Being Bitter Not Going to Help you Get a Woman

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I think in the end different is bad - period. Things like bitterness or whatever else are just convenient scapegoats (and usually more biproduct than cause) for a lot of things that most people in society really can't or wouldn't want to have to admit to themselves about their world let alone another person.

I really try not to be bitter just because I don't like what it emotionally does to me. I also know that any proactive choices that I make to shoot for a hardened sense of optimism will go monetarily unrewarded for the most part. IMO choosing to take the brighter path has to be done so rather than measure it by payoff from other people I try to measure it in payoff in terms of how I feel about myself or how it eases up life in any general way.

Sure, its not the cure-all-end-all of internal strife but its one more piece to solidifying yourself emotionally. To me anything that's brought more stability has been a plus.

CHEESE PENIS.

Aridarr, WHY DONT YOU SHUT THE f**k UP. NO ONE ELSE HERE GIVES A f**k ABOUT CHEESE PENISES!

I think I just got the mental equivalent of the blue screen of death...

404: Brain not found.

Oh, it's in there. It just ain't right.

I was referring to my brain, but whatever...

Thats the decoded version of Aridarr's "cheese penis" post .

I get that whenever I ask my boyfriend a question that requires an answer of more than 5 words.

Aridarr, I'm going to pick my words real precisely here. You're being a poopiehead.

Being bitter will not get you anywhere. That's true enough. I haven't found anyone yet that I am compatible with. I know a few girls that are relatively nice on the eyes but don't have very much up top. Most of those are tied but even if they weren't I don't think I'd want much besides a quick hump.

It's also not going to help a woman get a man. I was bitter, for five years after a bad experience with a male colleague, in college. If I wasn't so bitter, I would have trusted men, a lot sooner.

i care.

plus she was just following the thread--> racially pure aspies, aspergers, ass-burgers, hold the mayo, burgers with cheese, race-pure=inbreeding, inbreeding=members with cheese...

duh.

Mmmmm, hopefully no one jumps in on that level here that was out to burn me at the stake in another memorable thread. If that does happen I'll be laughing my ass off, the antipathy and strictly self-sided empathy around here these days is getting ridiculous...

Bitterness seems more of a consequence rather than a cause.

These threads are annoying. . . there are certain stereotypes that repeat themselves in forums like this (the x-men mentality, witch hunting the sane, the bitter guy preaching that women only crave for money, the whole Alpha Male bull*, etc. . .) and this is one of them. . . It's almost insulting in a very subtle way. . .

Thing is, if you are spiritually anywhere beyond being "a completely hollow person", having longed for a serious relationship with the best intentions and not getting it - EVER; not even a kiss - for reasons that have nothing to do with why you should in theory be or not be in a relationship; then that's a perfectly sane reason to be unhappy. . . to be devastated. . . certainly to feel less confident than otherwise.

There is a point where you just have to be true to yourself. I'm sorry for all those girls saying "I don't like losers, no weirdoes, only happy people with no problems at all, etc. . . " but this happens not to be a breast implant we are talking about. A past history. . . feelings. . . thoughts, albeit painful, are not something that doesn't somewhat bind present life and identity - and the point of acting against all that to please some random person that has already disrespected you at the core by stating you will not be accepted if you do otherwise. . . that point is long gone, it's nought, it's non-existent. . . It defeats the purpose of a relationship in the first place. In a sense, it's far worse than saying "If you don't have breast implants get lost".

At least leave me my name. . .