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16 Aug 2015, 8:44 pm

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..women like when the well off handsome guys look at them.

I don't. I find it awkward. But that could be an autistic thing.

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... how withotu approaching him will you ever know his interets?

By going about my own interests. And by crossing paths with those who share them. Sometimes those one is attracted to are not those whose appearance is initially desirable.



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17 Aug 2015, 2:25 am

Just make more money, that is all what they care about these days the emotional crap is a lie, they want a man who is rich to support babies any poor man is a loser!


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17 Aug 2015, 3:06 am

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Dating sites and the like are attempts to artificially create an environment where you "get to know people," like the compatibility questions and chats. Doesn't work for me, but it does for some. The commercialization of the mating process.
I think these sites are disrespectful of natural human relationships.

I think it's a good thing. Such an important decision should be at least somewhat rational.



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17 Aug 2015, 3:31 am

314pe wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
Dating sites and the like are attempts to artificially create an environment where you "get to know people," like the compatibility questions and chats. Doesn't work for me, but it does for some. The commercialization of the mating process.
I think these sites are disrespectful of natural human relationships.

I think it's a good thing. Such an important decision should be at least somewhat rational.

While I agree that using one's rationality is a good idea when considering a partner, I'm not sure I would agree that dating sites provide such.



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17 Aug 2015, 4:31 am

Typical Online dating....

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OMG I AM SO FUN TO BE AROUND BUT I TYPE LIKE A PSYCHO!! !



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17 Aug 2015, 5:15 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
Just make more money, that is all what they care about these days the emotional crap is a lie, they want a man who is rich to support babies any poor man is a loser!


yes we need another world war and draft so people like me and you and other worthless poor men can go die and be got ride of.



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17 Aug 2015, 12:06 pm

Apparently finding a random by-passer attractive is a horrible form of objectification, but having f*** buddies is not.



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17 Aug 2015, 12:19 pm

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Apparently finding a random by-passer attractive is a horrible form of objectification, but having f*** buddies is not.

Nice one!

My f**k buddy and I have a 10 year long history and it is not a casual relationship even though it is not monogamous.

And as it happened he completely objectified me and still does.

It's possible I have issues. I won't go into details as it would be a weepy haveny sort of thread.

But I do think that it is forward and unacceptable to gaze at someone with sexual appetite.



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17 Aug 2015, 12:47 pm

androbot01 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Apparently finding a random by-passer attractive is a horrible form of objectification, but having f*** buddies is not.

Nice one!

My f**k buddy and I have a 10 year long history and it is not a casual relationship even though it is not monogamous.

And as it happened he completely objectified me and still does.

It's possible I have issues. I won't go into details as it would be a weepy haveny sort of thread.

But I do think that it is forward and unacceptable to gaze at someone with sexual appetite.

*Shakes head* I'm just going to go back to listening to Hall and Oats.



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17 Aug 2015, 12:56 pm

Perhaps,



Oh, the memories. :wink:



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17 Aug 2015, 1:47 pm

androbot01 wrote:
Perhaps,



Oh, the memories. :wink:

:lmao:



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17 Aug 2015, 2:48 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh I found one!! It's a french website called Adopte un mec (Adopt a man).

Look how un-sexist the logo is:

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but it really summarizes the reality of dating sites.


Lol let's clone their source, paraphrase it in English, host w/ ads and relinquish the company to serve as chairmen.


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