Are you content with dying alone and unloved???

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24 Jan 2007, 12:45 pm

If it gets past a certain point I'll just kill myself. It's the main thing I want in life and if I can't get it than I'd rather be dead.

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24 Jan 2007, 3:50 pm

Unbelievably I agree with Ahayes lol. Don't take it personal though dude, I still think your an ok guy. I've been riding the suicide fence for the past 7 or 8 yrs, I'm becoming more and more content being alone and using escorts, if only I could afford them more often. Relationships, unless she was AS, are too full of drama and irrational behavior and baggage.... But, it is a strong biological drive, and a need for happiness in life in most people, to be intimately fulfilled.
This is why I stated in the suicide thread in the haven that suicide is a right to self ownership, but I do not wish to derail the thread.

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24 Jan 2007, 5:03 pm

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Dear message sender,

Perhaps I should have checked out the "About Everything" question first for answers. As a 36 year old Aspie (diagnosed at 33) my stand on your question is as follows. Having made numerous attempts at finding a girlfriend kind, smart, funny, loving, generous, & people-friendly. So far nothing. I have begun to confess to friends and even acquaintances that I am an Aspie. The little I have learned about my condition reveals that relationships are hard enough to understand for a non-Aspie, only more so for an Aspie. I have not yet been in a relationship more than friends with a woman though in a lifetime of being single, lonely, & male I keep hoping. I'd almost be content to not risk being hurt again by not trying ever again. If women would only act like they just want to be platonic friends (which always to be the case when put to the test) I'd be O.K. It's only when the flirting has happened after a long period of platonic friendship after I accepted that the desire was all mine. She-in this fortunately few cases- flirted too well. The way I've always wanted from a woman on a date. Only then did I learn the hard way she too was only having fun & was committed already. There's nothing I can do to control anybody else's behavior. How can I cope in not feeling so hurt & confused in the future?

mingusman (Wausau, WI)

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25 Jan 2007, 1:50 am

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I agree with starbuline.

Those porn "stars" look like freaking aliens! What the hell is attractive with plastic boobs and hair so bleached it looks like grandmas?

YUCK!

Gods beautiful creations are sexy as they were made. No need to blow things out of proportions with silicon.

The natural female body is so attractive in nature that if it doesn't cause a hardon, someone should check their sexual orientation(and sexual function).

Agreed. I absolutely LOVE the natural female body. Normal women are so sensual and voluptuous! Curves are a big turn-on for me. Beautiful women are not the ones that get airbrushed into magazines, beautiful women are the very ones that surround you in your day-to-day life.

And porn stars are so ugly. They may have bodies perceived as ideal but they look like mutants! Because there is no 'ideal'.

Just look at Carmen Electra and Pamela Anderson. They are so cartoonish in their sex appeal that they give me eye-sores. Does anyone really think they are attractive?

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25 Jan 2007, 1:53 am

Starbuline wrote:

Yes she does. People like you are the reason why she commits suicide in the end.

Awww...I was just about to go and rent it Starbuline. That sounds utterly depressing...just the way I like it! But now I know how it ends - thats okay, but everyone please refrain from the spoilerish comments.

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25 Jan 2007, 2:15 am

remescen wrote:

Starbuline wrote:

Yes she does. People like you are the reason why she commits suicide in the end.

It's one of those movies that wraps around itself. You see the end, then the begining and middle and the end again.

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26 Jan 2007, 7:38 am

No, i'm not.

I want to have friends.

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26 Jan 2007, 1:24 pm

Da, nyet, da.

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26 Jan 2007, 3:17 pm

SeaBright wrote:

Da, nyet, da.

English please.

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26 Jan 2007, 6:37 pm

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biostructure wrote:

Since there is no way to directly measure happiness

For the purpose of most experiments happiness is mesured in the same way as stomache ache. i.e. you ask the subject if they have it and how bad/good it is. Usualy on a scale of 1-10. When you have large enough test groups you get a accurate average.

People can only measure happiness relative to how they have felt at other times in their lives, and people's "happiness scales" may be different. At least with the stomach ache, you have a reasonably confident shared baseline of no pain (assuming none of the people have life-long chronic aches), whereas with happiness, how can you define the total absence or complete presence of it?

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26 Jan 2007, 8:34 pm

I won't die alone. I will be with someone--just finding someone I am compatible with will be difficult (I am quite picky about who I date).

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26 Jan 2007, 9:09 pm

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SeaBright wrote:

Da, nyet, da.

English please.

нет

いいえ

nein

아니다

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26 Jan 2007, 9:13 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

I won't die alone. I will be with someone--just finding someone I am compatible with will be difficult (I am quite picky about who I date).

Tim

well if your AS and your too picky, you'll never find anyone. It's not like our options are that good, we're lucky if we find 1 or 2 people who like us, EVER.

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