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22 Mar 2013, 2:54 pm

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So wait Wolfheart, are you going to keep dumping girls just because you find a "hotter one"? Imagine with girls did the same to you and leave you for a guy who is better in bed or has a bigger ****? Wouldn't you feel worthless and emotional about it too? By that first converstion you posted, this girl had feelings for you and you left you on the basis of physical appearance. So you only acre about how a girl looks? Nothing about personality? Have you ever even been in true love before? I want to know.


Penis size is genetic, weight isn't and secondly, I don't care about getting in the Guinness world record book of achievements for that. Strength and athletics are things that must be achieved through growth, through courage, genetics can play a part when it comes to athletics and education to an extent but there are other factors like willpower and strength, those are things that people can grow with.

Although some people do have severe conditions that affect them and not everyone chooses to exercise, I'm completely fine with that and have nothing against people who choose that lifestyle.

Of course not, I care about potential, growth and personality as well. I appreciate people with other passions and they do not make them any less important than my own, I appreciate creativity and intelligence.



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22 Mar 2013, 2:56 pm

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But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


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22 Mar 2013, 2:57 pm

cakey wrote:
So wait Wolfheart, are you going to keep dumping girls just because you find a "hotter one"? Imagine with girls did the same to you and leave you for a guy who is better in bed or has a bigger ****? Wouldn't you feel worthless and emotional about it too? By that first converstion you posted, this girl had feelings for you and you left you on the basis of physical appearance. So you only acre about how a girl looks? Nothing about personality? Have you ever even been in true love before? I want to know.


Is that a serious question? lolol

Wolfheart; As long as you look at women as objects who can be classified by a symbolic or numeric value, which can then be compared to the others; you will remain alone or surrounded by idiotic girls who believe the same.

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22 Mar 2013, 2:59 pm

Oh he's not alone... he attracts lots of people with his physique - then repulses or hurts them with his horrible cruelty.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:00 pm

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Just did a cold approach number close on a very attractive girl.

Ryan
I also love the dordogne, I really love French culture and I'd love to someday trek the States well possibly both of them, Western Europe, the States and a few Asian countries..Do you have Facebook or something more convenient we could chat on?
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I deactivated Facebook but I have whatsapp, perhaps texting is better? :)
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Yes, texting seems fine by me, what's your number? :) You don't live very far from me, I live in [location] haha.
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Oh really? That's very close :) [number enclosed]


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22 Mar 2013, 3:01 pm

But didn't you dump the first girl because she wasn't "skinny" enough? If you cared about personality then you wouldn't have dumped her. Unless you also disliked her personality. What has been your longest relationship?



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22 Mar 2013, 3:01 pm

Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


I have a lot of gratitude that we live in such rich countries and secondly I'm grateful for many other opportunities that have presented themselves to me, I feel lucky to have those opportunities and I feel truly inspired that people are able to overcome adversity and that's what the message is about here. It's about people being able to grow and overcome their adversity. I admit, I'm not a perfect person but everyone says things that they regret at some point but I do believe that to grow and achieve is an opportunity not everyone has.

I'm not disrespecting NT women, I'm saying that some might not be right for me because of the dynamic nature.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:04 pm

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Penis size is genetic

So are boobs, and both can be enhanced through surgery. Does that mean we all should because of some other people's shallow expectations? No. And we shouldn't be horrible to people about that. Why weight though? What makes it OK to be horrible to people because of their weight? Much like the first 2 mentioned, doing so is no better than making people mould to society's expecations - again something you made light of.

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Although some people do have severe conditions that affect them and not everyone chooses to exercise, I'm completely fine with that and have nothing against people who choose that lifestyle.

Not working out is deemed by you a "lifestyle"? Not everyone thinks about that stuff, mate. Doesn't mean they live one of 2 lifestyles. I rarely work out, but I like to think my lifestyle is characterized by LOTS of things not just whether I pump drugs into my system and lift small cars. You can't just rubbish everyone's lives off as "this way" or "that way"! There's many ways we all live our lives.

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Of course not, I care about potential, growth and personality as well.

This is great and all, but means nothing if you ignore the potential in others, are not willing to grow and learn from your mistakes, and favor looks over personality.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:04 pm

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Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


I have a lot of gratitude that we live in such rich countries and secondly I'm grateful for many other opportunities that have presented themselves to me, I feel lucky to have those opportunities and I feel truly inspired that people are able to overcome adversity and that's what the message is about here. It's about people being able to grow and overcome their adversity. I admit, I'm not a perfect person but everyone says things that they regret at some point but I do believe that to grow and achieve is an opportunity not everyone has.

I'm not disrespecting NT women, I'm saying that some might not be right for me because of the dynamic nature.


