13 May 2013, 7:17 pm
I have one but it goes back and forth between each of us saying 'I love you' at some point then having bust ups as his behaviour regularly infuriates me and and I end things and we don't talking for several weeks, then it goes back on again as I miss him
It's highly dysfunctional and has involved the most pain and most pleasure I've experienced in interacting with a person so it's addictive in a f-ked up way 
Sometimes I've wanted him dead I've hated him so much and other times I go to sleep (when on my own) whispering 'I love you!' to myself (Lol, directed towards him not me btw!) It must be some kind of mid-life crisis or hormones!
Either way, a standard relationship would just be too dull after this!
Standard relationship models are just so passe these days! (Joke)
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13 May 2013, 7:27 pm
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
I find committed relationships with men to be pretty much something I never want, sex with men is not really my thing, not even because I don't like the physical aspect, I just don't like men for the most part,(as in, I dislike most men I encounter socially and would not want to sleep with them) so if I'm sleeping with a guy, it's definitely a FWB situation, but never more. It's pretty much the same with women, but the only committed relationships I could even imagine in my future would definitely be same sex relationships. I tend to like women, most of my friends are women, etc. I just don't have the draw to be in anything committed with a dude.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
If you were in a committed relationship, why did you get an abortion? Not trying to be mean, was he being a dirtbag about it? You don't have to answer if it is too personal a question.
The number one reason was that I have no desire to raise a child, no intention of ever being a parent.
I would have gladly raised the child for you.
Well, that is officially the weirdest, creepiest, most f***ing disgusting thing anyone has ever said to me on these forums. Go choke.
Edited to clarify: If you want a kid, go adopt one, don't romanticize a clump of cells I had removed from my uterus like a parasite.
Bit of an overreaction there!
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13 May 2013, 7:31 pm
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
I find committed relationships with men to be pretty much something I never want, sex with men is not really my thing, not even because I don't like the physical aspect, I just don't like men for the most part,(as in, I dislike most men I encounter socially and would not want to sleep with them) so if I'm sleeping with a guy, it's definitely a FWB situation, but never more. It's pretty much the same with women, but the only committed relationships I could even imagine in my future would definitely be same sex relationships. I tend to like women, most of my friends are women, etc. I just don't have the draw to be in anything committed with a dude.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
If you were in a committed relationship, why did you get an abortion? Not trying to be mean, was he being a dirtbag about it? You don't have to answer if it is too personal a question.
The number one reason was that I have no desire to raise a child, no intention of ever being a parent.
I would have gladly raised the child for you.
Many women don't want to go through 40 weeks of pregnancy and then labor and birth just to give away their child. I've been through it four times with babies that I wanted, and it's no walk in the park. I cannot imagine going through all that for a baby that I didn't want in the first place and that there was no chance I would change my mind and want later.
Also, there are many, many people out there to adopt babies. I'm sure that having an abortion wasn't based on worry that there wouldn't be anyone to raise the child.
She made the decision that was right for her. There are many babies out there to adopt and kids that need foster homes. How many of them are you helping out? I'd worry about the ones that are here already before worrying about the ones that aren't.
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13 May 2013, 7:32 pm
13 May 2013, 7:33 pm
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
I find committed relationships with men to be pretty much something I never want, sex with men is not really my thing, not even because I don't like the physical aspect, I just don't like men for the most part,(as in, I dislike most men I encounter socially and would not want to sleep with them) so if I'm sleeping with a guy, it's definitely a FWB situation, but never more. It's pretty much the same with women, but the only committed relationships I could even imagine in my future would definitely be same sex relationships. I tend to like women, most of my friends are women, etc. I just don't have the draw to be in anything committed with a dude.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
If you were in a committed relationship, why did you get an abortion? Not trying to be mean, was he being a dirtbag about it? You don't have to answer if it is too personal a question.
The number one reason was that I have no desire to raise a child, no intention of ever being a parent.
I would have gladly raised the child for you.
Well, that is officially the weirdest, creepiest, most f***ing disgusting thing anyone has ever said to me on these forums. Go choke.
Edited to clarify: If you want a kid, go adopt one, don't romanticize a clump of cells I had removed from my uterus like a parasite.
I hardly can even imagine your mother viewing you the same way. I'm sorry I said anything at all.
