What are your non-negotiables? (apart from must love cats)

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To be clear, a lot of my requirements could be covered under 'not emotionally immature or passive aggressive', but I feel it's better to be specific.

Guess I'll do this because it's 1am and I'm up for laughing at what I'm like. Eligible, not too stupid, intelligible, cute as cupid.

Self-respecting, not averse to being physically active where possible
Intellectually curious
Compassionate
Tolerant of my good self: my tastes on the whole, ways, and lack of money
Has some decorum including not faffing on the phone when in talkative company, and not slurping food
Be physically attractive to me, although my preferences are fairly arbitrary
Doesn't own a onesie

-Must understand Morse code
-Must be able to play medieval musical instruments
-Must have double jointed thumbs
-Once had an ecstatic crush on Jesus (or other religious figure), but totally over him after reading the God Delusion
-Helicopter license

Wavecannon, is that Worker and Parasite on your avatar?

Must be male
Must be tall
Must not be skinny or muscular
Must be more social and outgoing then me (but still not very social)
Must be quiet and not upset if i am moody and don't talk
Must initiate intimate relations
Must not have children
Must need alone time
Must be a gamer (or not get in the way of me gaming)
Must be able to be intellectual enough to understand my ramblings on my special interests
Must be willing to possibly never move in
Must never want their own children
Must not be a clean freak (The messier the better)
Must be compassionate
Must not smoke
Must be willing to not do my sensory aversions.

And of coarse, Must love cats.

Male
Must:
Make me laugh, be funny
Be considerate
Respectful
Intelligent
Trustworthy
Reliable
Caring
Gentleman
Stands up for me, and I stand for him, like I team
Brave
Determined
Loyal
Honest, straightforward
Generous
Passionate about the things he does
Rational, logical
Sensible
Similar tastes, things in common
Doesn't take drugs-that includes not smoking-, and doesn't abuse alcohol, drinks with moderation.
Taller than me.
Supportive, and lets me to be supportive too.
I can help him, and he helps me.
That's how I'd like it to be.

must not eat animals and their secretions.

non drug user or smoker.

must not play Nintendo wii I can't take some one seriously who plays a console that rhymes with "pee"

1. Must be male
2. Must love animals and not think less of them (definitely a cat lover)
3. Must be taller than me
4. Be average-looking or attractive
5. Be interested in one or more of these -history, science, paranormal, art, literature, theology, philosophy
6. Patience is definitely a must
7. Not get too attached nor leave me to the point where I miss him endlessly
8. Must not have a very high libido
9. Could be a smoker since I'm one too
10. Be kind, gentle, sympathetic, and understandable of my situations

No Offspring from Previous Relationships
No Victim Complex (anyone who acts like they're constantly hard done by and nothing is ever their fault seriously does my head in)
Preferably Straight (Bad experience of Bi Girls due to one of my ex's)

must not fart in bed