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04 May 2008, 7:41 am

Yes.

I'm too lazy to be descriptive, sorry.

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04 May 2008, 8:37 am

Poeticromance wrote:

Just felt like asking xD. You can be districpitive and I like HONESTY.

Yes. It looks like you have a good figure, pretty eyes, and that splash of purple in your hair is hot. Very cute.

It sounds like to me that you can attract people with your looks. You just have to work on keeping them there with other things, making a good connection and such.

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04 May 2008, 2:18 pm

It looks like there is very little I can add to this

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04 May 2008, 4:55 pm

Thomas1138 wrote:

Hold on. Are you saying that you can socialize with your friends, but you have difficulty socializing with your boyfriends/girlfriends?

If that's the problem, it may simply be a matter of compatibility and nerves.

No, I mean new people. I have a hard time getting BF/GFs because new people scare me.

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04 May 2008, 5:01 pm

Poeticromance wrote:

I like HONESTY.

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04 May 2008, 9:53 pm

zombie wrote:

Poeticromance wrote:

Just felt like asking xD. You can be districpitive and I like HONESTY.

Personally i rekon you look cute

yea I think shes beautiful.

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04 May 2008, 9:59 pm

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a girl DOESN'T need much social skills to get a bf, the shyest girl of the world can get a bf if she's attractive, Poeticromance is not a guy for god's sake! What she needs is to be more attractive, so giving her tips to become more attractive (physically) would be more useful that giving cliché advices such as 'be social' , a useless advice to an aspie nonetheless.

That is absolutely not true. The prettiest girl in the world may attract a lot of guys but attraction alone does not a relationship make. Trust me, I know this from experience. Besides, being shy and being aspie are two completely different things. They sometimes overlap, but they are separate.

Dating and having relationships is just as hard for aspie girls as it is for guys. Seems like a big misconception that we have it easier or something.

Improved looks do help, as does the self-confidence that comes with them. But social skills are the big one. Not just talking to people as an alternative to shy silence, but the actual social skills that are so difficult for all of us. You're right that "Be social" is useless advice, but I don't know if anyone said that. What is excellent advice is to commit to learning social skills and understanding other people. You can still be shy and have good social skills.

Are you saying that you have so much experience with the attraction aspect that you now take it for granted, and are possibly even jaded with it? The fact that you're saying "attraction alone does not a relationship make", shows that it IS easier for the women, or at least for you. You apparently can afford to nitpick about this and that, which means you are several steps ahead of where many guys are. All of the women I know who are staying out of relationships, are doing so voluntarily, usually because they're unhealthy, jaded, or both. Learn to appreciate what you have, and take care of yourself so you don't end up like that.

Don't say "no, no, no" to everyone you meet, and then complain about how life is so boring and lonely. You gotta start somewhere, and nobody is perfect.

Personally, I could find a way to have fun with attraction, with the possibility of developing a relationship, as long as there aren't any major problems.

that comes down to if you want a bang or a true romance. If Poetic is looking to be intimate thats fine then maybe prince's advice may help her but looking for a romance that works for awhile is alot harder and takes more then looks into account. You can afford to nitpick too but attitude is a big thing some guys are just too open in the beginning most of my dates found me quite in the begginning but fell in love with me and with the exception of one or two exs I'd say they would all get back with me if they could.

In the end too many people with Asperger's have self defeating mentality which causes problems. If I go by most of the boards here I've had many more gfs then most people here but I'm not going in there ready to fail nor does it affect me if that girl turns around and says "I'm not interested." I think katie was right regardless because I personally feel if its not a chance of a romance that is going to last and add to my lfie and experiences its just not worth it.

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04 May 2008, 10:07 pm

Poeticromance wrote:

Just felt like asking xD. You can be districpitive and I like HONESTY.

You Look Mahvelous

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04 May 2008, 10:45 pm

Yeah I think you're cute but I think you hate me now.

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05 May 2008, 6:32 pm

No.

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06 May 2008, 12:13 am

I think I'm good looking.

Why do you people keeping posting this girls photo over and over? I bet someone has done something odd or interesting while looking at this photo.

Poeticromance, how old are, 16 or 17? I'm going to assume you're in high school. Many guys probably don't approach because you may dress or appear different than what is perceived as normal in high school. Also, if you're the same person that mentioned you hang out with some bimbo that's concerned about being too pretty. Being around her probably doesn't help too much when trying to meet guys. Most high school kids, I'm assuming, will try to get with her for an easy lay.

If you go to college you will probably find a wider variety of people that find you attractive.

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06 May 2008, 3:56 am

Dokken wrote:

Why do you people keeping posting this girls photo over and over? I bet someone has done something odd or interesting while looking at this photo

lmao. These people aren't actually posting her picture over and over again. They are just quoting things she said where she posted a picture.

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06 May 2008, 3:04 pm

All the same...eww.

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06 May 2008, 3:36 pm

pat666rick wrote:

Dokken wrote:

Why do you people keeping posting this girls photo over and over? I bet someone has done something odd or interesting while looking at this photo

I'd feel complamented yet kinda scared at the same time by that comment made, lol.

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I'm 17, yes. FINALLY SOMEONE AGREES WITH ME ABOUT THAT! Everytime I tell my two BFFs that if the guy magent girl is around me when I see a cute guy, it is hopless. They just go "NO NO NO! why would you even think that?" A lot of people think she is an easy lay because of how out going and open she is but she's not.

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06 May 2008, 3:40 pm

Poeticromance wrote:

Thomas1138 wrote:

No, I mean new people. I have a hard time getting BF/GFs because new people scare me.

Can you date some of your already friends?

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06 May 2008, 3:41 pm

Thomas1138 wrote:

Poeticromance wrote:

Thomas1138 wrote:

No, I mean new people. I have a hard time getting BF/GFs because new people scare me.

Can you date some of your already friends?

Yes, thats what I try to do all the time. Become friends first but that is one of the harder parts >.<

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