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16 Apr 2013, 11:20 am
This is STILL going on?!?!?!?!?!
16 Apr 2013, 1:28 pm
Wolfheart wrote:
MXH wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
If you knew that not everyone was capable of being monogamous, would you still force monogamy on them even though you know it would lead to divorces and cheating? If you knew that not everyone is capable of being straight, would you still force them to marry a woman? It is about looking at both scenarios and making a decision or reaching a compromise based on various factors instead of jumping in with this sense of self righteousness, all that does is mask the problem by pushing it underground instead of finding a conclusion.
I can't explain why some people are gay but it happens just in the same way that I can't explain why some people are bipolar, I can't explain why some people are addicts, not everything is in black and white & not everyone has gone according to God's plan, people don't wake up one day and decide to be a certain way, nobody is perfect and people are different. It is about looking at the big picture and every factor instead of judging others. I think it's about coming from a place of love rather than a place of judgement.
I can't explain why some people are gay but it happens just in the same way that I can't explain why some people are bipolar, I can't explain why some people are addicts, not everything is in black and white & not everyone has gone according to God's plan, people don't wake up one day and decide to be a certain way, nobody is perfect and people are different. It is about looking at the big picture and every factor instead of judging others. I think it's about coming from a place of love rather than a place of judgement.
What does being gay have to do with this thread? Unless you're trying to come out of the closet.
Fact stands no one here has seen you change anymof the three times in the past 6 months that you've claimed it. You're just turning into the boy who cried wolf.
I am simply saying that being of a different sexuality, bipolar or on the autism spectrum isn't a choice, however I think that being monogamous and faithful is a choice so in that case, people who can't be monogamous should not be in a monogamous relationship. However sometimes it is a case of meeting the right girl, some people can only be faithful when the right girl comes along because they have to love the person to be truly committed to them.
I have a real reason to change now, a real vision and goal of achieving that ideal lifestyle, to inspire others through sports or art and to focus on the positives.
This just gets more an more absured the more it goes on.
Funny thing is despite the fact that he's still deflecting, peppering his text with meaningless "feel good" BS and having a completely different conversation than everyone else in the thread............. I actually kind of get his point.
If this staring girl has a boyfriend and is still interested in the OP there could be any number of explainations. She could be in an open relationship, they could just be casually dating, or things aren't going well in the relationship and she's looking for other options. Regardless of the reasons, they are hers not the OPs, so he shouldn't feel guilty about what happens if something develops. Maybe if they were married/engaged I'd feel different but you guys are hormonally charged college kids, I wouldn't get too hung up on being morally righteous. I say if you get the chance to hook up with her, go for it.
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16 Apr 2013, 1:34 pm
17 Apr 2013, 9:06 pm
Ugh - felony thread hijack here... 
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20 Apr 2013, 4:14 am
Am I the only one thinking the reason she stares at you is because she dislikes you and therefore possibly gives you the so called "death stare"?
I know a lot of stares directed at me in public are death stares, so I know what it is. 
20 Apr 2013, 5:03 am
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Am I the only one thinking the reason she stares at you is because she dislikes you and therefore possibly gives you the so called "death stare"?
I know a lot of stares directed at me in public are death stares, so I know what it is.
I know a lot of stares directed at me in public are death stares, so I know what it is.
I havent ruled out that possibility either but doing it for months i dont think she is a hateful person,and somewhat she is smiling with her friends once she notices me but anyway f**k her..I just needed to tell it to someone,actually people who have had this situations before and have the same difficulties like me thats why i posted it in the aspie forum
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