What desirable qualities do you have?

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Loyal to the death for the right people. I take this in a very literal sense.

Sense of humor if you aren't easily offended, enjoy disjointed thinking and hate just about everything

That about wraps it up for me.

Actually I have a really funny story that might be inappropriate, I don't know, let me know and I'll delete it if it is

After my first encounter I actually thought I had syphilis because my vision got much worse in a short time period afterwards and has never recovered but I suspect that the cause now was homelessness and drug use. Might sound doubtful to someone who hasn't been homeless but homelessness seems to make everything worse and I was using some pretty bad stuff than too.

I'll get checked next time I go in, I am very open about such issues cause I feel thats what doctors are for. I don't give them details but I let them know when I need to get checked.

I try my best to be kind and understanding and I'm willing to make a relationship work if it's important to me.

I admit, I've screwed up many times, but I try to improve myself. I've learned what I should and shouldn't do when I'm in a relationship. I try not to hold grudges but there's times when I'm not sure if I do or not.

I think I'm pretty open minded at times, but it comes with a price. I've had times when I haven't been completely open with people out of fear of rejection. If I don't agree with a certain belief or way of life, I tend to keep my mouth shut.

Syphillis usually doesn't cause serious symptoms in the first phase......it's the third phase (20 years after infection) which is the real killer.

Usually, the only symptom is a chancre sore around the genital area. It's a painless sore.

It wouldn't cause vision problems in the first phase.

Ditto!
But honestly, if someone's "just funny" while lacking other important qualities, then that makes them a clown and nothing more.


I think you're bluffing here, Raleigh.
Bring it.
List one or two more.

No pressure.

And "kind" doesn't count!
Many times I'm not even actually kind.

^ Oh, no pressure at all.

Oddly, I didn't even think of kind, but yes you are.
(Not counted though).

2) Independent thinker.

3) Self-controlled.

Your turn.

^ Isn't a nine foot tall hairy hominid with large feet

I have no problem with showing affection to those I'm closest to.

4) Takes teasing well.

Now I'm just being silly without actually making much sense. I wonder if I received a head wound recently

^ I must have the same affliction because that made perfect sense to me.

Having no sense of direction.


For some reason, men think that's cute.

Like geographically? ^

Yeah, literally geographically...

Many of the same qualities are either desirable or undesirable depending on the person doing the desiring.

For instance, I'm a person with a vivid imagination and complex inner world. This means I would make a good partner in creative activities, and can show people ideas they have never seen before. It also means I'd never criticize someone for being too much of a daydreamer or not living in the real world enough. On the other hand, it means I'm not grounded in reality enough to be someone's support system or protector--I often barely have enough attention on the outside world to care for myself.

Similarly, I am quite non-materialistic. This is desirable to some, but undesirable to people who judge others by what they have.

Finally, I am honest and straightforward. This is desirable in that I'm easy to get to know, but undesirable when it is seen as blunt. You get the idea.