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23 Jun 2019, 1:10 am

auntblabby wrote:

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okay with no sex

with all due respect, i have to ask, would you be ok if the fellow "took care of his own needs" so to speak?

Might conflict with the strong christian requirement

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23 Jun 2019, 1:19 am

cyberdad wrote:

Might conflict with the strong christian requirement

"strong christian"≠"be fruitful and multiply" IMHO. there is an inconsistency there. not wishing one's mate to take care of their own needs is not compatible with the mental health of said mate, unless that person is an eunuch.

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23 Jun 2019, 1:23 am

When Onan had intercourse with Tamar, he withdrew before his orgasm and "spilled his seed on the ground", since any child born would not legally be considered his heir. The next statement in the Bible says that Onan did evil and that God slew him.

It's a deal breaker

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23 Jun 2019, 1:35 am

That’s if people take the Bible absolutely literally.

Onan, for any sensible person, is a symbolic story. Or a story which was applicable to Biblical times—but not ours.

I don’t believe in forced celibacy myself.

If I fall in love with a woman, and it turns out she doesn’t want to have sex, I would accept that. What I wouldn’t like is if she goes “back and forth” on the issue.

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23 Jun 2019, 1:41 am

I don't have an ideal partner. Someone I click with I guess.

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23 Jun 2019, 3:46 am

Someone who is laid back,

a little bit into themselves,

a tiny bit smelly,

has pastime (must not include dissecting my brain)

funny face (expressive)

Sleeps well

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23 Jun 2019, 3:50 am

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a tiny bit smelly

smelly?

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23 Jun 2019, 4:05 am

^^^there are folk who are intimidated by clean or who are turned off by the smell of cleaning products.

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23 Jun 2019, 5:07 am

cyberdad wrote:

domineekee wrote:

a tiny bit smelly

smelly?

I don't have an issue with piles of clothes on the floor, leaving the dishes for a day, a little bit of body odour.... :heart:

I'm not describing YOUR ideal partner.......

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23 Jun 2019, 5:47 am

My ideal partner is Jesus Christ. He is not into religion and I admire Him for that. Besides He is perfect, whereas I am far from it.

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23 Jun 2019, 5:50 am

by and large, in recent years, the person who has been expending the most loving energy to me, stares back at me in the mirror.

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23 Jun 2019, 5:55 am

auntblabby wrote:

by and large, in recent years, the person who has been expending the most loving energy to me, stares back at me in the mirror.

We like a lot here dude

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23 Jun 2019, 6:05 am

domineekee wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

by and large, in recent years, the person who has been expending the most loving energy to me, stares back at me in the mirror.

We like a lot here dude

You!

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23 Jun 2019, 6:11 am

domineekee wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

by and large, in recent years, the person who has been expending the most loving energy to me, stares back at me in the mirror.

We like a lot here dude

You!

why THANK YOU my WP friend and bro :flower:

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23 Jun 2019, 7:46 am

auntblabby wrote:

by and large, in recent years, the person who has been expending the most loving energy to me, stares back at me in the mirror.

Whintey said it so eloquently
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IYzlVDlE72w

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23 Jun 2019, 9:16 am

auntblabby wrote:

Arganger wrote:

okay with no sex

with all due respect, i have to ask, would you be ok if the fellow "took care of his own needs" so to speak?

I guess so, as long as he keeps it to himself

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