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11 Feb 2023, 7:48 pm

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Some women watch porn, too.

Do tell. I lost interest, but curious what women like. Useful study, because they desire to have those fantasies satisfied.


Women like different things, but many women watch it for the same reasons that many men do.



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11 Feb 2023, 10:48 pm

My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:



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11 Feb 2023, 11:12 pm

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The way I see it appearance is what initially attracts 2 people to each other and everything else comes after

Depends how the 2 people first got to know each other. Occasionally people meet first in text-based online forums like Wrong Planet, where they each have no idea what the other person looks like.

Obviously, IF two people first met in a bar, or on one of today's looks-oriented dating apps, THEN the first thing they will have noticed about each other is each other's appearance.


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11 Feb 2023, 11:25 pm

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My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...



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11 Feb 2023, 11:29 pm

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My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...


It is all vanilla sex, nothing too weird.

The pattern I noticed in her videos is outdoor sex, something that is difficult to do anyway. :|



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11 Feb 2023, 11:40 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...


It is all vanilla sex, nothing too weird.

The pattern I noticed in her videos is outdoor sex, something that is difficult to do anyway. :|

I guess you gonna need to find some woods. :lol:



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11 Feb 2023, 11:55 pm

This thread needs more rubber chicken.



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12 Feb 2023, 6:52 am

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I was shallow when I started dating my wife, but when I realized just how much effort you have to put in to keep a relationship alive, you start to focus on your social skills a whole lot more.


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12 Feb 2023, 11:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...


It is all vanilla sex, nothing too weird.

The pattern I noticed in her videos is outdoor sex, something that is difficult to do anyway. :|

Camping trip?


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12 Feb 2023, 11:40 am

Misslizard wrote:
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r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...


It is all vanilla sex, nothing too weird.

The pattern I noticed in her videos is outdoor sex, something that is difficult to do anyway. :|

Camping trip?


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12 Feb 2023, 11:53 am

I mentioned this topic to my daughter and she said there's a huge movement on TikTok of young women saying they like big men, meaning the chubby overweight ones as opposed to the muscular ones. It started with a song and turned into a whole social media thing. I looked at some of the videos and read the comments below. Most women are saying the same thing, that they like men with a belly instead of hardbody types, and they think "big guys" are more attractive.

I'm not saying if that's true or false because everyone can have their own opinion. I just thought I'd use this to counter the squirrel video comments.

There are all sorts of these videos online showing young women who like big guys. The song wasn't supposed to be about tall guys but somehow they've been lumped in too.


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12 Feb 2023, 1:06 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I mentioned this topic to my daughter and she said there's a huge movement on TikTok of young women saying they like big men, meaning the chubby overweight ones as opposed to the muscular ones. It started with a song and turned into a whole social media thing. I looked at some of the videos and read the comments below. Most women are saying the same thing, that they like men with a belly instead of hardbody types, and they think "big guys" are more attractive.

I'm not saying if that's true or false because everyone can have their own opinion. I just thought I'd use this to counter the squirrel video comments.

There are all sorts of these videos online showing young women who like big guys. The song wasn't supposed to be about tall guys but somehow they've been lumped in too.



I noticed from work that the muscular men get considerably more attention than the chubbier men.

I think that video is an offshoot of the fat acceptance movement but for men. The fat acceptance movement is for the most part disliked with almost universal distain. Check out the likes to dislike ratio on all fat acceptance promotion videos and read the comments on all articles and it'll give a general flavour of public consensus.

Compare this to videos that are critical of the fat acceptance movement and the difference is very noticeable.



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12 Feb 2023, 1:09 pm

The first person that I dated and had a crush on for a long time before that was obese.



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12 Feb 2023, 1:32 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
My gf’s browser history is full of porn. :lol:

Question is, will you try anything she looks at...


It is all vanilla sex, nothing too weird.

The pattern I noticed in her videos is outdoor sex, something that is difficult to do anyway. :|

I guess you gonna need to find some woods. :lol:



Uhhh…. not gonna happen.



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12 Feb 2023, 2:05 pm

Great, so now it’s fb. vs tiktok.



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12 Feb 2023, 2:26 pm

1986 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
1986 wrote:
I was shallow when I started dating my wife, but when I realized just how much effort you have to put in to keep a relationship alive, you start to focus on your social skills a whole lot more.


:thumright:

If your marriage ever goes on the rocks, keep me in mind.
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If my marriage would be to end in disaster, I'd probably spend ten years at the bottom of a beer glass and then the rest of my life alone in a mountain cabin. :lol:

Are you saying I have another 9.5 to go? Damn that hair of the dog. That's rough.