out the feeling of being the less-famous person in the bedroom, or maybe you just needed to get it out of your system. i am sure that you know on a certain level that this thing is built on smoke and mirrors, but the longer you spend with him the more real/less glamourous he is going to become (and conversely, the more you may try to cling to the notion that you can build something substantial out of this, in spite of his protestations).
my advice would be... never have sex with a famous person you used to crush on, but it's a bit late for that. so i'd say cut all ties now, before this gets silly.
Thank you...
I'd like to think that I do treat people as people equally (it's not like I haven't met politicians or people classified as celebrities before and I'm generally speaking not exactly the type that gets all giddy because of it), but the fact that I've "known" him through media and even more that I've fantasized about this specific guy makes being in contact with him feel bizarre. If I should choose the sexiest or most handsome man among celebrities, male models etc. in the world, it would most likely be this guy. He's more beautiful than I am, so I do feel insecure
Not being famous wouldn't make him any less attractive of a person. It's not that he's a celebrity, but that he happens to be the celebrity. He's slightly different personality wise than I expected, but still exceedingly charming, intelligent, considerate and makes me laugh besides his skills in the bedroom.
Frankly, it would be much easier without the fame factor; I'd still have a fling with him and he'd still most likely to cause me trouble, but there wouldn't be the annoying potential problems with the paparazzi. He's made it pretty clear that he's only after sex, so a relationship is out. The sex is amazing and he's a fun person to be with, but I genuinely doubt that there can be anything more substantial.
28 Dec 2012, 2:37 pm
28 Dec 2012, 2:54 pm
BlueMax wrote:
Celebrity or not, this was just some horny man who likes lots of sex.
He liked how you look so he charmed you into bed.
You knew from the get-go he only wanted you for sex, you agreed to it to fulfill a fantasy.
He got his rocks off and moved on.
The end.
Same old story for so many women... only your dirty man happened to be more popular/famous than the average horndog.
Pity he didn't at least pay you a large sum of money for the privilege of using your body for 3-4 hours. Oh well - hope you used a condom. Someone like that has pretty high odds of disease.
He liked how you look so he charmed you into bed.
You knew from the get-go he only wanted you for sex, you agreed to it to fulfill a fantasy.
He got his rocks off and moved on.
The end.
Same old story for so many women... only your dirty man happened to be more popular/famous than the average horndog.
Pity he didn't at least pay you a large sum of money for the privilege of using your body for 3-4 hours. Oh well - hope you used a condom. Someone like that has pretty high odds of disease.
Of course there was a condom, both of us came well prepared
To be fair, women have sexual needs as well, it shouldn't be a taboo anymore. Women too can enjoy sex based confrontations and have high sex drives. If I was to choose a one-night-stand out of all the men on the globe, one's idol can't be too bad of a choice, I hope
The_Face_of_Boo
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28 Dec 2012, 2:59 pm
Lilya wrote:
Voi kiesus mitä älykääpiöitä täältäkin löytyy
Back to the topic, please
Back to the topic, please
Me and Mc were on topic.
28 Dec 2012, 3:03 pm
Lilya wrote:
If I was to choose a one-night-stand out of all the men on the globe, one's idol can't be too bad of a choice, I hope
Can't argue with that... that's a booty call that might make millions of women jealous (especially the ones not sexy enough to appeal to him.)
And good sex to boot (I'm sure he's had lots and lots of practice... heck, celebrities probably have personal trainers just for it!)
I'm googling "celebrity women" to see if any appeal so much I'd agree to a zero-commitment one night stand...
Anne Hathaway ranks pretty high... I've always liked her as an actress and found her physically attractive. She'd have to be a very cool person on top of that though.
BTW, there are now "sex vacations" for women, as well as male sex workers for the trade.
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28 Dec 2012, 6:41 pm
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28 Dec 2012, 9:20 pm
Wolfheart wrote:
Kjas, I didn't mean any offense earlier, I was just being my playful self and making an attempt at banter, sorry if I offended you but I think you misunderstood me and guys, give Lilya a break, she's been through a lot in the past few weeks. I'm sure most of you here wouldn't be able to resist if you had a chance to go out with your favourite celebrity.
You'd think after being here this long that people would cue on to the fact that 50% of my posts are tongue in cheek and generally directed making fun of myself.
But I guess not. Back to using this
after every second sentence it is then!
I guess the upside is at least I get to go back to annoying the living daylights out of those who hate emoticons.
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29 Dec 2012, 1:39 am
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29 Dec 2012, 4:32 am
Did you buy yourself that calendar for Christmas?
If I were them I'd cover up with my hands too, that water must be awfully cold. And is that an Alligator in the top right? 
29 Dec 2012, 5:14 am
blue_bean wrote:
Did you buy yourself that calendar for Christmas?
It's hard not to interpret this little jab as anything but a stab at my sexuality. I'm hoping it was just a humourous poke in the ribs and you just forgot the smiley to go with it?
29 Dec 2012, 5:55 am
I appreciated the photo 
(*uses copy/paste*)
