juliekitty wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
I hadn't had a committed relationship for
five years!
Then I met Mirror right her on WP, dated her through long drives
from Dallas to San Antonio, and then eventually married her.
We're
very happy together now, so obviously that five years' singlehood
of mine didn't mean a hill o' beans to whether I'd actually end up
happy one day.
Sometimes you're actually quite fit for
a relationship, but one just hasn't come along yet. In which case,
just be patient, and eventually it will.
Yup. It took me TEN YEARS since I broke up with my former fiance, to meet the guy I'm engaged to now.
I had a couple short-term boyfriends in between, but it took me a decade to meet "the one". And trust me, there were lots of times in those ten years when I thought I would be alone for the rest of my life.
Don't "just be patient", though -- keep looking. In those ten years, except for brief periods of exclusivity, I *never* stopped online dating. It wasn't always fun; in fact, it often felt like a part-time job. But if I hadn't stuck to it, I wouldn't be getting married in a month!
Online dating is not the best way recommended for straight guys, sometimes the number of males are double or even X3 , surely it's highly recommended for straight girls.....and you know that. Please,stop giving the online dating advice to straight guys , many of them would succumb in a big waste of time. What works for you rarely works for the Aspies of the other gender.
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Nobody will tolerate an unemployed (even if it's because of school) 28-year-old liberal in Texas.
That's why nobody wants to date me.
Exactly Tim, find a job, improve your financial status, your social status, improve yourself and then meet girls. Don't waste your time with online dating too much, if you want to try a good site just giving it a try for 1 week to 2 weeks ONLY, don't let yourself to be succumbed by them and don't look just for AS girls.
regards,