Your age for "first times"

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Well, truth be told, you won't learn to be good in bed from visiting escorts. Unless whatever you're doing is painful, too weird for her taste, or just makes her uncomfortable somehow, she generally won't stop you, or worse, criticize you. Even if it's something that's simply unarousing but otherwise OK (cf. one of the above), she'll let you continue doing it because she'll think you like how it feels. And because you paid, your pleasure will be a priority for her.

That said, the sole act of being in bed with a woman, paid or not, will give you a massive surge of confidence. Which will make you act more confident when non-paid intimacy happens. And according to most women, confident in bed = good in bed.

How to have sex doesn't need to be learnt, it is innate (remember it's part of reproduction). It comes just as naturally to us as breathing does. What needs to be learnt is how to do it in culturally acceptable ways that are pleasurable for both parties.

that *was your biggest secret

it seems likely your neighbors could have smelled the green if you were staying in one of those tightly packed commieblocks

Good job! Assuming, of course, that all this is true. You did better than me, even. The most I did on a cruise ship is make out with someone. She had a fiance back home, otherwise it might have gone farther.

First crush: 11. To this day, he's the smartest guy I've ever known.
First kiss: 18. Don't ask.
First boyfriend: 18. I met him online after mentioning zombies on my profile.
First intercourse: 18. with zombie boyfriend.

I was way too young with almost everything so I think it's much better to be too old than too young.

First crush: maybe age 10?
First kiss: age 12
Sex: age 13

Not good experiences for me. I didn't have a real boyfriend that I actually liked, that liked me, until I was 20. Would have been much better to have waited.

Crush: 6
Holding Hands: N/A
First Kiss: 29
First Relationship: N/A
First Sex: N/A

I'm 29.

Sex at 13? wtf?

first crush : around 9 or 10
first kiss : 28/29
first sex : hasn't happened yet
first relationship : hasn't happened yet
first real date : 27
first time holding hands : well maybe 17, when i wanted to hold hands 27.

the first time holding hands has a story, a guy really liked me gave me roses. all i did was shove them in my locker cos i didnt know how to deal with them, i was so socially awkward and not mature minded like how i am now and all i cared for was my friends ( it was the first time in years since i had friends). the guy tried to hold my hand but i let go and went to talk to my friend. i read the card that came with the roses years later, it was sweet.

Taboo for you people's generation, maybe.

Not so much for mine...sad truth. Average age is 16 here, but more younger people than the past are getting some as well.

First Kiss: 14, my best friend Janai went through a period where she instigated make out sessions with me a lot behind the school.
First Time Having Sex: 18, some girl in my Government/Economy class invited me over.
Never Dated Anyone

Actually, the 70s were much more "free love" than it is now.

First crush: Age 5
First puppy-love kiss: Age 9
First real kiss: Age 14
First real date: Age 16
First lovemaking: Age 17

I met him at a workshop

First Crush: 8
First Boyfriend: 21
First Kiss: 21 (it was a wet kiss, it was like kissing a fish so we kiss again)
First time Holding Hands: 21
First time sitting in his Lap: 21
First Date: Never
First time for Sex: never

Wow, this makes me feel like such a late bloomer.


That reminds me, I need to update my stats.

First kiss: 21
First date: 25
First girlfriend: 27
Second base: 27
First sex: 28

kiss: 17
sex: 17
girlfriend: 17

Pretty much all of these ended at the same time, though the girlfriend part was three days later...

Haha, yep.