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16 Feb 2007, 4:03 pm

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I didn't know the purpose here was to get p**** o.o


It ain't to get *****,i ain't a sex maniac,i won't pressure a girl into having sex with me if she doesn't want it.


He knows what I mean, don't you worry. I was attempting to appeal to a very base level there. And I probably failed. But what the hell.

But really, what you need to do is you need to widen your horizons a bit. It will pay its dividends - not now perhaps, but in the future.



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16 Feb 2007, 4:05 pm

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Well all the NT people I know are complete bigot,hypocrite asswipes.


Not all of them are like that. The people you know are probably bigoted a***holes who aren't worth the time of day. That doesn't mean to say that they are all like that, because they aren't. What you need to do is get to know nicer people. :)



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16 Feb 2007, 4:09 pm

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Well all the NT people I know are complete bigot,hypocrite asswipes.


Not all of them are like that. The people you know are probably bigoted a***holes who aren't worth the time of day. That doesn't mean to say that they are all like that, because they aren't. What you need to do is get to know nicer people. :)


I don't know where i can find nicer people...


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16 Feb 2007, 4:11 pm

Hey, isn't judging someone on the mental disorder they have kinda bigoted too? I think you are just not getting to know the right people, and seeing how you're unwilling to do something about it and defeat yourself on it then what's the point of all this? Why do you want a girlfriend anyways?


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16 Feb 2007, 4:14 pm

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Hey, isn't judging someone on the mental disorder they have kinda bigoted too? I think you are just not getting to know the right people, and seeing how you're unwilling to do something about it and defeat yourself on it then what's the point of all this? Why do you want a girlfriend anyways?


Thank you. Apologies for the 'p****' suggestion but I think (hope!) all knew what was meant.

There are nice people all around, Unknown. Get yourself into some nice (and accommodating) local groups and you'll meet some. Even if you don't instantly make lifelong friends, you'll have a nice time.



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16 Feb 2007, 5:54 pm

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I think the 16 thing is partially for safety and law since it's the Age of Consent in a lot of states.


In Texas, it's 18. And since it's globally known that we're so proud of our legal system down here, I would assume that it is very strictly enforced.

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16 Feb 2007, 5:57 pm

As far as the original topic goes, of course there's local support groups. People have suggested to me that sci-fi conventions are good places, but I found that suggestion too stereotypical.

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16 Feb 2007, 6:15 pm

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I forgot to mention on the flipside I know girls and boys that are absolute c***s, but that's the thing, everyone's different. You have to take the incentive to actually get to know people before passing judgement.

Also I remember the ratio of girls to boys with AS is about 1 to 4. That means there's 4 times as many guys as there is girls. However, there are more girls altogether than men in the world so if you choose to go with any girl you found yourself liking it may end up being more successful.


The 1:4 ratio is only for those with a formal diagnosis. Not all Aspies are diagnosed, nor do they all have it to the same extent.

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16 Feb 2007, 6:22 pm

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Well???


Don't limit yourself to other Aspies. I had a very horrific experience with one Aspie woman I had been corresponding with. Within a week of corresponding, she was promising to marry me--and the next week, she abruptly stopped talking to me.

I posted on this incident in the Haven folder.

If you want to search for another Aspie, that's fine. But give at least one NT a try.

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16 Feb 2007, 7:00 pm

We should like... edit posts to incorporate multiple thoughts instead of doing many in succession, right? Or is that not looked down upon on these forums?


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16 Feb 2007, 7:02 pm

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We should like... edit posts to incorporate multiple thoughts instead of doing many in succession, right? Or is that not looked down upon on these forums?


It's not looked down upon.

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16 Feb 2007, 9:19 pm

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If you want to search for another Aspie, that's fine. But give at least one NT a try.


Like i siad before,i would huge trouble relating to a NT.


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16 Feb 2007, 9:22 pm

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If you want to search for another Aspie, that's fine. But give at least one NT a try.


Like i siad before,i would huge trouble relating to a NT.


Sounds like you have problems relating to any girl. Maybe you should look at what friends you have first, though I asked you twice why are you looking for a girlfriend?


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16 Feb 2007, 9:26 pm

MarieElana wrote:
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If you want to search for another Aspie, that's fine. But give at least one NT a try.


Like i siad before,i would huge trouble relating to a NT.


Sounds like you have problems relating to any girl. Maybe you should look at what friends you have first, though I asked you twice why are you looking for a girlfriend?


1.I have no real life friends.

2.You didn't ask me why i wanted a gf.


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16 Feb 2007, 9:29 pm

I did ask you and there were a lot of other posts. It doesn't exactly tell why you want a girlfriend, but I think the first step is to get actual friends


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16 Feb 2007, 9:34 pm

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I did ask you and there were a lot of other posts. It doesn't exactly tell why you want a girlfriend, but I think the first step is to get actual friends


*sighs*

That will be impossible,so i'll give up now.

YOU HAPPY?!?!?!


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