Guys only want one thing

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All I know is that at the first big university I went to (student pop: 28,000), a bunch of my female friends went out every weekend for the sole purpose of finding a hot guy to have sex with. Usually, they would succeed. Sometimes they'd find more than one guy a weekend.
Other times, they wouldn't find a suitable guy to sleep with but they'd find (what they would refer to as their "b***h) to act like they were going to sleep with so they could get a free ride home or someone to accompany them back to the dorm to make sure they were safe since they were smart enough not to rely on me to do it (I usually would never stay as long as them and when they drank too much they were all over the place).

A couple of my guy friends would do the same thing, of course they were usually unsuccessful. The most success they would have is maybe a make out session with some girl at the party. The other larger bunch of guy friends I had were going out trying to meet girls to date. Which I thought was ridiculous (trying to find a girlfriend at a drunken party? Unlikely..)

My experience at that university greatly disgusted me with the type of women who would go out. I only knew of two kinds of women that would go out.
Group A) They wanted to get laid so they went out to get laid and were pretty good at getting it. Group B) We just want to go out and get drunk woo! Oh is that a cute guy? Maybe I'll make out with him a little but then I wanna go back to my dorm with my girlfriends.

The party scene was always interesting to me but I never stayed long. I think the longest time I ever spent at a college party was 3 hours and that's because it was at my friends' house for his brother's birthday.

i want sex but not really but i have hormones, which i see as a negative that interferes with my great want to cuddle and talk. though i'm up front and honest about it more often then not i apologize in advance. its not the reason i go after a woman but after getting closer to them it becomes a interest its quite irritating

I'd certainly never touch a woman without asking first

Other guys may vary, but for myself I'd say it's both.. I want what's in the movies, eventually, when I meet the right person and things progress to that.. but in the meantime, it's been pretty much just about sex. So, while it may seem to others that all I want is sex.. to the contrary, I want something much greater than that. It's just that I might only want sex with you/certain people as I don't really see any relationship potential beyond a nsa hookup. Guys have physical desires & needs to fulfill along the way to eventually finding emotional fulfillment. It just is what it is.

This thread is making me wonder if I am even male. I've got the parts, but these ways of thinking being discussed are completely alien; maybe my brain is more broken than I'd ever realized.

All men only want sex like all women only want liars and are incapable of loving anyone with flaws. Both are things we say to make ourselves feel better about our bad experiences.

And shoes and money!

And shoes and money!

Leaf: I really hope you're kidding.
Deuterium: I used to be where you are.

I realize that I may not be a typical guy, but personally, I've no interest in sex. So it's possible that other guys like this are out there. Personally, I usually fail to notice gender; people are people in my eyes and I judge them solely by behavior.

That last frame is so over-the-top. That's artistry. If I knew then what I know now...

men only want sex and till they get it they pursue relentlessly
and once they get it they kick the womens butt
they could rape their own kith and kin
and molest any unassuming women, kid or girl
to satisfy their lust

but the whole deal should be that women have nothing to satisfy themself
they should be raping
men can always masturbate and satisfy themself or use a whore but
why rape someone forcefully

Please see a psychologist.

If she is really from India then you have to consider the context. I'm not expert on Indian culture, but I've worked with several people from there. I've even been there. You may consider what namaste says is true in her experience.

Maybe it is a translation failure, but otherwise I can't find myself capable of agreeing with the words "they should be raping" used together.

Yeah, India's actually got endemic levels of sexual assault. Like, to a "never go to India for any reason" degree.

Noted and noted.