Girl dates me for being nice to her: Matrix glitch report.

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Cambodia!!

Sounds you like have really tight game then. Not sure why this is all a surprise to you then!

Guys, this situation isn't that unrealistic; I think I have experienced something similar 7 years ago.

There was a girl whom I helped with her chemistry homework. She was from Kosovo, and she was kind of isolated, socially. But she worked hard, which I found kind of "attractive". If I had approached her the right way, it might have worked, but I was 17, oblivious to dating, and really not ready for a relationship (not like the latter has changed since then). I'm not sure how serious she was about Islam, though, so it's arguable whether I could have got laid. And approaching someone specifically because she doesn't have any other options may not be a good idea, either.

I wouldn't say "really tight", just that a lot of girls, especially when drunk, aren't afraid to sleep with you on the first day they meet you so long as you're a little bold, they like you, and don't make any major fuck-ups.



You suck at this game Boo.

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I thought Kosovars wore their Islam fairly lightly?

Shau, would you say most of the women you've slept with approached you (much like the girl in this thread)? That may be why you don't get objections--she's already looking to hook up with you. Now that I think about it, this has been my experience with these types of women as well. I don't hook up with drunk women though, but I suspect drunkeness also removes objections since it removes inhibitions. When I approach random women though, there's lots of hurdles I had to learn how to smoothly manage as she isn't thinking about "hooking up."

Sri Lanka?

I can't believe the s**t I'm reading in this thread. Some of the advice sounds positively date-rapy..........

No means NO!

Shau, If she says she's not ready for sex, she's not. You shouldn't push it on her. It sounds like you know that already so that's good.

Interceptor - don't follow the School of Life posts, they will confuse you more because the speakers are blind to relativity!

"Follow Me" = Follow your Heart.

North Korea. She's from North Korea.......

Laos?

I like your quote.

Yes I do know Koreans.

Nope, if you press in sequence Up Up, Down Down, A, B then her legs open for you automatically.

That would be a cheat code, my fiend.

We're not on about serious resistance. There's a difference between a very teasing and playful 'no' whilst continuing to rub you and kiss you and one that is said and meant seriously (defensive or emphatic body language). The body language can give you a good idea of what is meant. There are women that feel societally guilty for participating in sex, but want to have it deep down and for a dominant partner to take charge. This isn't the same as completely disregarding that person's wishes and forcing yourself on them. It takes judgement to work out which is which.

A lot of women do put up token resistance, although I very much understand the point that this can be used to nullify genuinely non-consenting partners. I had a woman who I later realised wanted me to basically rape her and she was very put-out and pissed off when I flatly refused to play ball because she frightened and confused me.

While throwing a Pokéball?

Uh no, following this advice is rather dangerous (especially since those of us on the spectrum can find it difficult to read body language). If someone is giving "mixed signals", then either ask for clarification to obtain verbal consent or don't have sex with her at all. You need to be 100% sure that consent is given and that it's valid, otherwise you could find yourself charged with rape. Also, if she is conservative and feels guilty about her sexuality, then the solution is not to try to coerce her into sex. You have to make she's comfortable with it before having sex with her.

Shau: Whatever you do, don't do this.