31 Dec 2012, 8:01 pm
31 Dec 2012, 8:01 pm
31 Dec 2012, 8:13 pm
billiscool wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You seem to operate on the premise "I want this from the world therefore the world must give it to me!'
No, the world does not operate like this at all and your demanding attitude is the main problem
If these single young women don't find anything likeable in you they are under no obligation to like you - it's a simple as that!
This could be due to not liking how you look, not liking your personality or a combination of both.
When a person is good looking people are often quite forgiving of social ineptitude so I'm guessing you're probably just not that good looking and then your social deficits magnify the problem.
If you keep trying to make these women like you as you think you deserve it, you will make them dislike you even more and might even get a reputation as someone who harasses women so at the first sign a girl doesn't like you I'd just back right off and go and talk to people who do.
You seem to be able to pick up when they dislike you but not accept it and act accordingly, due to your wounded ego.
Your behaviour is therefore dysfunctional
It's one thing asking for advice, but it's another thing actually taking it
(I'm predicting another 'why are there so many sub-standard aspie women with partners when
a fine specimen of manhood like myself can't get a partner?!'-type threads any time soon!
)
No, the world does not operate like this at all and your demanding attitude is the main problem
If these single young women don't find anything likeable in you they are under no obligation to like you - it's a simple as that!
This could be due to not liking how you look, not liking your personality or a combination of both.
When a person is good looking people are often quite forgiving of social ineptitude so I'm guessing you're probably just not that good looking and then your social deficits magnify the problem.
If you keep trying to make these women like you as you think you deserve it, you will make them dislike you even more and might even get a reputation as someone who harasses women so at the first sign a girl doesn't like you I'd just back right off and go and talk to people who do.
You seem to be able to pick up when they dislike you but not accept it and act accordingly, due to your wounded ego.
Your behaviour is therefore dysfunctional
It's one thing asking for advice, but it's another thing actually taking it
(I'm predicting another 'why are there so many sub-standard aspie women with partners when
a fine specimen of manhood like myself can't get a partner?!'-type threads any time soon!
)oh,no one of these ''i have entitlement issues speech'' again. nope, your wrong. Single women don't like because they are cranky. There a reason why they are single. can you even read? I always write, if a single,young women don't like me then that their problem. If women don't like me, I leave them alone. I be honest, it would be nice to have at least one young,single female friend but you know what if they don't like me. then that their lost,not mine. Plenty of married women and older women respect and like me. I have many good friends male and females (all married).
so,calm down.
I am calm - you're the one posting an average of a thread a day on the issue
And it doesn't sound to me as if you just accept that these single woman don't like you
otherwise why go on and on about it?
If they're so cranky why even approach them?
Just from your reply here I can see why they back away - you are short and abrupt with people
and act like you know it all when you clearly don't!
You lack charm basically
um, Im not short Im 6 feet tall. no, Im cool. the single young lady I talk to are just cranky. you probaly wouldn't like them either if you meet them.
I such a cool guy that I just go up to any lady and talk to them. Because that what awesome people do.
Im sure these young single woman would probaly hate you too. they hate everyone. that why they are single. Their not cool.
and why do I approach them because they look cool but then I find out there not.
Surely it's for other people to define you as 'cool', not yourself
I would never go up to anyone and talk to them - I wait until they talk to me, then I can be sure they like me
If you always make the first approach you never know if the other person is responding just to be polite anyway
31 Dec 2012, 8:19 pm
nessa238 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You seem to operate on the premise "I want this from the world therefore the world must give it to me!'
No, the world does not operate like this at all and your demanding attitude is the main problem
If these single young women don't find anything likeable in you they are under no obligation to like you - it's a simple as that!
This could be due to not liking how you look, not liking your personality or a combination of both.
When a person is good looking people are often quite forgiving of social ineptitude so I'm guessing you're probably just not that good looking and then your social deficits magnify the problem.
If you keep trying to make these women like you as you think you deserve it, you will make them dislike you even more and might even get a reputation as someone who harasses women so at the first sign a girl doesn't like you I'd just back right off and go and talk to people who do.
You seem to be able to pick up when they dislike you but not accept it and act accordingly, due to your wounded ego.
Your behaviour is therefore dysfunctional
It's one thing asking for advice, but it's another thing actually taking it
(I'm predicting another 'why are there so many sub-standard aspie women with partners when
a fine specimen of manhood like myself can't get a partner?!'-type threads any time soon! )
No, the world does not operate like this at all and your demanding attitude is the main problem
If these single young women don't find anything likeable in you they are under no obligation to like you - it's a simple as that!
This could be due to not liking how you look, not liking your personality or a combination of both.
When a person is good looking people are often quite forgiving of social ineptitude so I'm guessing you're probably just not that good looking and then your social deficits magnify the problem.
