Dating a Stripper
Mikomi
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There you go again with your stupid f***ing Politically Correct BS . YOU yourself have a personality type that lends itself to judgement; or maybe just to self-righteousness. Sounds to me like you really havent known many strippers at all.
This is not the first time Ive met a stripper. I have known several before and yes, they DO have certain common personality traits. Its Obviously not for everyone-even every woman who's capable of getting hired as one. So why the hell are you accusing ME of being the one insinuating that strippers are closet whores? LePetitPrince is the one who made the implication.
I think you have some major anger problems.
Bah! Im getting really irritated with people not carefully reading my later posts and continuing to berate me over the OP.
But I also have no patience for that self-righteous you're a bad person for judging people. EVEN for things that they have control over attitude. So quit misquoting me and next time you shoot your mouth off take a little time to Read the most current post. You're still giving me s**t about the OP even though its >60 posts behind so say something relevant or STFU .
Wouldn't it be a woman who works in a jewelry shop or designer boutique, where the guys with money go to shop?
Just as wrong a supposition.
I have **never** cheated on a boyfriend. I have dumped one to date another, but didn't go on the first date with #2 til I dumped #1. (That was in high school).
Huh. It sounds like I've had so many boyfriends. Nope. I'm 40 and I've had 7 boyfriends in my entire life. I'm single now, and have been for years.
Well, I am going to be less sarcastic this time and I going to be bluntly honest but I think you already guessed that I disrespect your former job and I don't highly view the people who do such job intentionally. I know that poverty and misery can force some girls to do such jobs but they would hate doing them but ,according to your post, I don't think this is your case because you feel proud for being a former stripper.
For me, Stripping, Pornstarring and Prostitution are all in the same basket. Yes , it's true that each one is a different "profession" but all requires the same formula : Selling your nude body to the public.
A job that requires ass/boobs shaking *even without any touching* in front of drunk men who ejaculate in their pants doesn't make it more 'honorable' than prostitution. As I said, sex is not just penetration , for humans, sex is primarily visual because humans are very visual creatures (they depend on their sight sense more than any other sense) ....so yea sex can be visual.....and yeah, this automatically makes you cheating on your boyfriend even if you deny this for 10000 years , fact is a fact and doesn't give damn of how you think.
And no my dear , stripping is not like stewardess service and modeling .....this was a nice try from you btw , trying desperately to twist the reality of this job and trying to convince people that stripping is a normal job like stewardess and modeling or like any customer service job. Stop disgracing the people who do these jobs.
And no my dear Apurta stripping is not dancing , dancing is an art that people clap for it for its artistic value but any attractive nude woman can make horny drunk men to clap with their hands and with their d****
And no my dear WP strippers , I am not religious , in fact I am very atheist ex-muslim.
And No my dear WP strippers , I am not sexist because I don't view male strippers any higher.
And No my dear WP strippers , being an ex-muslim doesn't mean that I was sexist . In fact one of the things that I very dislike in Islam is its inhuman sexism.
If you are really an aspie then you are a disgrace for aspie community and women.
If you're not , then you are a disgrace for women anyways.
In both cases , you are disgrace.
You think that you are single now because you are an aspie? Think again.
Regards,
Last edited by LePetitPrince on 01 Feb 2008, 3:37 pm, edited 3 times in total.
D1nk0, stop over-analysing . This girl is a headache , you should never fall in love with her. Any girl (or guy) who accepts to do such 'job' has twisted views about morals and twisted people can never be good mates with aspies. If you have some self-dignity then don't date her.
Stripping is a dirty job that can only be intentionally performed by people who lost their self-dignity or who have twisted ideas about self-dignity . ***Final point***
If your going to indulge in a self-righteous, moralistic rant, i think you should at least do fabshelly the courtesy of attempting to explain this comment, as she previously requested. Or be prepared to retract it.
You obviously view women as lesser humans than yourself (proof includes the insulting, condescending "Dear" and your unbelievably ignorant statements.)
There's no way to explain reality to you, you've made up your mind, like Bill O'Reilly, that your opinion, no matter how wrong, is fact.
Have a nice whatever.
Wouldn't it be a woman who works in a jewelry shop or designer boutique, where the guys with money go to shop?
Just as wrong a supposition.
I have **never** cheated on a boyfriend. I have dumped one to date another, but didn't go on the first date with #2 til I dumped #1. (That was in high school).
Huh. It sounds like I've had so many boyfriends. Nope. I'm 40 and I've had 7 boyfriends in my entire life. I'm single now, and have been for years.
Well, I am going to be less sarcastic this time and I going to be bluntly honest but I think you already guessed that I disrespect your former job and I don't highly view the people who do such job intentionally. I know that poverty and misery can force some girls to do such jobs but they would hate doing them but ,according to your post, I don't think this is your case because you feel proud for being a former stripper.
For me, Stripping, Pornstarring and Prostitution are all in the same basket. Yes , it's true that each one is a different "profession" but all requires the same formula : Selling your nude body to the public.
