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04 Aug 2016, 8:33 pm

People often don't respect each other though.



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04 Aug 2016, 8:49 pm

But that isn't right. People SHOULD RESPECT EACH OTHER--as human beings.



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05 Aug 2016, 9:31 am

Jamesy wrote:
I don't understand why some men think women deserve respect.

Respect needs to be earned


Well, I tend to treat everyone as if they deserved respect because I think I can't afford to disrespect anyone. In other words, pure cowardice.

I also think I wouldn't enjoy it even if I could afford it, especially with women, but most people seem to view this very differently, probably enlightened by lots of valuable life experiences I missed out on.


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05 Aug 2016, 2:42 pm

Jamesy wrote:
People often don't respect each other though.


That is no excuse not to treat everyone you encounter with basic human decency.


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05 Aug 2016, 2:49 pm

You wouldn't be compatible, not because of your actual height, but because you sound like an inferior baby.



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05 Aug 2016, 7:39 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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Yesterday when I went for a walk i bumped into 2 women on seperate occasions who were both blonde/tall and both of them were quite rude to me.

I read a story on the Internet of how this 5ft9 guy was met with plain hostility from blonde girls who go for 6ft3 black guys.


And how is it known they specifically go for black guys who are exactly 6' 3" tall? Are you certain he didn't get hostile reactions from a couple blonde women and assumed the reason for this must be that? I've never really heard anyone give a specific race and height they require of their potential S.O.



Another poster said to the 5ft9 guy "maybe they just don't fancy you"


It's more likely that neither one of them happened to fancy him than that the women specifically wanted black guys who are 6' 3" and have nothing but scorn for males of any other appearance.




Women are allowed to be very choosy when finding a mate so it's no wonder some women have evolved to scorn any man who does not fit her ideal image.


Anyone is allowed to do that, doesn't mean it's the best way though, either way I think it was more a case of them not being interested in that specific person...not that they wouldn't accept anything other than a 6' 3" black guy.


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06 Aug 2016, 1:52 pm

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You wouldn't be compatible, not because of your actual height, but because you sound like an inferior baby.


Since we are all talking about basic respect, why don't *you* show some basic respect to the OP?



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09 Aug 2016, 9:45 am

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I am barely 5ft8 with brown hair.

I was saying to one of my friends the other day how much I am attracted to tall women with blonde hair. My friend then said to me "you would not be very compatible with a 5ft10 blonde lady"

Why do you think I would not be very compatible with the type of women I go for?


Call me an old romantic, but I think '5'10" blonde' barely qualifies as a 'type'.

Which is to say, you could meet such a woman who thought you were the bee's knees, or you could meet such a woman who thought you were the worst thing since wasps started kneecapping bees. And not to get you down, but there may be many reasons a woman rejects you aside from your height and hair colour.


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12 Aug 2016, 11:19 am

I knew plenty of average height brunnete girls who had relationships with tall 6ft4 blonde guys (male equivalent to 5ft10 women) but is it different if your a short/average sized girl wanting a tall man?