If you keep trying to make these women like you as you think you deserve it, you will make them dislike you even more and might even get a reputation as someone who harasses women so at the first sign a girl doesn't like you I'd just back right off and go and talk to people who do.
You seem to be able to pick up when they dislike you but not accept it and act accordingly, due to your wounded ego.
Your behaviour is therefore dysfunctional
It's one thing asking for advice, but it's another thing actually taking it
(I'm predicting another 'why are there so many sub-standard aspie women with partners when
a fine specimen of manhood like myself can't get a partner?!'-type threads any time soon!
)oh,no one of these ''i have entitlement issues speech'' again. nope, your wrong. Single women don't like because they are cranky. There a reason why they are single. can you even read? I always write, if a single,young women don't like me then that their problem. If women don't like me, I leave them alone. I be honest, it would be nice to have at least one young,single female friend but you know what if they don't like me. then that their lost,not mine. Plenty of married women and older women respect and like me. I have many good friends male and females (all married).
so,calm down.
I am calm - you're the one posting an average of a thread a day on the issue
And it doesn't sound to me as if you just accept that these single woman don't like you
otherwise why go on and on about it?
If they're so cranky why even approach them?
Just from your reply here I can see why they back away - you are short and abrupt with people
and act like you know it all when you clearly don't!
You lack charm basically
um, Im not short Im 6 feet tall. no, Im cool. the single young lady I talk to are just cranky. you probaly wouldn't like them either if you meet them.
I such a cool guy that I just go up to any lady and talk to them. Because that what awesome people do.
Im sure these young single woman would probaly hate you too. they hate everyone. that why they are single. Their not cool.
and why do I approach them because they look cool but then I find out there not.
Surely it's for other people to define you as 'cool', not yourself
I would never go up to anyone and talk to them - I wait until they talk to me, then I can be sure they like me
If you always make the first approach you never know if the other person is responding just to be polite anyway
they do. everyone think Im cool, expect them single,young women. and that one douchebag.
you never go up and talk to anyone, why not. ? you could meet some cool people,if you did.
31 Dec 2012, 8:26 pm
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01 Jan 2013, 12:01 am
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01 Jan 2013, 1:04 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
the dating rule says men have to approach women.
ya dont listen to 1000knives....it's good you are approaching girls100kinves said he doesnt approach people to ensure they like him but at the end of the day someone has to do the approaching. If people approach 1000knoives they are taking a risk and 1000knives might like the people approaching
Nah, I'm just fairly sure everyone hates me and thinks I'm a huge socially awkward douchebag. If something's a losing proposition, then it's best sometimes just to cut your losses. I used to be into approaching lots of people, as I thought, like billiscool, that I was cool and everyone liked me. But I'm not and nobody does. In real life, I probably am only a hair above someone like Chris-chan, just I happen to look reasonably OK, so that offsets it somewhat.
Also, nowadays if you so much as say hi to a girl, girls will be like "omg what a creeper." So whatever.
well, if everyone does hate me. Im still cool. you are only a douchebag if you think you are. take me alot of young single women hate me but Ithat don't stop me from living my life. That don't stop me from having good self esteem. don't let people break you.
I have a good time tonight waiting for 2013 and then I going to turn 30 on the 27th. yeah.
why does it say under your name that you are 30 and not 29? are yo ucurrently working/going to school and what are you doin tonight?
It's probably a time difference thing; it was his birthdate in your timezone but not his.
01 Jan 2013, 1:06 am
wtfid2 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
the dating rule says men have to approach women.
ya dont listen to 1000knives....it's good you are approaching girls100kinves said he doesnt approach people to ensure they like him but at the end of the day someone has to do the approaching. If people approach 1000knoives they are taking a risk and 1000knives might like the people approaching
Nah, I'm just fairly sure everyone hates me and thinks I'm a huge socially awkward douchebag. If something's a losing proposition, then it's best sometimes just to cut your losses. I used to be into approaching lots of people, as I thought, like billiscool, that I was cool and everyone liked me. But I'm not and nobody does. In real life, I probably am only a hair above someone like Chris-chan, just I happen to look reasonably OK, so that offsets it somewhat.
Also, nowadays if you so much as say hi to a girl, girls will be like "omg what a creeper." So whatever.
well, if everyone does hate me. Im still cool. you are only a douchebag if you think you are. take me alot of young single women hate me but Ithat don't stop me from living my life. That don't stop me from having good self esteem. don't let people break you.
I have a good time tonight waiting for 2013 and then I going to turn 30 on the 27th. yeah.
why does it say under your name that you are 30 and not 29? are yo ucurrently working/going to school and what are you doin tonight?
It's probably a time difference thing; it was his birthdate in your timezone but not his.
I missed that.
Maybe he lives on a different planet?
Plenty of people don't put their exact birthdate, though.
01 Jan 2013, 11:44 am
01 Jan 2013, 12:50 pm
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