Guys how important are are these qualities to you in a girl?

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kraftiekortie
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03 Nov 2014, 11:38 am

I believe some guy will come into your life before you know "what's happening."



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03 Nov 2014, 5:15 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I believe some guy will come into your life before you know "what's happening."


Okay



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03 Nov 2014, 5:22 pm

^ Oh my, now I noticed you are 10 years younger than me.

lol stop complaining; I am 32 and I see no any romantic prospect anytime soon.



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03 Nov 2014, 5:25 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Oh my, now I noticed you are 10 years younger than me.

lol stop complaining; I am 32 and I see no any romantic prospect anytime soon.


Yes that's horrible for you too.



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03 Nov 2014, 5:27 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Oh my, now I noticed you are 10 years younger than me.

lol stop complaining; I am 32 and I see no any romantic prospect anytime soon.


Yes that's horrible for you too.


I am feeling so old. ;___:

But seriously now, I seriously think I've missed the boat in that aspect of life.



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03 Nov 2014, 5:40 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
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^ Oh my, now I noticed you are 10 years younger than me.

lol stop complaining; I am 32 and I see no any romantic prospect anytime soon.


Yes that's horrible for you too.


I am feeling so old. ;___:

But seriously now, I seriously think I've missed the boat in that aspect of life.


yes i can imagine. who knows



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03 Nov 2014, 6:32 pm

Missed what boat? I don't believe in boats! I believe everybody is the captain of their own boat. Yes, a lot of boats have already sailed but not mine no siree - this boat is packed and ready to go.

I'm 33 and it pains me to hear you say that, because I want to believe there's time left to find a partner and join forces. Maybe not parent but parenting is still biologically possible. What's most important to me is having somebody to count on.



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03 Nov 2014, 7:18 pm

I'm 53, and I've missed some boats, travelled on others.

I haven't given up the ghost, yet!



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03 Nov 2014, 7:47 pm

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Missed what boat? I don't believe in boats! I believe everybody is the captain of their own boat. Yes, a lot of boats have already sailed but not mine no siree - this boat is packed and ready to go.




In my case it was that wooden boat with the tiger passenger.

Phew.

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I don't believe in boats!


But they exist: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boat; you don't live near the coast, do you?


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I believe everybody is the captain of their own boat.


Oh boy, you're gonna kill us all.

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I'm 33 and it pains me to hear you say that, because I want to believe there's time left to find a partner and join forces. Maybe not parent but parenting is still biologically possible. What's most important to me is having somebody to count on.


Oh my.... your boat is probably some navy destroyer.



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04 Nov 2014, 2:49 am

esoterica181 wrote:
Missed what boat? I don't believe in boats! I believe everybody is the captain of their own boat. Yes, a lot of boats have already sailed but not mine no siree - this boat is packed and ready to go.

I'm 33 and it pains me to hear you say that, because I want to believe there's time left to find a partner and join forces. Maybe not parent but parenting is still biologically possible. What's most important to me is having somebody to count on.


wait. o>o you don't believe in boats. so what did you pack :o
funnier in person. one doesn't get the movements and voice online sadly.

my problem is I travel by air blimps. so I can see everyone sailing their boats but I'm all alone . air blimps are the future I tell you though. :P



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04 Nov 2014, 2:51 am

not really sure what to say to Cafeaulait anymore. sucks to see her sad about this though :(



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04 Nov 2014, 4:25 am

Oh lord guys I'm not unhappy or anything and I have my own life. It's not like I sit behind the computer all day whining and worrying. Last night I had a great time at salsa and zumba.

There was a really cute guy at salsa and I felt like we connected quite a bit and flirted. It was his last time there because the day after he was going to move to another (big) city. If he liked me he would have asked for my facebook or number or something like that. He didn't so I guess the feelings weren't mutual. I wonder if any guy I like will ever like me back and show it.



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04 Nov 2014, 6:43 am

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If he liked me he would have asked for my facebook or number or something like that. He didn't so I guess the feelings weren't mutual. I wonder if any guy I like will ever like me back and show it.


Not necessarily :wink: .



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04 Nov 2014, 8:18 am

Maybe he was just shy.

I wasn't exactly the kind of guy who would ask girls out until I attained my mid-twenties.

LOL...I know you wouldn't give me the time of day because of my age--but, if I wasn't "taken," I would definitely be honored to be on a date with you.



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04 Nov 2014, 10:01 am

sly279 wrote:
not really sure what to say to Cafeaulait anymore. sucks to see her sad about this though :(



She needs a hug.

But I am pretending I am not noticing; have to keep my tough guy image, you know.



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05 Nov 2014, 4:20 am

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Oh lord guys I'm not unhappy or anything and I have my own life. It's not like I sit behind the computer all day whining and worrying. Last night I had a great time at salsa and zumba.

There was a really cute guy at salsa and I felt like we connected quite a bit and flirted. It was his last time there because the day after he was going to move to another (big) city. If he liked me he would have asked for my facebook or number or something like that. He didn't so I guess the feelings weren't mutual. I wonder if any guy I like will ever like me back and show it.


if you aren't unhappy then why are you complaining about it. complaining comes from being unhappy about something :P

If I was happy and not lonely I wouldn't likely be on wp. wouldn't have the time to be here if I had a job/gf alongside my interests anyways.

maybe he was interested but doesn't do long distance, or he too shy.