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I think it was very brave to present this "creepy s**t". It is interesting and I bet he's not alone in having felt this way. And by opening up a discussion he and others get help with their views and perspectives on different topics like this.

As OP stated he did not have any more thoughts and rape-modes after he had experienced sex. So more possibilities open up for discussion and solutions to these kind of harming thoughts if they are put in to action.


And now ashbashbeard struts in on his super awesome robot horse blasting Always by Ensure from a retro boombox calling OP a psycho.

No my highly seated friend a psycho plans and acts on his desires, impulses and envisioned theorized outcomes.
Nordmann says: "After having had sex I have not experienced anything like this anymore.", and he also wrote that he knew and understood that these were dark thoughts and he had to snap out of it.

All very healthy outcomes to me, he finally got laid and never raped anyone.

What, you people going to charge him with thought crime? Just for having messed up thoughts.
Je, rest of us never thought of odd stuff, we f*****g saints,. . ..... . . .. . . yo.

^ So virgins are more likely to become rapists?

With a body and mind that changes when aroused, a trait we have since our animal ancestors makes it for some very hard to control urges and temper when sexually aroused or frustrated.
Males become more dominant and aggressive when horny and sperm productivity increases as lust does in the person. And on top of that being young, being pressured into thinking you should have sex fast and hard and the increased focus on sex in our western society yes thoughts can become extreme.

And that leads to not only those who have never had sex but those who have been without it for a long time to maybe crave and long for it intensely.
Men become "gay" in prisons because they need the release, because it is in them. Those actions are often not related to the reason they are in jail to begin with, they were not rapists when they got in but now they have been sitting in jail for 5 years and someone is about to get raped. Not because they are rapists or enjoy it, but because they just wanna f**k. Nature calls, with fury. It'snot right but it's there in us.
A sex-drive is something inside most of us, it is like hunger, it simply arrives...
You wouldn't like to be fed through a tube down your throat when it's dinner time and you would most likely steal food if you were starving, cravings can become so strong that we start acting and thinking funny.
You simply want to cut, chew and swallow your food. Males and hopefully females as well like to have sex because it is natural and fun, and under the right conditions ofc with consent.

Actually I suspect that most or all of those guys were already closet-bisexuals(that prefer women) before coming to prison.

OK. I don't know what to do with that. You suspect all inmates who rape and engage in sexual activity with other inmates of the same gender were from the start already a tiny bit bisexual.

Haha maybe. I donno.

My point is, whether they are super gay or straight they still get the urge to f**k, especially if some time has past and your current girlfriend Lady Left/Right Hand just doesn't cut it anymore.

Show me a study that correlates virgins and being rapist.

Boo, I never said they were. I just tried to explain that urges when something very natural and important (to some) is absent or not available the longing for it can become so strong that it crosses boundaries.

You'll need to find that paper yourself I have no interest in making that connection between rapists and virgins. I never stated that that was something you took from my defense post about OP being called a psycho. Where I explained (tried) that some situations and forces in life can make you think in extremes.


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See this. This is an orphanage for children of war. Mother was ripped from her child and maybe even killed.
Now this childish is without something that she needs, and that's the natural embrace of her mother, scent, voice... whatever!
The girl has been here for about a week, and one day she grabs a chalk goes out in the yard and draws her mother
on the ground and later curls up in a fetal position and lays there for hours, until moved.
Now is this a silly innovative little rascal messing about,.. or is it a human being that is crazily craving something very natural,
yet important, a woman's embrace. Something so important to a individual that she decided that these solution in the extreme
longing made her go and draw her mother on the ground and lie there for a couple of hours.
Desires and natural core human interaction, be it sexual or just the will to reunite with ones mother is so strong that we start
building solutions in our heads, weather they are positive or not well that's up to the individual and situation.

See,she even took off her shoes, because that's mama and you don't walk om mama with shoes on.

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Just because someone has not had sex for five years does not mean they will rape someone! Prison social systems are maintained through violence and many times rape occurs more to degrade someone and declare dominance.
You tend ta die if you go without food, you don't die from not having sex.
Sexual frustration is excruciating, I have not had sex for a few months now and it does mess with my head but I have never watched a woman and thought, hmmm I wonder how I could rape her! In my opinion rape seems to be more about power and violence than it does sexual frustration or even sexual desire in many cases. I wish people would stop justifying predatory behaviours and actions with any logic that may persecute the victims of sexually violent crimes.

Yes but those are examples to describe how one may react and act when something changes inside of you and it's so forceful and self convincing that yo might act on a very bad thought.

The core thing to take from all this is that urges/longing and desire can make you act whack. That is all.
And OP is no psycho, but quite brave for posting.

My initial impression of the OPs issue leads me to believe that it's more of an OCD (unpleasent but pervasive thoughts) problem than a psycho rapist about to come unhinged issue.

I've had similar problems before (not about rape but other violent stuff) and still occasionally do. They disgust me and I would never in a million years act on them.

nice summary

I don't consider it an act of bravery, more of a stupid thing to say. He really should have kept this personal and taken it to a psychologist rather than subject himself to every man and women on the planet with the internet. Just my personal opinion, it makes me cringe when I see this sort of thing on the internet.

Did you see that other "rapist" thread? Well threads like this online encourage the stereotype that aspie like people are rapists in the media.

So by not bringing it to light and talking about it we should send people to "qualified" brain people because they know the precise course of action to take and underlying causes to rape-modes and other though issues.
What the'll do is to pump the dude full of medicine and note that he is a potential danger to women.

And do take note that this was a self-reflection on something that happened to him long ago as he says.
He says he overcame these extreme thoughts and haven't had any since he experienced sex.


Is he a "sicko" still? Should he go see a psychologist today for extreme thoughts from way back that he has not had since and understood that they are messed up.

These issues should not be concealed behind closed doors away from camera lenses. Where one person with a diploma judges if you are healthy or not.

Information like this and media will always find a way of getting their story out and causing impact in someway.
If every single Aspie who had thoughts like this went to a psychologist then I guess media would still find a big stack of reports that they could use displaying that a large amount of Aspie males are potential rapists for having had crazy thoughts and treated.

Nah I don't believe dodging media and these kind of threads would make things better. If people can't understand what is being discussed and just right of the bat label someone for having read a couple words they didn't like concerning something sensitive (especially if you are female, I get that this must be extra uncomfortable for you) then the norm of people following this crap told to them by media are not very bright.

Sexual frustration can be detrimental to the psyche, but it doesn't excuse violence. Just like having PTSD doesn't excuse domestic violence.

I disagree. The OP never acted on these thoughts. There is a big difference between thinking something and doing it.

I think Love and Dating was the wrong forum, though. This topic couldn't have less to do with love and dating.

Maybe I am not that sexual after all.