Asperger's dating statistics

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darkphantomx1
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10 Feb 2015, 8:58 am

Hey if Smosh does it, then I will too. Smosh rocks



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14 Feb 2015, 11:48 am

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Hey if Smosh does it, then I will too. Smosh rocks



Behaving like an over-entitled, open to mail-order-bride, woman-purchaser, is working out for you, how, exactly??



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14 Feb 2015, 1:25 pm

KayteeKay wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Hey if Smosh does it, then I will too. Smosh rocks



Behaving like an over-entitled, open to mail-order-bride, woman-purchaser, is working out for you, how, exactly??

NT-s seduce women with their know how to do-manipulation- so what the hell is the difference between this and a mail order bride??!!At the mail order bride at least he is offering her a possibility for a better life.They are two consentign adults so what is the deal???! !!



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15 Feb 2015, 11:53 pm

I don't think the 80% statistic is necessarily true because I doubt it takes people who are asexual into account. Aspies are more likely to be asexual than the NT population, so I'm sure that factors into the statistic to some extent. As far as dating goes, some of the aspies I know have dated and other who haven't by their early 20s. I've dated quite a bit since going to college, but have never been in love or in a serious relationship. I honestly wouldn't want that where I am in life about to gradate from college and move to a different state possibly.



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18 Feb 2015, 10:41 am

I don't know any statistics but my autistic little brother is married with kids and number 5 coming this autumn. He just turned 30. Me I am 32 and still single and childless. I have had 3 boyfriends. One was also disabled, we just drifted apart. Two was a clinical psychopath who mentally abused me. And three I think was lying about being divorced. But I still hope for a family one day.



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18 Feb 2015, 10:48 am

If decide to purchase a mail order bride, make sure you go with a reputable company. I didn't, unfortunately, and mine was shipped without the proper holes drilled in the box. I don't have to tell you how that worked out.


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18 Feb 2015, 10:56 am

It's hard to make love to a wooden box.



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18 Feb 2015, 8:34 pm

I'm 28 and I've never been in a relationship before. I had a month long thing with a guy I lost my virginity to when I was 17, but he dropped me for some other girl. I had casual sex with 2 other guys since then. One of the two tried to take me out on a date, but I didn't realize it was a date and I missed all the cues. The casual sex didn't last long. They found me either emotionless/cold as ice or too aggressive. There is no middle ground with me. I'm incapable of being warm and gentle. When I like someone and actually make a move, it always comes out aggressively and I scare them away. Examples of my aggression: I once grabbed a guy by his belt buckle and forcefully pulled him towards me for a kiss, once spanked a guy during sex, once dug my nails into a guy's back, once bit a guy's lips. Some of them are not as bad as others, but usually it comes out of nowhere and the guy is like "what the f***?" I guess I have to find some kind of masochist who gets off on pain. I'm basically that kid on the playground who pushes you or trips you as my way of saying I like you. I love play-fighting.



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18 Feb 2015, 8:37 pm

A person who likes to have pain inflicted on THEM is a masochist.

A person who likes to inflict pain on OTHER PEOPLE is a sadist.



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18 Feb 2015, 8:40 pm

Isn't that what I said? I said I should find a masochist who gets off on pain.



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18 Feb 2015, 9:06 pm

I see what you're saying.



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19 Feb 2015, 5:57 pm

Do any companies sell mail order husbands, or should I swing by the shelter and pick up a couple more cats on my way home?



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19 Feb 2015, 6:56 pm

Go for the cats.



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19 Feb 2015, 7:34 pm

Halfmadgenius wrote:
Do any companies sell mail order husbands, or should I swing by the shelter and pick up a couple more cats on my way home?


Idk what you offering ? how big is the crate? I'd like roomy crate and pre set up contract.



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21 Apr 2015, 6:38 pm

I will admit, I'm very jealous, envious of people that got to experience young love, like teens and 20's, especially early 20's, dating and relationships in your teens and early 20's



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21 Apr 2015, 6:47 pm

There's good and bad in young love. You learn from both.

My philosophy: if you haven't experienced young love, what's the point of regretting that? You've learned lots of life in your 20's without being in love. Now, you could use that experience to obtain love at an older age.

Sometimes, to tell you the truth, I wish I could be a virgin again, so I could "start over."