That's not even close to the message that you have been saying all thread long.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:07 pm

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That's not even close to the message that you have been saying all thread long.

It's also not even close to an admission of guilt, let alone an apology for it.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:08 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


I have a lot of gratitude that we live in such rich countries and secondly I'm grateful for many other opportunities that have presented themselves to me, I feel lucky to have those opportunities and I feel truly inspired that people are able to overcome adversity and that's what the message is about here. It's about people being able to grow and overcome their adversity. I admit, I'm not a perfect person but everyone says things that they regret at some point but I do believe that to grow and achieve is an opportunity not everyone has.

I'm not disrespecting NT women, I'm saying that some might not be right for me because of the dynamic nature.


DUDE!! ! Take some responsibility!! !! It has nothing to do wit NT women. Its the way YOU treat women in general.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:13 pm

MXH wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


I have a lot of gratitude that we live in such rich countries and secondly I'm grateful for many other opportunities that have presented themselves to me, I feel lucky to have those opportunities and I feel truly inspired that people are able to overcome adversity and that's what the message is about here. It's about people being able to grow and overcome their adversity. I admit, I'm not a perfect person but everyone says things that they regret at some point but I do believe that to grow and achieve is an opportunity not everyone has.

I'm not disrespecting NT women, I'm saying that some might not be right for me because of the dynamic nature.


That's not even close to the message that you have been saying all thread long.


It couldn't be much further to what he's been saying all thread long... Also I've yet to have seen the "regret" and "growth" parts; any replies from him have been going round a pretty defined circle back to nothing after a lot of avoiding the issues.


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22 Mar 2013, 3:16 pm

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Wolfheart wrote:
Lilya wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
But life isn't unfair neither is natural selection, nothing is fair and that's a reality we all must face. Why do looks, race, culture, accents, differences divide humanity and cause wars? People are always putting people down, humanity is out of touch and people are shallow.

People can grow stronger and overcome obstacles, we can be stronger but we have to believe in ourselves. Nobody ever won the gold medal by being content or satisfied, a good coach will tell the athlete he can run another mile even when his body can't run another step.


Here we go again... :roll:


I have a lot of gratitude that we live in such rich countries and secondly I'm grateful for many other opportunities that have presented themselves to me, I feel lucky to have those opportunities and I feel truly inspired that people are able to overcome adversity and that's what the message is about here. It's about people being able to grow and overcome their adversity. I admit, I'm not a perfect person but everyone says things that they regret at some point but I do believe that to grow and achieve is an opportunity not everyone has.

I'm not disrespecting NT women, I'm saying that some might not be right for me because of the dynamic nature.


DUDE!! ! Take some responsibility!! !! It has nothing to do wit NT women. Its the way YOU treat women in general.

Exactly. Let's just say that someone had an occupied profile dedicated to warning girls about him and had some of the things he told her in public. And yes I had posted it in the past



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22 Mar 2013, 3:19 pm

cakey wrote:
So wait Wolfheart, are you going to keep dumping girls just because you find a "hotter one"? Imagine with girls did the same to you and leave you for a guy who is better in bed or has a bigger ****? Wouldn't you feel worthless and emotional about it too? By that first converstion you posted, this girl had feelings for you and you left you on the basis of physical appearance. So you only acre about how a girl looks? Nothing about personality? Have you ever even been in true love before? I want to know.


Girls dump or won't go out with guys for pretty fickle things. I remember a girl I liked in high school said she'd not go out with a guy under 5'10. Maybe he just finds it normal because girls rejected him. I know with the interweb famous bodybuilder Zyzz, he got rejected by a bunch of girls, and then became a bodybuilder. Then his bitterness caused him to do things like this:
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When people aren't attracted to people usually, though, they don't say actually why. They say "I just don't think we have chemistry/spark/blah blah." I don't think it's an NT/AS issue as Wolf described, but to NTs, they're more likely to wanna hear the BS explanations like that. A lot is just matter of phrasing. If Wolf just said "Hi, I met someone I found a lot more in common with and am more attracted to" to her, there'd probably be less hard feelings. Still not lying, just not saying "Yeah and she works out and is blonde and hotter than you hurr hurr." Diplomatic words, yo.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:23 pm

You're forgetting, this was a matter of;

"Oh, you were good enough to f#¢% for a while, but I want someone skinnier and blonde. I've already got her, see? *shows texts* You can see yourself out, loser."



Reeeeal classy.



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22 Mar 2013, 3:26 pm

1000, but girls/guys who do that are very shallow. People get old and wrinkley anyhow, and personality keeps people together, not looks. I do understand how Wolfheart can develop to act this way, and I pity it. Even so, I still think people should live by the golden rule. Just because the rest of the world appears evil, it isn't and we don't have to act evil to match it.