Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'?

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If you lived within biting range you might have a tender tushie for that comment!


(Wait... I think "thanks - you too!" is probably the proper social thing to say...)
Pesky oceans... they keep getting in the way!

I must have something wrong with my then, I love masculinity. Although the guy I like doesn't have very masculine eyes, it's more than made up for by his impressive jaw and nose.


Yes, this is me and my crush. God I look like a dork in every photo I take with him...he makes me so nervous and excited!

Although he did shave his head recently
http://www.aflphotos.com.au/images/thum ... 278140.jpg - you can see his eyes better in this photo...the most amazing eyes in the world.

You two look so lovely together...

He plays some sport?

@kezzstar

There's nothing wrong with you. Different people like different things.

Yeah, he's a big, scary Brisbane Lion!! !! !! !! !! !! Well, when he's on the footy field. He's a bit shy when he's not completely manhandling his opponent. Lovely man though. Don't know how he's been single so long (maybe something to do with his habit of giving away stupid free kicks...).

What you say is true, true confidence comes from acceptance within but it's difficult to be content if you are a perfectionist. Look at many of the greatest artists in history, they were very self critical and a masterpiece to the artist might not be as beautiful since sometimes beauty is in the eye of beholder.

However beauty is not completely subjective in all matters, of course there are trends and fashions of each culture that are considered as more desirable to the opposite sex and people will tend to learn towards these standards.

If growing facial hair and packing on thirty pounds of muscle gives the OP more confidence, I would tell him to go for it but not to abuse anything without consulting a general practitioner. I definitely feel more confident with a beard or goatee as I think it makes one appear more wiser or mature.

He's cute. That's just the right amount of facial hair. But either way is fine with me. But it has to look right. I talking
cousin it status is out!

So what happens if I'm slim, a little feminine, but have a beard and body hair?

I wonder if I could get my goatee-ish chin beard and my mustache to connect if I went on roids... Hmm...

Yeah me too. I i really don't like facial hair or chest hair. I dunno why.

Sounds like someone is a bit sexually confused, personally I know most women like a bloke who's a bit rough, rugged, ready and handy like myself. Saying that, I don't mind a girl in a football outfit and I mean soccer, not American football.

So you'd rather have this guy


Over this guy

YES

Hot Blonde Girl
You are hot!! ! :0 xxxxxx
10:36pm
Ryan Vincent West
Oh thanks Courtney so are you xxxxxx
10:38pm
Hot Blonde Girl
I'm not. But seriously get in my bed xxxxxx
10:38pm
Ryan Vincent West
I wish, maybe I can come do a job for you sometime xxxxxx

See girls like the rough handyman look because it lets them know you are a hands on man, 1000knives, you'd probably benefit from getting a tool belt like me, growing your goatee out and just walking the streets for jobs.

So you'd rather have this guy


Over this guy


I don't think so.

This almost sounds like them Chopper Reid parody videos where he tells people how to be a real man.

Wolf, that's not the first chat log with Courtney you have shared with us here and you have been asked to stop many enough times. You're not the only person with admirers here and most people here would give you more respect for yours if they didn't run away after meeting you IRL.

You are seriously telling a girl what she is supposed to like as a girl? My attraction is out of your control I'm afraid.

And yes, the guy you posted is hot I can't see the competitor, but if he is scruffy with beard and chest hair, I'll pass, thank you.