21 Apr 2008, 12:35 pm
21 Apr 2008, 1:23 pm
ford_prefects_kid wrote:
D1nk0 wrote:
BTW MissConstrue, there are Puh-len-ty of posts and even a few threads putting men down in the Womens Discussion Forum. So dont go around acting like its only guys who do it. Though I am NOT accusing you personally of doing it, not at all 
.Some other NT women have agreed with me that women often take longer to figure out what it is they really want in a man and most young women really dont know for sure. I cant begin to tell you how many times Ive heard young women say: "I dont know what I want! I only know how I feel!
.Some other NT women have agreed with me that women often take longer to figure out what it is they really want in a man and most young women really dont know for sure. I cant begin to tell you how many times Ive heard young women say: "I dont know what I want! I only know how I feel!Trust me, I don't agree with any sort of generalized sex bashing- male or female. It's ridiculous, and makes me lose respect for the person who does it. Hypothetical quandries are one thing, but "All members of [insert gender here] want this and this only, I know because a member of said gender told me once in high school/college!" proclamations are quite another.
The thing is- this is called the "Love and dating" forum. Not the "Men's forum." We'd like to come here for problems too, you know? Whereas I can't imagine what most men are doing in the women's forum other than satisfying curiousity. (I understand that, I'm a terrible lurker myself) Difference is, if I run across a purely testosterone driven forum whining about bad luck with girls and, subsequently villanizing my gender, I don't jump in with "HEYYYY!! ! this boys' talk ends now, FPK is here- and you sir, have offended me and my own!"
BUT- I don't think of wrongplanet as being one of those purely testosterone driven forums. We are all dealing with some very serious, similar stuff here- regardless of gender. So... let's hold hands with our aspie brothers and sisters, and admit whether we've had a decade of experience at the ripe old age of 21
or nearly a lifetime of knowledge in love, we don't know everything there is to know about the mysteries of men/women.(This wasn't even remotely directed all towards you D1nk0, I just used your post as a springboard.)
Incidentally, we used to have a men's discussion forum.
21 Apr 2008, 3:45 pm
Specter wrote:
I don't see why anyone would want to be a jerk :S I'm pretty much a "choir boy" as the term goes, and that's not a problem for me. I don't get a lot of girls, but the one that I have is as sweet as can be, and that's what matters to me. 
You're 17. Trust me, it gets worse in your 20's. Much worse.
21 Apr 2008, 4:14 pm
Woah, I had no idea. Is that a fact 
or
Idea 
22 Apr 2008, 4:19 am
MissConstrue wrote:
Woah, I had no idea. Is that a fact
or
Idea
or
Idea
It's a fact... I think, anyways. People get more messed up as they mature. They develop bad habits, negative characteristics, preconceived notions about people, and a whole lot else.
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22 Apr 2008, 5:47 pm
I'm sort of attracted myself to the bad girl a bit, I like a woman with a bit of backbone. But if she acts like a b***h she get's treated like a b***h.
But I'm more attracted to woman that are warm and kindheated. 
Those woman are the ones I feel like and treat good.
I don't think you want to treat woman poorly, but also you don't want to be some sort of whipping boy either. 
22 Apr 2008, 7:52 pm
^Hmmm, the whipping boy. 
"Crack goes the black leather whip."
Can't help it, just had to add something to this. I don't know anything about that stuff. 
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22 Apr 2008, 9:31 pm
Do you really own a whip? 
I am a very naughty boy.
I mean I have no interest in being anybodies whipping boy. 
23 Apr 2008, 1:06 am
23 Apr 2008, 1:15 am
I am a "playful jerk", and sometimes cross lines that I don't even recognise as lines.
23 Apr 2008, 1:37 am
jawbrodt wrote:
I am a "playful jerk", and sometimes cross lines that I don't even recognise as lines.
Im outta here, Bro.
23 Apr 2008, 1:42 am
D1nk0 wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
I am a "playful jerk", and sometimes cross lines that I don't even recognise as lines.
Im outta here, Bro.
It sounded like you and that other guy were gonna fight.
23 Apr 2008, 1:46 am
jawbrodt wrote:
D1nk0 wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
I am a "playful jerk", and sometimes cross lines that I don't even recognise as lines.
Im outta here, Bro.
It sounded like you and that other guy were gonna fight.
Oh no, the other guy is perfectly friendly towards me....for now. I just didnt know what you meant when you said "Im outta here". Im honestly not planning to get involved in this, but at least I wanna get to know her.
23 Apr 2008, 1:55 am
Sometimes when I post, I don't realize how things sound, to others. Good luck with the lady. It sounds promising. 
23 Apr 2008, 12:12 pm
ford_prefects_kid wrote:
D1nk0 wrote:
BTW MissConstrue, there are Puh-len-ty of posts and even a few threads putting men down in the Womens Discussion Forum. So dont go around acting like its only guys who do it. Though I am NOT accusing you personally of doing it, not at all .Some other NT women have agreed with me that women often take longer to figure out what it is they really want in a man and most young women really dont know for sure. I cant begin to tell you how many times Ive heard young women say: "I dont know what I want! I only know how I feel!
.Some other NT women have agreed with me that women often take longer to figure out what it is they really want in a man and most young women really dont know for sure. I cant begin to tell you how many times Ive heard young women say: "I dont know what I want! I only know how I feel!Trust me, I don't agree with any sort of generalized sex bashing- male or female. It's ridiculous, and makes me lose respect for the person who does it. Hypothetical quandries are one thing, but "All members of [insert gender here] want this and this only, I know because a member of said gender told me once in high school/college!" proclamations are quite another.
The thing is- this is called the "Love and dating" forum. Not the "Men's forum." We'd like to come here for problems too, you know? Whereas I can't imagine what most men are doing in the women's forum other than satisfying curiousity. (I understand that, I'm a terrible lurker myself) Difference is, if I run across a purely testosterone driven forum whining about bad luck with girls and, subsequently villanizing my gender, I don't jump in with "HEYYYY!! ! this boys' talk ends now, FPK is here- and you sir, have offended me and my own!"
BUT- I don't think of wrongplanet as being one of those purely testosterone driven forums. We are all dealing with some very serious, similar stuff here- regardless of gender. So... let's hold hands with our aspie brothers and sisters, and admit whether we've had a decade of experience at the ripe old age of 21
or nearly a lifetime of knowledge in love, we don't know everything there is to know about the mysteries of men/women.(This wasn't even remotely directed all towards you D1nk0, I just used your post as a springboard.)
23 Apr 2008, 6:03 pm
