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22 Jun 2016, 4:48 pm

Just saw the start date of the thread.
Ho boy.

Yeah she doesn't like you that way, man.
Please don't take it to heart, it's nothing you've done. You seem like a nice person. I'd just move on.

I'll be leaving the thread, too.


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22 Jun 2016, 5:03 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This thread is being dragged since April.

Molin, if she was really into you, then this walk would have happened already...I mean how hard really to arrange a simple walk?


And all these delays in replying...couple of days every time is a sure sign that's she's not into you, a girl wouldn't wait that long to reply to a guy she fancies, nor it would take her that much time to notice the message from him (in case she receives tons). Plus she never texted you first, another sure sign of non-interest.

The time this got dragged should tell you something.


Alright you are probably right but in my defence she seemed to be intested and i was stalling and i was stalling the asking her out part to the date of the last class and there was many delays du to sick teacher and holidays that delayed the class until May had almost gone past. I accept that it might be so, and I won't keep my hopes up. But what i plan to do and please tell me if its a bad idea. Since i can't know what the hell is going on with her, im gonna play it cool and casual keep up the convo and see if i might proove you and spectrum wrong and she has her reasons like he said.
And you only know her through what i have write and my perspective so there is no way to be completely sure.
But in either case, whatever happens im glad i met her.



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22 Jun 2016, 5:30 pm

Well, ok, you can keep it if you have nothing better to do, or if you are really convinced to be her friend only.

but personally I do think it is a bad idea, if I were you I wouldn't keep hoping on her romance-wise.



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22 Jun 2016, 6:18 pm

She is interested. Go grab some coffee or a bite to eat. Try not to over analyze everything and just be yourself (easier said than done, right?)



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23 Jun 2016, 1:16 pm

Ok go ahead, ask her out one more time.

But I am totally sure she'll block you this time.



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23 Jun 2016, 2:50 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ok go ahead, ask her out one more time.

But I am totally sure she'll block you this time.


I doub't it will come to that, it is not like i have harrassed her or anything, it's a very friendly convo so far.



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23 Jun 2016, 3:14 pm

you are a persistent, persevering man. god bless you. :flower:



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23 Jun 2016, 3:15 pm

auntblabby wrote:
you are a persistent, persevering man. god bless you. :flower:


Thank you



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23 Jun 2016, 4:07 pm

Melle wrote:
She is interested. Go grab some coffee or a bite to eat. Try not to over analyze everything and just be yourself (easier said than done, right?)


Yes, I agree. Also, I don't think "since April" is a long time. These things can go on for years. The pattern of how NT girls lose interest very quickly is not applicable to ND girls at all. They can and do stay interested for extended periods of time. As long as she is responding, she has likely not lost interest.



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23 Jun 2016, 4:09 pm

Yes, I agree. Also, I don't think "since April" is a long time. These things can go on for years. The pattern of how NT girls lose interest very quickly is not applicable to ND girls at all. They can and do stay interested for extended periods of time. As long as she is responding, she has likely not lost interest.[/quote]

What does NT and ND stand for?



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23 Jun 2016, 4:17 pm

Molin wrote:
What does NT and ND stand for?


NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).



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23 Jun 2016, 4:23 pm

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Molin wrote:
What does NT and ND stand for?


NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).


Do you think she is ND?



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23 Jun 2016, 4:54 pm

Molin wrote:
rdos wrote:
Molin wrote:
What does NT and ND stand for?


NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).


Do you think she is ND?


Yes.



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23 Jun 2016, 4:56 pm

NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).[/quote]

Do you think she is ND?[/quote]

Yes.[/quote]

Can you explain why you think that? Just curious because i'm on the spectrum too.



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23 Jun 2016, 5:18 pm

Molin wrote:
rdos wrote:
Molin wrote:
rdos wrote:
Molin wrote:
What does NT and ND stand for?


NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).


Do you think she is ND?


Yes.


Can you explain why you think that? Just curious because i'm on the spectrum too.

For some reason he always thinks that people are neurodiverse, no matter how little information he has about them.



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23 Jun 2016, 5:29 pm

Peacesells wrote:
rdos wrote:
Molin wrote:
rdos wrote:
Molin wrote:
What does NT and ND stand for?


NT = neurotypical, non-autistic.
ND = neurodiverse, autistic (+ some other "conditions).


Do you think she is ND?


Yes.


Can you explain why you think that? Just curious because i'm on the spectrum too.

For some reason he always thinks that people are neurodiverse, no matter how little information he has about them.[/quote]

Nope, and I cannot explain it. I go on what people write, and by knowing which traits are ND and which are NT. In this case, the girl appears to act in a way that makes it likely she is not NT. For one thing, if she was NT, she had broken contact with the OP long ago. She also wouldn't have taken any initiatives.