Well you don't know my mother, you don't know me, but don't apologize, please go on, tell me how my mother, who is a pedophile and likes little girls, like me and my sister, views me? Now that I'm an adult and I'm of no use to her and she literally has wished me dead repeatedly, TELL ME ALL ABOUT HOW YOU IMAGINE MY MOTHER VIEWING ME
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13 May 2013, 7:35 pm
OliveOilMom wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
meems wrote:
I find committed relationships with men to be pretty much something I never want, sex with men is not really my thing, not even because I don't like the physical aspect, I just don't like men for the most part,(as in, I dislike most men I encounter socially and would not want to sleep with them) so if I'm sleeping with a guy, it's definitely a FWB situation, but never more. It's pretty much the same with women, but the only committed relationships I could even imagine in my future would definitely be same sex relationships. I tend to like women, most of my friends are women, etc. I just don't have the draw to be in anything committed with a dude.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
I was in a committed relationship years ago with a dude, got pregnant, got an abortion, and I was pretty careful then, but I'm extremely careful now. But that's how I dealt with the one unwanted pregnancy that came up, in a responsible manner. I've never caught an STI/STD etc. Sex is just sex, it's nothing more to me. The idea of someone I've slept with thinking it's more just repulses me. And I've run into those situations, I generally cut it off as soon as this comes to light.
If you were in a committed relationship, why did you get an abortion? Not trying to be mean, was he being a dirtbag about it? You don't have to answer if it is too personal a question.
The number one reason was that I have no desire to raise a child, no intention of ever being a parent.
I would have gladly raised the child for you.
Many women don't want to go through 40 weeks of pregnancy and then labor and birth just to give away their child. I've been through it four times with babies that I wanted, and it's no walk in the park. I cannot imagine going through all that for a baby that I didn't want in the first place and that there was no chance I would change my mind and want later.
Also, there are many, many people out there to adopt babies. I'm sure that having an abortion wasn't based on worry that there wouldn't be anyone to raise the child.
She made the decision that was right for her. There are many babies out there to adopt and kids that need foster homes. How many of them are you helping out? I'd worry about the ones that are here already before worrying about the ones that aren't.
Thank you. Thank you thank you thank you.
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13 May 2013, 7:35 pm
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13 May 2013, 7:37 pm
Christ, the only reason you asked, clowndudewhatever, was so you could retroactively place some value on a dead clump of cells. That's creepy. If you want a baby, there are PLENTY OF BABIES that need a parent, need anyone to take care of them. Go help a baby that exists, go help a baby that has been born and has no one to help it.
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13 May 2013, 7:39 pm
JanuaryMan wrote:
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Well you don't know my mother, you don't know me, but don't apologize, please go on, tell me how my mother, who is a pedophile and likes little girls, like me and my sister, views me? Now that I'm an adult and I'm of no use to her and she literally has wished me dead repeatedly, TELL ME ALL ABOUT HOW YOU IMAGINE MY MOTHER VIEWING ME
meems, I'm sorry those things happened to you. As much as apple is a creep at times, no one here including him is psychic or is going to know about your past.
I dislike the comments about abortion as well.. but you have to remember this is a public forum and that again we aren't psychic.
No, I'm not expecting anyone to be a psychic, I'm expecting people to know they AREN'T psychics, and not make a moral point by using my parents or family or anyone I know that they don't.
OR to make a moral point about s**t that doesn't exist. Please, "I would've taken care of that baby" BS, if he wanted to be taking care of an orphaned baby, he would be doing that, not saying he WOULD'VE taken care of one I never had.
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13 May 2013, 7:42 pm
13 May 2013, 7:43 pm
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13 May 2013, 7:46 pm
JanuaryMan wrote:
meems wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
meems wrote:
Well you don't know my mother, you don't know me, but don't apologize, please go on, tell me how my mother, who is a pedophile and likes little girls, like me and my sister, views me? Now that I'm an adult and I'm of no use to her and she literally has wished me dead repeatedly, TELL ME ALL ABOUT HOW YOU IMAGINE MY MOTHER VIEWING ME
meems, I'm sorry those things happened to you. As much as apple is a creep at times, no one here including him is psychic or is going to know about your past.
I dislike the comments about abortion as well.. but you have to remember this is a public forum and that again we aren't psychic.
No, I'm not expecting anyone to be a psychic, I'm expecting people to know they AREN'T psychics, and not make a moral point by using my parents or family or anyone I know that they don't.
OR to make a moral point about sh** that doesn't exist. Please, "I would've taken care of that baby" BS, if he wanted to be taking care of an orphaned baby, he would be doing that, not saying he WOULD'VE taken care of one I never had.
Yeah, that was some weird ass stuff right there. Still...when stupid comments like that get you mad probably best to do what MXH said.
I'm irritated, but it hasn't come to a point of a feeling of anger. If I get pissed off by the forum I usually go do something else and come back later if I'm still thinking about it. Why censor my thoughts and try to be sensitive to someone who is saying weird s**t to me? This isn't group therapy, I don't see the point in pretending it's not gross or weird on the chance I might come across as less than sweet and nice.
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