What Are Your Biggest Put-Offs?

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-Guys who are too confident and too relaxed; ie. too comfortable with themselves. They're boring.

-Guys who pretend to know what they are talking about, but don't have a clue. (Ie, in discussing politics, the environment, etc.) I've met WAY too many of these. I think there's something about my easy-going demeanor that guys misinterpret as "I'm easily impressed".

-Guys who comment on your appearance. "You're beautiful" is NOT a compliment, unless you know someone well and are commenting on their person as a whole.

And most of the things that have already been said; neediness is a really big one.

-Stupid
-Extremely Conservative or Liberal (Extreme people aren't my thing....)
-Druggie
-Too obsessed with their appearance...
-No future (like...no college education...going to work at Target their whole life)
-Needy
-Bad anger management
-Ugly feet (because I have a foot fetish )

-Skinny- I prefer chubby.
-Stupid.
-Smokes, drinks alcohol, or takes drugs(see stupid).
-Piercings and tattoos.
-Swears alot.
-Cannot interact on my mental level.
-Poor, weak minded, no aspirations.

long list of requirements
one way
don't have their own interests
shallow

Traits that put me off, regardless of anything that I like or respect:
• Social conservative political stance.
• Smoking.
• Thinks that an SUV is a necessity for living in either America or in similar infrastructures.
• Enjoys indulging in celebrity-gossip media.
• Keeps the sound on the TV un-muted during commercials.

Specific to prospective mates, in addition to the above:
• Jewelry worn on lips or other mouth parts.
• Refuses to ever consider (or isn't biologically capable of) having even one child.

Extreme selfishness, closed-mindedness, prejudice.

Hell, I wouldn't be interested in anything that
wanted to spawn (I think).

Bad hygiene. Yech.

-plays mind games
-very needy
-very irrational (i don't want a robot but there are extremes..)
-the flat-earther type (doesn't even listen to evidence/arguments, forget about actually examining them - basically this means religious nuts, most conspiracy theorists, loony far-left types)
-thinks celebrity gossip is important (in the way the economy or wars are important)
-cannot understand that not everyone has the same idea of fun
-does things just because it's what pop culture tells them to do, regardless of whether they want to do them or not
-people who have more affection for animals than they would for any human being whatsoever(I've had very bad experiences with pets - they actually improved my opinion of humanity)
-tells others what to think and how to live
-really shallow types
-applies tons of makeup or has lots of piercings or dyes hair a ridiculously artificial colour or dyes it blonde (natural blondes OK)
-totally incompatible interests
-the 'I'm a princess' type (so you want your father to trade you, along with an estate, for a military alliance?)
-the 'I'm a feminist but you have to pay for everything' type (I believe in equality, I cook, I don't think women have a duty to wear makeup or high heels, I don't like women that expect equal rights but expect special treatment when it comes to unpleasant things. i want a relationship among equals)
-then man-hating type

- Hygene issue
- easy
- not family oriented
- wants to spend my $$ on crap
- asks to use my car (i trust nobody driving my car, uninshured)

- I used to not want a girl with a kid, but i realize, i can live with this, as long as I get to have kids with her 2, hehehehehe.