Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys?

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Don't worry about that. I regret having a car and I regret having my own place even more. In the past year since I got this job I've met young men and women in their twenties, who get the same pay as me (because they've got the same job) and very few of them have their own place and some of them don't have their own car (not that any of us need one, the train goes right to the city).

What do they do? They save. In six months one young man saved enough for the down payment to buy a house. I'm still renting. If I was more disciplined, I could save. If I was more disciplined and also not paying rent, I could save at the same rate as him. Seeing these young people save their money made me feel like an immature fool, considering the rate at which I spend money on consumer electronics.

I want to replace all the things that got stolen but maybe I should save instead. I used to thing that buying a lot of stuff was the reward for working hard but instead I should work hard for no reward so that I can save the money instead. I should live like a Spartan but I can't.

Anyway, one young woman did one better than the young man. She also bought a house. She's still living with her parents. She rents the house out. So better than buying a house as a consumer product (to live in) is buying a house as an investment property. They're all going to retire wealthy and I'm going to hope I have a heard attack before I retire because I'm too undisciplined to save.

From talking to the young men and women at work, I discovered that the first step towards saving, is to not get your own place until you're married. I used to think people would judge me for living at home past 20. Not at all. Most people think it's fine for a bachelor to live with his parents. I've met very few people who said otherwise and many people who not only agree with this idea but practice it themselves.

So my rent is $10,000 per year that I'm not saving. The car is thousands more. I should move back home but I can't stand to speak to my mother more than once per week so I won't. I must try to control my extravagant spending by reigning in my emotions. When the pretty Filipina girl ghosted me, I got so angry I bought myself a $460 wrist watch in a misguided attempt to cheer myself up. I should have saved that money instead.

Oh, and by the way, girls seriously don't mind if you don't have your own place, especially since most of them don't have their own place (although it does make it easier to "entertain" them when you have privacy). I don't think girls are impressed by my car but if I get to pick them up from their house it does give me an opportunity for more alone time. Most girls don't like to be picked up on the first date anyway. When I was dating the Chinese girl she to get in my car until the second date.

Anyway if you meet at a cafe or bar the girl won't even know you don't have a car. She'll just see you walk in the door, it says nothing about how you got there.

What's a quant?

What makes you think katy is a "she"? For all we know katy could be a d00d masquerading as a chick.

A numbers guy for businesses which explains all her brilliant "math posts".(every woman in the world has evaluated guy X, etc)

That percentage might be zero or nearly zero. Sure it's not zero for most, even for most aspies it's not, but I think it's a bit rude to say that dating is easy or that anyone can do it.

So she got her quant boyfriend after she was being evaluated by every guy in the world?

I don't recall I have ever evaluated her as a dating prospect, did any of you guys do so?

No.

I highly doubt that, I believe she's really female.

Why do you think that?

Gut feeling.

And it usually does not mistake.

For example, I have doubted willbuforce when she claimed she's male before, it was very obvious to me that she's a proponent feminist woman from her reactions toward certain male posts.

Katy sounds pretty much like a female who likes to belittle inexperienced men, no way a guy is faking that persona that good.

Also, she's tarantella, a former banned user.

Out of 3.5 billions males there must be some with low enough self esteem to date a misandrist.

MissBearpolar, did you meet him on WP.net?

It needs quite a time to get evaluated by 3.5 billions women (or men) in the world, let's say half of them are adults, that's like 1.75 billions.

If it takes 1 second for each woman to evaluate me (mom and family excluded), then I would need around 55 years for my "Every woman in the world" evaluation to be completed.

Otherwise, I should do a self-whoring show aired on every TV channel/Social media in the world to be viewed by all women in the world at once.

I wonder how Katy could make it.

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It's impossible for me to believe that someone in a relationship, and an allegedly happy one, not to mention a job, social life, responsibilities, hobbies and all the big and small things an active life entails would have the time or motivation for such frantic trolling. Nor do I think someone with a remotely sane, healthy life would be capable of such focus and hatred towards something so insignificant in the big picture of things as an internet forum

Nor do I buy the tarantella story. Regardless of her issues, tarantella was obviously capable of holding more than one idea in her head and had a much better ability of processing ideas and expressing herself. She was very articulate, and made use of an excellent vocabulary - these are not things easy to hide. "katy" lacks all these things and is very easily recognisable because both the writing style and the content of her posts are virtually identical under all usernames. Which makes me doubt that she makes any attempt to disguise herself.

I almost find this funny in a way, since she started this she was showered with the attention she craves and it seems she even managed to wear down the moderators and keep her current account. The only surprising thing to me is that so many people actually take her seriously

Katy is tarantella, when she got banned first time she lost her cool, and revealed her true colors.

Do you have any proof of that? I'm not defending Tarantella, she actually showed "her true colours" plenty regarding her attitude towards men, especially men with AS, before getting banned, I'm fully aware of that. But she didn't express herself like a half wit or a stark raving mad person, which is what katy does.

Not that it makes any difference either way. I'm surprised you actually believe her claims.