25 Dec 2020, 9:23 pm
25 Dec 2020, 9:54 pm
martianprincess wrote:
I can only tell if it's really overt. I never pick up on hints.
It's even a bit less a problem with the guys than with women who insist on this. Guys are more caring about the signals of girls wether they would like to be approached. I'm bad at picking up even quite obvious hints.
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26 Dec 2020, 2:29 am
26 Dec 2020, 4:36 am
martianprincess wrote:
I can only tell if it's really overt. I never pick up on hints.
Was my rolling on my back and telling you you can do anything with me, overt enough?
26 Dec 2020, 2:19 pm
Don’t flirt like that with me.....I might half-believe you 
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26 Dec 2020, 6:35 pm
26 Dec 2020, 7:50 pm
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This is one of those things that just completely baffles me. I don’t understand why it should be assumed that a relationship is romantic just because it’s between a man and a woman, so it wouldn’t even occur to me that I’d need to say that it wasn’t right off the bat. I probably wouldn’t even know a man (or woman, for that matter) thought we were anything more than friends unless he straight up said so. I would not be deliberately stringing someone along, I would honestly think that the other person also thought we were “just” friends if it hadn’t been agreed upon that we weren’t.
Once a man finds you attractive or you do find him attractive then there will be beside of anything else always be kind of a trying to get in touch except somebody is in an relationship he or she dont want to risk for the other. Women try to draw attention of the guys and try to make the most attractive ones aware of them as well as the guys wan't the women to do that and to like them. There are also additional things that the people care that are related to their very own sexual preferences. Autistic people have often a lot of problems with that.
Once a guy tries to be a lot around of you without any reason than he is most likely after you.
dragonsanddemons wrote:
This really just pushes me farther toward wanting to just keep isolating myself, I don’t want anyone thinking I’m trying to be manipulative or anything when I’m just trying to be friendly for friendliness’s sake, plain and simple.
That's not a good idea because you don't like to stay lonely on you own your whole like, despite of your autism. You may need a lot of time on you own but you should also make some friends (sexual or not) that you can rely on. It's important because life can be very hard sometimes if you don't have any support once you need it.
I know that it is hard for you to make friends, but please don't skip that. It becomes a lot harder once you are older and not as attractive looking anymore.
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26 Dec 2020, 8:36 pm
26 Dec 2020, 9:57 pm
cyberdad wrote:
The experiences I had were my fault (not the girls) as I was the one who had expectations but unless the single male is gay they will develop feelings for you unless they don't find you attractive. That is of course another story as I did the same thing to a few girls who I didn't find attractive but tried to be friends. One of them is still friends with me on facebook. So I guess two can play that game.
One problems is that guys have quite different expectations than girls. Some are aware of that but many aren't. Most women are much more aware of other people and much more calculating if it comes to a relationship. That's pretty normal.
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26 Dec 2020, 10:22 pm
quite an extreme wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The experiences I had were my fault (not the girls) as I was the one who had expectations but unless the single male is gay they will develop feelings for you unless they don't find you attractive. That is of course another story as I did the same thing to a few girls who I didn't find attractive but tried to be friends. One of them is still friends with me on facebook. So I guess two can play that game.
One problems is that guys have quite different expectations than girls. Some are aware of that but many aren't. Most women are much more aware of other people and much more calculating if it comes to a relationship. That's pretty normal.
I must have been a guy in my early youth
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26 Dec 2020, 10:28 pm
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Joe90 wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Sounds like you’re not as bad-looking as you think you are.
I’m not terrible-looking—and that of stuff has never happened to me.
Except when I was 15, and this Hispanic girl got aggressive because she thought I was smart.
Never as an adult.
I’m not terrible-looking—and that of stuff has never happened to me.
Except when I was 15, and this Hispanic girl got aggressive because she thought I was smart.
Never as an adult.
Then I gotta wonder why lot of men don't hit on me or why I dont have hundreds of horny fans on my pages. My husband thinks if I would show my face and my body more.
Why are you so worried about all that if you already have a husband?
It means I am not attractive. Anyone who tries to tell me I am pretty, I don't believe them.
If people are looking for what your husband said, it means you are not a slut sex worker.
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27 Dec 2020, 1:20 am
cyberdad wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The experiences I had were my fault (not the girls) as I was the one who had expectations but unless the single male is gay they will develop feelings for you unless they don't find you attractive. That is of course another story as I did the same thing to a few girls who I didn't find attractive but tried to be friends. One of them is still friends with me on facebook. So I guess two can play that game.
One problems is that guys have quite different expectations than girls. Some are aware of that but many aren't. Most women are much more aware of other people and much more calculating if it comes to a relationship. That's pretty normal.
Precisely correct. This video illustrates exactly what I was saying.
Give it a rest mate.
Most men are probably like that but not *all* men are, especially those on the spectrum.
Remember, you are an NT.
27 Dec 2020, 1:22 am
League_Girl wrote:
Pepe wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Sounds like you’re not as bad-looking as you think you are.
I’m not terrible-looking—and that of stuff has never happened to me.
Except when I was 15, and this Hispanic girl got aggressive because she thought I was smart.
Never as an adult.
I’m not terrible-looking—and that of stuff has never happened to me.
Except when I was 15, and this Hispanic girl got aggressive because she thought I was smart.
Never as an adult.
Then I gotta wonder why lot of men don't hit on me or why I dont have hundreds of horny fans on my pages. My husband thinks if I would show my face and my body more.
You keep on advertising your website but don't give any details.
I gather it is a soft porn thing?
Yeah, the face is important.
Yeah it's an adult thing. I can't share it here.
Because of WP policy or personal privacy?
BTW, I like your broad-mindedness.