A job that requires ass/boobs shaking *even without any touching* in front of drunk men who ejaculate in their pants doesn't make it more 'honorable' than prostitution. As I said, sex is not just penetration , for humans, sex is primarily visual because humans are very visual creatures (they depend on their sight sense more than any other sense) ....so yea sex can be visual.....and yeah, this automatically makes you cheating on your boyfriend even if you deny this for 10000 years , fact is a fact and doesn't give damn of how you think.
And no my dear , stripping is not like stewardess service and modeling .....this was a nice try from you btw , trying desperately to twist the reality of this job and trying to convince people that stripping is a normal job like stewardess and modeling or like any customer service job. Stop disgracing the people who do these jobs.
And no my dear Apurta stripping is not dancing , dancing is an art that people clap for it for its artistic value but any attractive nude woman can make horny drunk men to clap with their hands and with their d****
And no my dear WP strippers , I am not religious , in fact I am very atheist ex-muslim.
And No my dear WP strippers , I am not sexist because I don't view male strippers any higher.
And No my dear WP strippers , being an ex-muslim doesn't mean that I was sexist . In fact one of the things that I very dislike in Islam is its inhuman sexism.
If you are really an aspie then you are a disgrace for aspie community and women.
If you're not , then you are a disgrace for women anyways.
In both cases , you are disgrace.
You think that you are single now because you are an aspie? Think again.
Regards,
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I wonder if Homo Sapiens Sapiens called Neanderthals "NT"s too?
There is a 'self' in 'self-dignity'. Its dignity that is self-defined, ie. not defined by someone else. (thats why they call it 'self-dignity' and not 'LePetitPrince-dignity' )
Moreover, when you were stripping did you have particularly stringent boundaries with your bf about how much attention he could give/expect from you? The girl I was dating was fussy about "being obsessed over" so when I shewed her attention she pushed me away. Thats the main reason I decided to call it off, she wasnt prepared to give me a lot of attention nor could she tolerate having lots of attention from me.
Amazingly good money, and I was sick of having to talk to people over a desk, wearing office clothes, etc.
No, not really. I think your girlfriend has more issues; the other strippers I knew fell into two categories: the businesswomen like myself, saving money for school or supporting a kid or two, and the effed-up ones with mental problems, who'd get drunk at work, do drugs, work in clubs that weren't "clean" where touching patrons was a sideline.
Those clubs aren't considered by professional exotic dancers to be the same thing at all. It's like saying McDonald's is a restaurant and The Four Seasons is a restaurant. Yes, but very different. People like PetitePenis just don't understand it, they probably think McDonald's is fine dining as well.
But yeah, her problems don't seem to have less to do with her career as with her psyche. I think she'd be the same way in any CS position.
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I wonder if Homo Sapiens Sapiens called Neanderthals "NT"s too?
There's no way to explain reality to you, you've made up your mind, like Bill O'Reilly, that your opinion, no matter how wrong, is fact.
Have a nice whatever.
So using the word dear is equal of women-hating? Yea, right ....maybe because your jerk customers were used to call you dear .
Again , you fail:
As long that I am putting the male strippers and the female strippers on the same level then I am not being sexist here. =)
Have a nice day , my lady.
Moreover, when you were stripping did you have particularly stringent boundaries with your bf about how much attention he could give/expect from you? The girl I was dating was fussy about "being obsessed over" so when I shewed her attention she pushed me away. Thats the main reason I decided to call it off, she wasnt prepared to give me a lot of attention nor could she tolerate having lots of attention from me.
Those clubs aren't considered by professional exotic dancers to be the same thing at all. It's like saying McDonald's is a restaurant and The Four Seasons is a restaurant. Yes, but very different. People like PetitePenis just don't understand it, they probably think McDonald's is fine dining as well.
Who's this PetitePenis? this user must be really creative for choosing such nickname .... I think he has a high sense of humor , and I guess he has the enough intelligence to know the difference between MacDonald and a Dining restaurant , and I guess too that this user has the enough awareness to know that stripping has the same formula of prostitution = Selling the own's body to the Public (and not necessarily tangibly) . This user is aware that debating a stripper about the morality of stripping is useless.
Btw, they say Le Petit Pénis and not Le Petite Penis , penis is a masculine noun so they don't add an 'e' to the adjective.
There is a 'self' in 'self-dignity'. Its dignity that is self-defined, ie. not defined by someone else. (thats why they call it 'self-dignity' and not 'LePetitPrince-dignity' )
Well in this case, 'LePetitPrince-dignity' is much better than her self-dignity.
I know you might take offense to this fabshelly, but I honestly think that from a statistical standpoint the odds of a stripper cheating on her bf are not all that remote. This doesnt mean that all strippers are whores but I have no doubt that there's PLENT-Y of temptation.Moreover what I Have been told by Several strippers is that drug addiction is a MAJOR hazard for people in the business. AFAIK its the drug-addicted strippers who are the most likely to whore themselves out-which should be pretty obvious because they're desperate. Seems to me like if you dont get out of the exotic dance profession after a few years-or make it a longterm career that the job gets much harder and so the older strippers are probably the ones most likely to actually sleep with patrons on occasion.
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