Attraction

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I find it so odd he does not see this.

Let's not stoke up old fires. I mean, there is probably much I do not 'see', and perhaps you, too. I don't know.

I would say to those who put so much stall in looks - go for a month completely seeing each person's look as complete and utter camoflage. It's like that cardboard town in Blazing Saddles. It's not there, and you refuse to be fooled by it!

After this month, your world, and relationships in it, could well change.

I've come to the conclusion he simply doesn't want to.

I find it so odd that you refuse to accept reality. Not how things go in your world but in the outside world.

Same with cafe.

I bet she's unattractive and can't get a guy that is better looking, but she acts like she is doing that guy a favor because he is unattractive to her friends.

Pictures would explain everything. I bet you cafeluit is a 5 or 6 at best. Therefore her ex boyfriend was a 5 or 6.. That also plays into my theory that women don't like to date down in terms of looks.

The only solution is for cafeluit to post a picture of her and her unattractive ex boyfriend otherwise her talk is all subjective and not logical.

We also require one picture of lost561 sprawled out on a bed of red roses, giving the camera the sassiest look he can muster. Before we go any further we need to assess lost's seduction value. Based on the fact that he implied cafe was unattractive in the same sentence that he asked for a picture... 3/10.

i'm sure when you're in my age group (teens to mid twenties) looks matter more. And when your old its more of your status in society like how much money do you make? whats your job? do you even live on your own and have a job and drive? stuff like that

Thats probably the reason why hobos arnet that attractive or 40 year olds who live with their mom.



Iv'e heard that for women before they have a kid they put a greater emphasis on looks in a potential partner. But once the first baby is born, they want a man that can support her and her offspring and looks aren't at a top priority.

Well, if that soothes your mind, then keep saying I am unattractive. Let's say I am a 5 or a 6. Still not relevant because was not the point of discussion at all.

And no, there is no 'only solution' because there is no problem. This whole battle is all in your head. You sound boderline paranoid and very stalkish. I reported you to a mod.

You come to the strangest conclusions.

Status in society means about as much to me as looks do. While it's true for most people what importance they place on looks is affected by age, it never was for me. Of course, I never was the boy crazy type either, so I suppose that ties into it a bit.

First off, it is relevant whether you are a 5 or 6 because if you were an 8 or 9 than you wouldn't be dating an unattractive man. I never said you were unnactractive, I said you probably were.

How do I sound borderline paranoid & stalkish? Your too funny. Are you my doctor now?

I too could say that I dated a woman that was unnactractive and then say I'm willing to date down in looks, when in fact I'm equal in terms of looks to that woman. You probably are unattractive, that's why you dated an unattractive man according to others.

There is a problem, I've already stated it in my previous comments; the problem is with your mode of argument.

2 things.

1. If I was a stalker, I would have asked face of boo for your picture since you sent it to him.
2 why don't you prove me wrong with a picture and make me be quiet? What do you think I want your picture for so bad?

*sitting at my imaginary desk, quill in hand*

*reads new posts* *considers*

Gah. *knocks over inkwell* I'm going for a smoke.

(Also, cody is an accidental genius. Every tenth post or so. And funny at that. The force is strong in that one.)

I don't have to prove anything for anyone, and I am seriously reporting you right now.

Why even post then? Your posts are pointless if the don't have a purpose.

Go ahead and report me for suggesting that you might be unattractive.

I was away for literally 15 minutes...

Physical attraction is NOT important to me. I have a low vision disorder thou & am somewhat on the asexuality spectrum & I don't think I look that good myself. I'm just happy to have someone give me a chance especially if she can accept me as I am & I have that.

I chose, "I only date hot chicks." But have been out of the "game" for 2.5 years, and don't really miss it. Hot means acceptable for me. If the physical attraction isn't there or up to par, its on to the next one. Hot can mean anything, geeky, foreign, its just how that person puts it all together.

The "super hot" or 10's I tend to avoid just because I'd rather not take my chances on high maintenance women or gold diggers. I know all super hot women are not like that, but better to be safe than sorry.