Difference between compliments and flirting

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25 Jul 2019, 5:16 am

Come-On-mooove: Is this cum on your shoes?



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25 Jul 2019, 5:18 am

Come-On-mooove: Is this cum on your shoes?

*gets slapped again* 8O



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25 Jul 2019, 5:51 am

Come-On-mooove: Nice shoes, it goes well with your bra.



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25 Jul 2019, 12:14 pm

Regarding the green one eye monster:

https://9gag.com/gag/a1Q4oyb?ref=fbp&fb ... hppgOIyjwg



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25 Jul 2019, 3:01 pm

The classic...

Come-On-mooove: Nice shoes, wanna f**k? :nerdy:


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25 Jul 2019, 3:08 pm

Any combinations of words or phrases can be flirting in the right context.

NTs automatically understand that there are different levels of appropriate conversation depending on how well you know someone or not.

Talking to a stranger about engine mechanics could be flirtatious under the right circumstances. For example, if you talk to someone about it for an hour, the assumption is that you like the person. In the NT world, NO actions exist outside of context, so even if you only spend time talking about a specific topic because it is interesting, there are implicit assumptions about talking with anyone about anyone for an extended period of time. Similarly, there are implicit assumptions about talking to strangers at all, and to talking about certain topics with members of the opposite sex at all. Just like how you can give someone a cheap or home made gift that is meaningful, and it can be a better gift than something fancy or expensive. The context provides the meaning, not the thing in of itself.



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26 Jul 2019, 4:16 am

BenderRodriguez wrote:
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My apologies, it looks like I took your comment too literally.

I seen a cartoon green eyed angry monster hopping with anger from one foot to the other in my minds eye... not always sure how to communicate my thoughts to words, apologies for anything misleading.



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26 Jul 2019, 9:13 am

Amity wrote:
BenderRodriguez wrote:
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My apologies, it looks like I took your comment too literally.

I seen a cartoon green eyed angry monster hopping with anger from one foot to the other in my minds eye... not always sure how to communicate my thoughts to words, apologies for anything misleading.

It's almost as if we're autistic :wink:

I actually reflected further and realised you were right anyway. Jealousy has always been a deal-breaker for me, so I haven't been around such behaviour in decades, but looking back I did remember that under the influence of the green-eyed monster you're mentioning, some of the most (otherwise) reasonable people can turn into... something completly different.


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